Originally posted by: lovereading14
@colour 1: that's a genuine grammar mistake and nothing to do with Aryan. 😆
@green. Yes this is true.
@b: I don't recall Aryan asking for Imlie's permission before going on a revenge spree which could have ultimately killed him. He gave her a farce of a choice which let's be honest was filled with landmines. He knew Imlie would cave. Don't tell me he let her go in the last minute. The whole wedding is a wrong move. Neither before announcing before the whole office that she was molested.
Uh... because this was before they fell in love. I don't want to repeat my stance on the wedding thing because it is long and complicated. But my point was never 'look at so much that Imlie has done wrong' it was more 'do you see this pattern in her? this is what led to this moment and Aryan has tried to stop her and prevent this from happening at every step of the way'. Aryan is not perfect, I am not going to try and tell you he is. He doesn't have to be prefect to call out Imlie's actions.
No he doesn't need to be perfect. But neither than the pot call the kettle black. I have so much to say about the wedding too. But yeah, jo ho gaya so hogaya.
@i: Which is exactly what AKT does. When he's angry /low he tries to attack other people. But he's naturally nasty so that's a different topic. ,When you let grief over power your decision fir toh sab ek jaise hojayenga na ? Exactly, no where is he right. When you insinuate ki Gudiya ko you have prioritised over Cheeku because she's AKT's kid, he's questioning her love. He of all persons should not do that. Period.
No. I disagree. Imlie has said horrible things to Aryan in her rage. And EVERYONE has let it slide as grief, as 19 saal ki bachhi and so many excuses. But Aryan says one thing that is on everybody's mind and he becomes the villain? he deserves to be begging and apologising on his knees and despite that Imlie shouldn't forgive him? Why? Imlie too blamed him for the loss of cheeku... with what rational I have no clue. But she did. She has said nasty things to him time and again and what... he let it go because he saw that it was out of anger.
@highlighted that's my issue. Is Aryan stupid enough to get manipulated by others ? People have been calling out Imlie since forever. Why the sudden sach batau abhiyan? She has said nasty things to him after and prior marriage. But considering how he behaved, she was tame imo. I would have give him a tight slap and kicked him where the sun doesnot shine, make no mistake. Just because he was a great friend, a good mentor, he doesn't get to take someone's life decisions. He is not Imlie's guardian.
@b: Lash out karna galat hai meine kabhi nahi kaha. Grief tends to come out as anger. She lashed out, he also did. So long baat Gudiya aur Cheeku thak tha, it was okay. Par baat jab AKT pe gayi it was wrong.
Her actions scream this very conclusion, and he never said a word. Not until he was drowning in grief.
But she has not given him reason to come to this conclusion. This is HIS insecurity rearing it's ugly head. And not the first time when it comes to AKT. He is obsessed with the man. If he would use his head, he would realise that Imlie was attached to Gudiya even before Malini said its her kid.
@blue: Sis not you too. Ek chotti bacchi hai jisko khud ka voice nahi, she can't defend herself usko bachana/protect karne ke liye sochna is not mahanta, it's just humanity. So if Aryan had said bacchi ko help mat karna, it doesn't mean he is cruel/selfish. Aapna apna ray hai. He's practical, she's emotional. That's it.
This statement was more generic of Imlie's attitude rather than Gudiya specific.
@red: Imlie never questioned Aryan ki why are you trusting your friend implicitly. She knew he was someone who relied on facts. When he said Tum dushmani nikal rahi ho, usne palat ke jawab nahi Diya. She was hurt but kept quiet.
And I never said Aryan is a person to doubt Imlie. All this adds more fuel to the fire ki how could he say it now. And what has Imlie done to make Aryan think that she would choose AKT over him?? Bro if you remember she was ready to fall at Harry's feet only to save him. She went to great lengths only to prove Jo's kartoote.
She said he's Dhruv Tara, he's her choice life long. I don't know what more she should do to make his insecurities go away. She cannot make Aryan's demons go away. Woh usko khud karna padega. Just like Imlie shouldn't let her childhood affect her decisions.
Aryan's insecurities are not baseless. She can scream that he is her dhruv tara all she wants but when her actions are to the contrary what is he supposed to do? He has seen her, not once, not twoce but thrice vow that this is her last straw with AKT. THRICE and at the end of each day she went running back to him. So what did her words mean? Nothing. nada.
Pre marriage their equation was completely different. Including that here that's not really fair. And as for post marriage, she has said a thousand times she's over AKT. What exactly do you mean by running to him? Gudiya agar uski nahi bhi hoti she would have reacted the same way.
Aryan is the one who saw Imlie refuse to acknowledge her own mother and call Aparna the only mother figure she has while Meethi stood there helpless and weeping.
Pre marriage I can virtually count a thousand incidents Aryan was an absolute ass. She self harmed herself phir bhi bande ko uski "maksat" ki padi thi. Meethi forced to undergo a trauma for THE SECOND FREAKING TIME. I don't expect her to say hayee Amma I'm so happy you are taking a crucial decision of my life without my consent?? That time Aparna was the only one she thought was her support.
Bold: It is not her job to make Aryan's demons go away. But in a relationship you do appease and tend to each other's insecurities. Aryan has tried to mitigate every insecurity of hers... EVERY TIME.
Yes Aryan has. But hasn't Imlie tried to mitigate his insecurities??
And Narmada should be the last person to comment on anyone let alone Imlie. Lol, she said Imlie tried to seduce AKT, Aryan ko fasaya. And not only that when Arpita said BM was the one to hire the fake NGO wale she was like Arpi chup ho jao. My point is she is a vile person and I don't care for her opinions. Period.
Narmada was only used to highlight the pattern that has been evident in Imlie.
No, I don't respect her enough to even to be used as a highlighter. I can highlight her being highly naive and getting manipulated faster than you can say wtf! A woman who questions her son's choices no less. And stands silent even when people insult her daughter. She is spineless and hence the last person to comment on Imlie.
All of Aryan's actions are backed by reason, logic and his past experiences/trauma. Imlie's actions have been a pattern that she was not only made aware of, but warned about and actively was prevented from causing any damage to her. But yet she chooses to ignore all of that.
Yes this is true. Hence I said Imlie should realise and introspect. And she should apologise.
But aryan acts according to his character, is within reason and suddenly he becomes a shit person? why?
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