Kinda happy with the leap - Page 3

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

you realize that when they were forcefully married off to each other, Imlie was only 17? not only does that make her a child in the eyes of the law, it makes what Aditya did with Imlie behind Malini’s back grooming. that’s the right term for what happened. so your dislike, i’m afraid, is largely misplaced. it’s like blaming Aaliyah for what R.Kelly did. you don’t wanna go there. but you know what the funniest thing is that i heard Malini say? “woh ro kyun nahi rahi hai?”. she had gotten everything she ever wanted in the world aka Aditya. but her sole concern was why Imlie wasn’t crying. i think that pretty much sums Malini’s hate for Imlie. it’s irrational, excessive, and vindictive. beyond a point, it stopped having anything to do with Aditya. she took it as her life’s mission to make a human being’s life as exceptionally miserable as possible for the reason that she was still breathing, instead of actually living her life.

I don't think I have implied anywhere that Malini has not been acting like a psycho. Nor have I said that Aditya wasn't to blame. But my dislike for Imlie is not misplaced either. Your sympathy (and of so many viewers) is also misplaced, and tilting more towards Imlie because she loves to play the victim and act the hero.

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

you realize that when they were forcefully married off to each other, Imlie was only 17? not only does that make her a child in the eyes of the law, it makes what Aditya did with Imlie behind Malini’s back grooming. that’s the right term for what happened. so your dislike, i’m afraid, is largely misplaced. it’s like blaming Aaliyah for what R.Kelly did. you don’t wanna go there. but you know what the funniest thing is that i heard Malini say? “woh ro kyun nahi rahi hai?”. she had gotten everything she ever wanted in the world aka Aditya. but her sole concern was why Imlie wasn’t crying. i think that pretty much sums Malini’s hate for Imlie. it’s irrational, excessive, and vindictive. beyond a point, it stopped having anything to do with Aditya. she took it as her life’s mission to make a human being’s life as exceptionally miserable as possible for the reason that she was still breathing, instead of actually living her life.

And if being a teenager absolves us of so many things, then Imlie shouldn't have tried to "make her place" in a family where she didn't belong, except for circumstances that were forced on her, and instead focused on her so-called dreams. She is "young" and "innocent" when it suits and "fierce" and "independent" and whatever else her sympathisers like when it suits.

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Point a , b and c.. Hilarious and true..

She is a teenager so should leave important things for adults. Aditya didnt ask her to marry him.. teenager took that decision on her own.

Teenager has a habit to be mahaan and dictate the terms every single time.. Other fault is that they give her importance and care for her views..

She pushed Aditya towards Malini and then blamed Adi for betraying her when all mud spa episode happened.

She wanted Adi to believe her over Malini still her Malini Didi Jaap is still continuing.

It's amusing that this Cheeni is same girl , for who Imlie said to Malini, hum Amma banane wale hain

Anyone can see who weird is her obsession about Cheeni. If she wanted to protect her relation with Aryan, she could easily have given cheeni to Ts but no she has to do everything on her own. And one in love with her has to pay the price.

Dialogues about only and true love, feeling presence and all happened with Aditya as well. She told Aditya multiple times that you inspire me, you support me ( whole I love you track ), I want to be like you. So I don't know what's so special about her love for Aryan. If anything it makes her dialogues and feelings hollow.

Baqe Mr jaaniya bhi iske first marriage torne mein equally responsible ha doodh ka dhulla nahi ha 😂Haan agree malini ke tarah criminal activity nahi ke lekin aaj imlie jis condition mein use se prove hota ha kesa pyar tha iska ya kesa insan ha JB 😂

Lekin dosron ko blame kerna is easy 😂

Aaj dono behne ke saath jo kuch hua yeh khud responsible hain 😂

Teenager adults se bhi baray decision lete ha lekin Haan Jahan humein behtar lagta ha hum use teenager bana detay hain sahe ha wase 😆

Aryan's whole revenge drama was so hilarious. He started all his "I have been wronged, I will remain stone faced, I will destroy AKT" etc based on a misunderstanding. Really slow claps the man and details he collected before deciding to destroy someone's life..

Baqe no sympathies for this couple jo ho raha ha yeh deserve kertay hain. 😂😂😂

Bus jaatay jaatay us criminal DD ko bhi jail phenktay to best ho jaata jisne jo jo kea use wohe Mila 😂

Aditya ne acha kea time se khud ko in dono Behno se alaag ker lea Jo jise deserve kerta tha use wohe Mila 😂😂😂

Justice ho gya 😆

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Aryan's whole revenge drama was so hilarious. He started all his "I have been wronged, I will remain stone faced, I will destroy AKT" etc based on a misunderstanding. Really slow claps the man and details he collected before deciding to destroy someone's life..

Main yeh shadi imlie ko us toxic relationship se azaad karane k lea ker raha Hoon 😂

Bolo toxic kon nikla 😆

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Aryan's whole revenge drama was so hilarious. He started all his "I have been wronged, I will remain stone faced, I will destroy AKT" etc based on a misunderstanding. Really slow claps the man and details he collected before deciding to destroy someone's life..

ASR 3 is the worst creation of Gul Khan who is written very poorly 😆 Imlie was a state topper who was doing her 2nd yr degree

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Forced imlie into his revenge game. She never studied. She never did a proper journalist course.

Married her forcibly 😆

Made her pregnant 3 times 😆

First he questioned 1st child paternity and declared imlie was raped. Destroyed Madhavs career 😆

Then he declared imlie was responsible for her 2nd miscarriage and threw her out of Rathore Mansion .

He was living Five years with Malini whom he know was an evil woman and dancing on her lines 😆

Now He had made Imlie third time pregnant 🤣 He doesn't even remember it . Imlie is is once again thrown out from his life by Malini in front of him. And imlie is lying unconscious somewhere with a fully preg belly . 🤣

Imlie is really not an inspiring character. I hated her most for the careless & this so called SELFLESS nature. For the Adini broken relation Imlie was also responsible. Just because she was his first wife (with forcefully marriage) can't ignore this fact. She was a determined girl who wanted to become something & help her parents. But eventually got stuck in a messy relationship. Her husband did not accept this marriage first. But she still hold this marriage. WHY? Ok! Everyone would say ki she came with such a background and also she was just 18. So my question is if she wanted to hold this relationship then why can't she discuss it with anyone. She could have openly declare her marriage or discuss it with Malini. But again you would say ki she don't wanted to hurt Malini. Seriously? How could anyone do the different things at the same time. But no hum sara din babusahab babusaheb bhi karenge aur hum didi ko kast nahi de sakte hain bhi karenge. Aisa kaise chalega.

Her mistake was that she didn't discussed about her marriage with Malini & eventually fall in love. & Please just don't justify her "She fell for her husband". She should have focus on her career with the help of Malini & Aditya.

Her mistake was she always returned back even after humiliation. Leave & return.

Her mistake was she again interfere in Malini life. Somehow Aditya & Malini got married second time but she again return by refering T's apne. She wanted to save them with Malini like reallly? Just leave them Mata wo apne life k problems khud bhi suljha sakte the.

I hated her most because she taken Aryan for granted. I never saw her to talk in a better way with Aryan. When she fall in love with him? I don't know writer really failed by write her prospective.

& the fact is the makers always turned down all good character to gain sympathy for her.

Like they turned sweet Malini into destructive Malini. Arpita character also got affect at her remarriage track. A super sweet character Narmada got hated during pregnancy track. Aryan entered with all swag but after Aditya left he is just for stand as one of the family member.

I am listing down below People who were wronged and by whom. This is upto the point of Adini's second wedding.

Imlie: Villagers (forceful wedding),

Aditya (Bigamy ( don't think so but to include everything thats discussed,), not believing her (this was his fault according to me as well.))

Malini : Aditya (Bigamy)

Not adding AC here as her intention was never to actually destroy her

Aryan : No one actually. Adi's act was a misunderstanding so no mentioning here.

Aditya: Villagers (Forceful wedding),

Imlie (by taking that decision on his behalf. Villagers were killing Aditya not Imlie and he had clearly said that I would rather die than break my promise I made to someone in city)

Malini (rape)

Aryan (his entry was to destroy AKT and he did take steps in that direction. If Aryan is a good person and he had no motive to destroy AKT then I would like to believe that he would have taken some step to clean AKT-Imlie equation because he knew Malini was playing with AKT.)

and last but not the least HIMSELF : by not giving even benefit of doubt to person he loved.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Imlie is really not an inspiring character. I hated her most for the careless & this so called SELFLESS nature. For the Adini broken relation Imlie was also responsible. Just because she was his first wife (with forcefully marriage) can't ignore this fact. She was a determined girl who wanted to become something & help her parents. But eventually got stuck in a messy relationship. Her husband did not accept this marriage first. But she still hold this marriage. WHY? Ok! Everyone would say ki she came with such a background and also she was just 18. So my question is if she wanted to hold this relationship then why can't she discuss it with anyone. She could have openly declare her marriage or discuss it with Malini. But again you would say ki she don't wanted to hurt Malini. Seriously? How could anyone do the different things at the same time. But no hum sara din babusahab babusaheb bhi karenge aur hum didi ko kast nahi de sakte hain bhi karenge. Aisa kaise chalega.

Her mistake was that she didn't discussed about her marriage with Malini & eventually fall in love. & Please just don't justify her "She fell for her husband". She should have focus on her career with the help of Malini & Aditya.

Her mistake was she always returned back even after humiliation. Leave & return.

Her mistake was she again interfere in Malini life. Somehow Aditya & Malini got married second time but she again return by refering T's apne. She wanted to save them with Malini like reallly? Just leave them Mata wo apne life k problems khud bhi suljha sakte the.

I hated her most because she taken Aryan for granted. I never saw her to talk in a better way with Aryan. When she fall in love with him? I don't know writer really failed by write her prospective.

& the fact is the makers always turned down all good character to gain sympathy for her.

Like they turned sweet Malini into destructive Malini. Arpita character also got affect at her remarriage track. A super sweet character Narmada got hated during pregnancy track. Aryan entered with all swag but after Aditya left he is just for stand as one of the family member.

Well said! Malini ke case mein this line fits perfectly "Main karu toh saala character dheela hai" aur Imlie kare toh "she is just a teenager", "she is a victim", "she was forced", "she is not responsible". Arrey!! Definitely she is not alone responsible, but she shares the blame. But so many people on this thread itself (and God knows how many more) are happy to turn a blind eye to that.