Originally posted by: Brahmaputra
There is no reference to show that yudhi got a moment to think before staking his wife, or he did it by himself. When it is clear what he wanted, nothing else matters.
About the 'description', being a guy, I cannot agree with what he did. Everything do not go with protocols. Draupadi was his wife, not a square shaped stake for him to throw away. She was no 'object' which he owned. She was not his slave to be displayed in public & make her feel insulted to the last beat of her soul. So, considering humanitarian grounds, Yudhi describing Draupadi is cannot be forgiven under any circumstances.
More importantly, there are 7 promises a man gives a woman (and vice versa) at the time of marriage. The vedic hymns said during marriages are not spells, but promises. Those were to be followed strictly under any circumstances because both man & woman are making promises as agnisakshi, agni deva as the witness of their promise.. I dont think playing a dice game was an exception to those such promises. So he had no right to stake Draupadi or display her like an object, or give her detailed physical description, under any circumstances, & under any protocols.
The rest happened only because yudhi staked his wife. Had there been no staking of her, there would have been no perspirations, laughters, claps and whatever blah blah blah.
Bold: Really? Did
YOU think before writing this ?😉
If Yudi erred , if he staked Draupadi, which certainly was wrong, does that give anybody else a right to abuse Drau? Two wrongs make a right? Certainly not?!!
Then by the logic which you just endorsed, if a skimpily dressed woman is raped, its her mistake, no?
It was in news last year that a Taxi driver raped a drunk woman who hired his car, she deserves to be raped because she was drunk?😲 ; in both cases one woman has wee bit of clothes on her and the other is under intoxication and what rest happened was because they were so blah blah blah blah !!
What would have happened if , after winning, Dury & co would not insult Drau and just said get lost to all pandavas, like they did during second dice game, who could hold them responsible for winning the dice game, even if it were by foul means?
if Yudi thought Drau as a mere object , he would have staked her first , even before his brothers and himself because going by 'object' logic she indeed was precious to them, no?
And what Karna and Kauravas did, they too thought it was a protocol to humiliate the one who had become a slave, they all followed protocols !
Yudi didn't consider humanitarian grounds- Yes and Karna, Kauravas et all followed it very diligently..
Karna even advises his bestie to showoff his wealth to Pandavas, more so to Krishnaa , so that she curses her fate looking Kuru wives in splendid attire - pre ghosha yatra again he too followed protocol of pleasing his bestie!