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Posted: 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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A very nice topic suv ...................

well according to me love, trust and space is only one side of a relationship. its like a one sided coin in which other side is jealousy,possesiveness and insecurity.
These r all steps thru which u realise tht u love sumone. Be tht love is for ur parents,sibling,frined or ur soulmate.

Love trust and space is needed to carry on ur relationship to great heights and to move on with it smoothly but insecurity , possessiveness and jealousy too is needed at sum point to know the deepness and heigths of ur love. Sometimes u dont relaise the love for a particular person but these 3 feeling makes u realise tht to wat extent u want them to be with u.

But as sumone said excess of everything is harmful. so if ur jealusy and insecurities strts overshadowing ur love and breaks the trust then its diffuclt for the relationship to survive.

So according to me ......insecurities,possessveness and jealousy affects ur relationship either in a positive way where it strengthens ur bond or in a negative way where it can even break ur relationship.

It is necessary is in every relationship but only to a certain extent.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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hey.......loved ur topic suvi.........

I do believe that a certain amount of jealousy and possesiveness is necessary in a relationship to show the love towards a person,and to show that person that you do love that person,u know,as a realization of your love.........

But anything in excess is not good as we all know.Over possessivenessm,jealousy and insecurity are very restricting in a relationship,and take away the space from the relation,and in this case,the relation is endangered,and becomes very fragile as well as troublesome for both the people involved in it.

ADI ROCKS!!!!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Gr8 topic suvi 👏

I believe every day have a might n every night have a day
Ever relationship goes thrugh a bad phase in the life but this make the relationship stronger

But sometimes excessive period of bad phase creats a bitter feeling in our heart which we should avoid

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Posted: 19 years ago
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hey gr8 topic n i am just in time....

Love sees sharply, hatred sees even more sharp, but Jealousy sees the sharpest for it is love and hate at the same time

i beleiev jealousy comes in every realtionship not just with ur beloved. a little spice in life is ok but when it turns mamooth is the end of things.. being jealous makes u feel how deeply u feel for someone n also tht other person all realizes ur feelings.

why does jealousy arise.. tht is one complicated ques tht only d human heart can answer. we get jealous of small things "oh she got the t shirt n i didnt", why is mamma givin her so much importance... n these things r very small n imagine ur guy with another girl.. then it has to creep in... no one was born a saint n no one can never be... it just upto us tht jealousy shold be treated witha pich of salt n not let it become a ocean of one....

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