WHEN FAHMAAN CEASES TO EXIST....... - Page 2

What a beautifully written post! Never has such an impactful performance been given and Fahmaan brought tears to my eyes with his intensity in defending her. How lucky you are to have a grandfather that cared, defended and mentored you at such a vulnerable time in your life.

I know I can’t speak for others and having become so attached to ASR in such a short period of time seems ridiculous but how often do you watch a scene of his and then can relate and apply his advice to your own life?! I constantly find myself not caring as much what others think because I have learned that if I value myself above all others, people will as well.

The writers have given us a gem of a character and Fahmaan lives and breathes as ASR. I was recently watching the episode where he’s a jerk to her after she has a fever and my sister was watching and comments, “Why does he hate women so much? Is he a misogynist ? ” Literally I blurted out, “There is NO way this man could ever be anything less than a feminist. It feels like he exists only to support Imlie in all her endeavors.” Never has a character been written that could actually change how a generation thinks.

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

You write this so beautiful evry word is true. I have tears reading this only. Your grandfather ur ASR is yr guardian angel now ♥️♥️♥️

Thank you Princess ji. I am glad to get this opportunity to gloat about my grand father🤗. He was 2 generations before me, but his thought process used to be 5 generations ahead ❤️.

ASRs come in all shapes and forms, mine is not packaged in a handsome Fahmaan, but an older, gentle soul who always knew the right thing to say and the right thing to do😃

Originally posted by: SundariP

Well said mili. Even a strong person is allowed to have sensitive nerves and triggers.

Imlie's dialogues today did trigger many of us.

But also Aryan, as he was able to calm imlie, his words worked to calm audience as well.

Thanks Pooja. Yes, set backs are necessary for us to get a reality check and course correct👍🏼 But after that they should become a fabric of our life than an identity that we are dreadful human beings🤗 This is my take away from what I have seen so far.

But, never have I expected to be impacted by a TV character as much as I did yesterday. I can't take a girl's grief, so I haven't watched Imlie's grief so far except her broken down face yesterday which lit up in ASR's embrace😭 I just could not handle it😭 All good now😎

Originally posted by: sheen97

Beautiful post milli . Each one of us comes across atleast one situation in life where no matter how strong you are ,you break . I also remember my difficult 4 years of med school where certain situations broke me mentally and I was so low in confidence. His each and every dialogue reasonates with you and sometimes gives you strength to move forward and the way Fahmaan delivers is chef's kiss. Today what he said is what each one of us whats to hear at some stage in life.

He is not just mentoring Imlie but also many of us when we have our weak moments.

Sheen 🤗, so true. This character has so many sensible facets that we have high expectations of him. I hope all of your issues resolved and are as confident now as an ASR would be👍🏼Truly the writer who is writing ASR needs to be commended for his/her thoughts and a beautiful mind⭐️

Originally posted by: Doctorsaman

where is my tag in such a wonderful post 😍♥️❤️

Sorry Doctor ji. I always feel delicate when I tag people and worry if I am trying to force feed my highly opinionated nonsense I will tag you from here on and please don't feel obligated if you don't feel like reading🤔 I won't take it personally

Originally posted by: jpatel1289

What a beautifully written post! Never has such an impactful performance been given and Fahmaan brought tears to my eyes with his intensity in defending her. How lucky you are to have a grandfather that cared, defended and mentored you at such a vulnerable time in your life.

I know I can’t speak for others and having become so attached to ASR in such a short period of time seems ridiculous but how often do you watch a scene of his and then can relate and apply his advice to your own life?! I constantly find myself not caring as much what others think because I have learned that if I value myself above all others, people will as well.

The writers have given us a gem of a character and Fahmaan lives and breathes as ASR. I was recently watching the episode where he’s a jerk to her after she has a fever and my sister was watching and comments, “Why does he hate women so much? Is he a misogynist ? ” Literally I blurted out, “There is NO way this man could ever be anything less than a feminist. It feels like he exists only to support Imlie in all her endeavors.” Never has a character been written that could actually change how a generation thinks.

Thank you, my friend❤️ for your kind words. Yes, we consider ourselves very, very fortunate to have had him in our lives.

@bold..... I agree with this whole heartedly. You are truly what you think you are. At the end of the day, if you can't market yourself, no one will👏 I don't mean market as in selling yourself but perception-wise.

@italics bold.... when was this my friend? Is it the first few episodes when she faints in the car with fever? I felt that was just to jolt us all to make us sit upright and notice this unusual character

I don't believe as much in feminism as much as I do in gender equality and gender neutrality. We may be talking about the same thing, but different semantics. 👍🏼I loved how he called her self victimizational mind set, so many times. Especially when he talks about doing your duty👍🏼, the employee who has a sick child at home, still takes care of their work and something about a security guard doing their job despite his problems . How true na? Nobody needs to do heroic stunts to be a hero, if we fulfil our responsibilities poore shiddat se, we are all heroes in our own right👍🏼

Enough gyaan ho gaya😃 I will stop now😊

Originally posted by: mili9

Sorry Doctor ji. I always feel delicate when I tag people and worry if I am trying to force feed my highly opinionated nonsense I will tag you from here on and please don't feel obligated if you don't feel like reading🤔 I won't take it personally

Its a matter of interest❤️♥️

Beautiful ❤️

Yes FK out did himself just like he always does ☺️

Thanks for sharing your story🤗

Originally posted by: SundariP

Well said mili. Even a strong person is allowed to have sensitive nerves and triggers.

Imlie's dialogues today did trigger many of us.

But also Aryan, as he was able to calm imlie, his words worked to calm audience as well.

i haven't watched this ep and won't be until the track is totally over but im glad everyone seemed to like this scene compared to the rest of the crap they've been feeding yall! the color analogy was well done