The best parallel served to us Arylieans till date!!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

@b: which is exactly I'm seeing the show for. Man is a super nice guy. I'm really ignoring all the things he is saying rn. Because I know he's hurt and is just being defensive. Otherwise it would be unbearable to see all the nonsense Aryan seems to do these days.

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As I said, I only saw the show from Aryan's entry. Going by the initial episodes summary, I don't even want to enter into that territory. 🙏

Coming to comparison of imlie and Anu, I was not literally comparing their characters. I was just comparing their Stockholm syndrome kind of clingy nature towards their ex's. Just that nature, nothing else. Keeping her mahanta and panch panno ka bashan aside, Anu makes mistakes & acknowledges the same most of the times. I really appreciate it.

Coming to Aryan, would like to write in a separate reply.

And talking about learning from previous experiences, I don't seem to find Aryan's change in mentality. Kal bhi he couldnt handle a loss aur aaj bhi. Kal tak it was justice for Jeeju, aaj it's Cheeku. Tab Aditya gunegaar tha (yeh alag baat hai he was actually responsible) aaj Imlie hai. So what's changed ?

It's not his mentality. It's one of his core characteristics. Each person will have certain traits(strengths, weakness, fears etc) which we can't generalize and mostly can't change. Like the way after every fall imlie always gets up and move on in life by searching and holding on to a purpose, this is her strength. In the similar way, losing loved ones is his greatest fear which haunts him always. All I am trying to say is, the way he understood her strength and appreciated it always, it will be good if she too can understand his fears and respect it.

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

As I said, I only saw the show from Aryan's entry. Going by the initial episodes summary, I don't even want to enter into that territory. 🙏

Coming to comparison of imlie and Anu, I was not literally comparing their characters. I was just comparing their Stockholm syndrome kind of clingy nature towards their ex's. Just that nature, nothing else. Keeping her mahanta and panch panno ka bashan aside, Anu makes mistakes & acknowledges the same most of the times. I really appreciate it.

Coming to Aryan, would like to write in a separate reply.

This actually happened 😲 I have never seen Anu acknowledging she made mistakes, let alone apologize. Maybe I missed those epis.

I am happy to see healthy discussion. I watched only after Aryan's entry. With the experience of Malayalam version of the show, I was not so keen to watch bigamy story. Then Aryan came and he conquered the show and now am here as an addict.

I could connect to Imlie from ADilie divorce to Adini marriage till confession of AryLie. I was angry with Aryan during AryLie marriage and even I am angry with him for separation.

AryLie equation has changed post confession. and it is very much expected as well. They both had different expectations from each other, about which they were unsure earlier. And that change in equation and expectations is the main reason for their separation.

They have never shown Imlie's falling in love there also and I kept wondering was it out of obligation due to marriage or is she in real love with him? But they have clearly shown Aryan falling slowly in love through Adini track, Mirchi Bazar and PD track and after the dream sequence in accident he was scared to loose her to AKT that he made her to accept him as husband.

Post confession they should have shown Imlie's feelings, but they rushed to pregnancy and Jo track. Then Malini entered and separation.

I could not at all relate to Aryan for separation, but somehow I could empathise with Imlie (having gone through a similar experience in life). I can never stand a man who disowns his wife after blaming her for a MC (even if she is negligent). I somehow watched just because FK was slaying it too well.

On the very next moment of separation Imlie was entrusted with a 3 month baby, and that kept her busy and out of her own pain. It is not easy to single parent a 3 month old girl child and it will take your 100% time.

Before brining in Sugar they should have shown her pain of loss of child (STK was phenomenal in expressing grief in divorce track and I expected another brilliant performance and we were deprived of). But they have shown the grief of Aryan well, not Imlie

Even now, I am not able to connect to both Aryan and Imlie fully just because I am unable to understand the logic behind the behaviour of Aryan and I can't understand how Imlie is stone faced now, but I enjoy the performance and chemistry of our fabulous actors.

I would say there is an issue with the story telling and its flow. Maybe they are stressed with the TRP number game. But the actors make us glue to the show.

She does the same mistake again 😃

Even though Mr Kapadia made her a queen 👑, she still loves to live as a door mat at Shah house. How amazing ❤️

I think we should stop here, as per IF rules we are not supposed to discuss about other shows right.

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

She does the same mistake again 😃

Even though Mr Kapadia made her a queen 👑, she still loves to live as a door mat at Shah house. How amazing ❤️

I don't understand why is that though. I mean she voluntarily signs up for beizaati knowing their sweet nature phir rone ka kya fayda.

I think we should stop here, as per IF rules we are not supposed to discuss about other shows right.

Yep. I guess it's better to stop here.

Disown is too big word I feel. He saw that coming that's why he was super angry with her.

After their confession, there is a serious problem with the story telling as well as tracks.

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

as of now he doesn't consider her as his family. even today he told only family will be there for Pooja. it is a kind of disowning I think

Coming to who can hurt the other most with their words, both are unbeatable and unbearable most of the times. Let's not go there.

After their separation, When was the last time Aryan spoke about his true feelings for imlie?

He is living in a shell and shielding his heart because last time when she left, he was just broken but next time he will be finished. She is also not leaving any chance to remind him that she will leave any moment. Then how can we expect him to open up/warm up to her.

Did she ever listened to him, not in professional life but in personal life?

Did she ever considered him as her family, I am not talking about his family, I am talking about him?

If she considered him as her family then she wouldn't have walked away so easily. In real life, if people start doing like this after every heated argument or hurling hurtful words then we can't see a single pair together on this planet. I don't think she ever understood the depth of his feelings for her and the damage she caused by walking away from his life. Chiku's loss and the constant accusations against imlie is just a defence mechanism to protect himself further destruction. He will not allow her to reach him this time. She needs to accept the damage that she caused and she needs to assure him that she won't leave him again. We already saw the last time what it triggered him to confess his feelings. Maybe something like that needs to happen again.