A smart move by CVs....who are you supporting? - Page 8

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

i’d disagree too. love has expectations. and that’s perfectly fine. what isn’t, is to try and impose those expectations on the people we love. our expectations are our own. they’re our own responsibility and nobody else’s. that is the very first thing to understand in relationships. the next thing we can do from there, is to be honest with the people we love about what we need, ask them how they feel about them, and then work on finding common ground together with them. even with your example (thank you for sharing your story!), you guys had an honest talk with each other about what happened and how each of you felt about it. both of you endeavoured to meet halfway on similar situations in future without either of you sacrificing your individual personalities/traits. neither did either of you ask the other to change who you are nor did you impose your expectations on each other. you asked, you found your common ground together, and you guys still stayed true to who you each are as a person. and the most important point here, is both of you wanted to do it yourselves to preserve your friendship. this is what i mean as well. the desire to do something for someone should come from the individual themselves. when it does, it endures. otherwise, it breeds resentment.

I don't think CV's will put 10% of what we all spoke (irrespective of differences) in the serial. I wish they did. It would have made things more nuanced.

I wish CV's show flashback where Aryan goes to Pagdandiya to catch a glimpse of Imlie and sees Imlie with Gudiya, and switches off his feelings (sort of).

Originally posted by: pratyay

No good human will downright reject a baby, they only become little awkward or apprehensive. Things started becoming clear for Aryan when he visited Malini's home. That is why he kept asking Imlie to slow down, he understood that Imlie is walking into Malini's trap. Imlie, once she sets herself a goal, I don't think if Aryan said I will not support you in this, Imlie will not stop. She would still go ahead. So, its better for him to be on board with her than not.

As far as inviting Malini to home is concerned, he willingly agreed or unwillingly did, didn't matter. The fingers will be first pointed at Imlie because it was her plan. Atleast once or twice, Aryan showed hesitation and apprehension throughout Gudiya journey.

I wished Arpita, Sundar or anyone was more involved in this matter rather than being in the background.

I don't blame Aryan for lashing out at Imlie, after MC or asking her to leave or her leaving. I don't agree with him not trying to reach out to her after some time.

what he would have done, what she would have done. these are hypotheticals. while i get where you’re coming from (and don’t get wrong, i respect them too), you’re expressing an opinion on situations that weren’t shown and therefore, can’t be 100% sure that it’d play out the way you think it would. what factually happened, is Aryan did warn Imlie about Malini’s trap, Imlie did walk into Malini’s trap nevertheless, AND she also did consult and coordinate with Aryan before inviting her home the day tragedy struck them. regardless of whose initial plan it was, the fact of the matter is also that Aryan was willingly onboard it. so placing the whole entire blame on Imlie just because tragedy struck at the end of it, is not fair. on the flip side, if everything had gone well and according to plan and the miscarriage did not happen, would you give 100% of the credit of success to Imlie since it was her initial plan, or would you credit Aryan too for aiding her? same logic applies in failure too.

i’m okay with the fact that he didn’t reach out to her afterwards. i’m okay with the fact that neither of them reached out to the other. they both clearly require time. whatever transpired didn’t just end with the loss of their baby, it also ended their trust in each other and cast a huge shadow of doubt on their relationship. i hope they both can find the strength within themselves before each other for now.

Originally posted by: Enlightened21

Crisp and clear....👌

Faloodaji we need to learn from her instead of writing lots & lots of essays. 😆

🤣 what to do dear -- we are both essay writers. even when we don't want to be. 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Saikhi.is.love

Imlie😍..Aryan uncle can marry some aunty and get lost

Babe opinions are welcome, hatred isn't. Kindly read the rules of forum and follow them.

You will be reported next.

Much love 🤗

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

what he would have done, what she would have done. these are hypotheticals. while i get where you’re coming from (and don’t get wrong, i respect them too), you’re expressing an opinion on situations that weren’t shown and therefore, can’t be 100% sure that it’d play out the way you think it would. what factually happened, is Aryan did warn Imlie about Malini’s trap, Imlie did walk into Malini’s trap nevertheless, AND she also did consult and coordinate with Aryan before inviting her home the day tragedy struck them. regardless of whose initial plan it was, the fact of the matter is also that Aryan was willing onboard on it. so placing the whole entire blame on Imlie just because tragedy struck at the end of it, is not fair. on the flip side, if everything had gone well and according to plan and the miscarriage did not happen, would you give 100% of the credit of success to Imlie since it was her initial plan, or would you credit Aryan too for aiding her? same logic applies in failure too.

If things happened as per their plan, I would give more credit to Imlie. If things misfired, the share of blame will be on Imlie more. I will not give entire credit or entire blame to Imlie in either scenarios. her share will be more though (as far as involving Malini into their lives and falling into her trap not for MC). If Aryan was the one taking initiative and Imlie was the one supporting him, I will apply the same logic of him getting more credit or blame.

Initiation and contribution are directly proportional to the share of glory or disaster.

Originally posted by: pratyay

I don't think CV's will put 10% of what we all spoke (irrespective of differences) in the serial. I wish they did. It would have made things more nuanced.

I'm team Arylie here although otherwise I' m always team #AriBaby .

Dono ne ek dusre ko blame kiya and dono galat the aur sahi bhi. That's the beauty of writing I guess that we all are divided and unable to pin the blame on either of them solely. It was just fate's or should I say Malini's cruel game to separate them. Like Imlie said "Kismat ki Lathi".

I'm too keeping an open mind and viewing this as a fresh story. A total new beginning for Arylie. There's a lot scope but let's see CV's aur SP kya karte hai especially now that they have lost the slot leader position. 🤞🤞

PS.Thank you for the tag

Originally posted by: handlerxsaviour

i wish they would though. majority of the misunderstandings about Imlie could have been avoided if they had given a clearer and gradual presentation of her internal process, be it getting over AKT, falling for Aryan or bonding with Gudiya.

they have been running like they are on fire. none of the tracks after marriage had any nuance. it was all nonsense and really dissapointing.

who knows -- we might run through the separation arc into a series of missions. no nuance, no push backs, no slow burn. I feel like we all should temper our expectation to -50 and then we will be happy if the CVs deliver and give us a tiny fraction.

Originally posted by: pratyay

I wish CV's show flashback where Aryan goes to Pagdandiya to catch a glimpse of Imlie and sees Imlie with Gudiya, and switches off his feelings (sort of).

Yesterday I read a tweet which said, 'A cab driver came from nowhere to that isolated place and dropped Imlie & Cheeni to PD. It was sent by Aryan'. First when I read it, I was like how I missed it in the episode. Then I realized that it was an imaginatory tweet. 😆. If at least they would show it as a flashback later.