Feel bad for Arpita

I am so frustrated to see everyone imposing their decisions on Arpita, Aryan and Imlie - Both are thinking they are right to choose Arpita's life partner but did anyone care to ask what 'she' wants to do with her life? Please give her the time for herself to take decisions of her life. I feel like she will agree to this marriage as she doesn't want Arylie fighting against eachother. At the end of this track I want Arpita to say "F*** off everyone, Let me decide what I want to do and whom should I be with"..I don't want her to choose Sundar too in a haste.

Originally posted by: ..Orla..

I am so frustrated to see everyone imposing their decisions on Arpita, Aryan and Imlie - Both are thinking they are right to choose Arpita's life partner but did anyone care to ask what 'she' wants to do with her life? Please give her the time for herself to take decisions of her life. I feel like she will agree to this marriage as she doesn't want Arylie fighting against eachother. At the end of this track I want Arpita to say "F*** off everyone, Let me decide what I want to do and whom should I be with"..I don't want her to choose Sundar too in a haste.

Omg this basically.

The bond between Aru and Arpi is so pure . bringing Imlie inbetween them is totally messing things up

Imlie mahaan started it.. now Aryan is kinda scared imlie with her holier than thou attitude will shove Sundar on Arpita's mind so he is concentrating more on stopping imlie than talking with arpi..

Yes please. I want arpi to lose her shit on arylie and tell them to sort their own marriage first, and not like today but harshly.

It was nice when Aryan and naramada asked her decision on dining table.

But obviously the meddlesome duo BM and imlie won't rest in peace 👀

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

The bond between Aru and Arpi is so pure . bringing Imlie inbetween them is totally messing things up

I feel like Aru is not seeing her discomfort regarding the wedding only. During the breakfast scene he asked her consent for second marriage first she said "I am not thinking about it" but due to BM's words she agreed, Aru should have asked her separately whether she is 'really' interested or not. He asked again only because Imlie asked him to do so.

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

Imlie mahaan started it.. now Aryan is kinda scared imlie with her holier than thou attitude will shove Sundar on Arpita's mind so he is concentrating more on stopping imlie than talking with arpi..

I blame both Aryan and imlie in this track because both are wrong, they are clearly not seeing from Arpita's POV. Imlie wants Surpita marriage as Sundar loves her and Aryan wants to go ahead with the alliance because he feels the new groom can take care of Arpita's wishes.. In all this where is Arpita's consent? She is neither in love with sundar nor interested in meeting the new guy. She should be given some time to sort her feelings and to decide what she wants to do. Arylie should stop fighting and imposing their wishes as Arpita will end up agreeing to the marriage which she is not even interested to begin with.

Originally posted by: SundariP

Yes please. I want arpi to lose her shit on arylie and tell them to sort their own marriage first, and not like today but harshly.

It was nice when Aryan and naramada asked her decision on dining table.

But obviously the meddlesome duo BM and imlie won't rest in peace 👀

Oh how I wish this happens!! These two should sort their feelings and differences first and the should proceed with Arpita marriage. Then they will be able to understand her POV better.

@Green : all this started due to Imlie's stupid speech - "jeevansathi jeene ki karan ban jatha hai" - this thought is so regressive actually when she herself has no idea what she wants from her marriage. What I am trying to say is whether Arpita wants to get married or start a career should be her sole decision to make. She shouldn't make the decision based on the pressure from anyone.

Originally posted by: ..Orla..

I blame both Aryan and imlie in this track because both are wrong, they are clearly not seeing from Arpita's POV. Imlie wants Surpita marriage as Sundar loves her and Aryan wants to go ahead with the alliance because he feels the new groom can take care of Arpita's wishes.. In all this where is Arpita's consent? She is neither in love with sundar nor interested in meeting the new guy. She should be given some time to sort her feelings and to decide what she wants to do. Arylie should stop fighting and imposing their wishes as Arpita will end up agreeing to the marriage which she is not even interested to begin with.

@ both aryan and imlie shares 50 50 partnership right? So forcing arpita with their opinions should also be 50 50..

Imlie when everyone in the family including tripathis, rathores, her own parents said Aryan loves her more than anyone of her own... She discarded it.. Blaming her own mother for forcing the relation.. Now what she is doing with arpita🤔?? Isn't it the same.. She knows sundar can give arpi the love which she deserves... If others did the same to her then she break the relations with them..

Aryan as a brother he needs financial security frm his future jiju is not wrong... But above everything ... Ask her what she needs before... What she is longing for.. What she expect frm the groom.. Above all is she ready 2 move on..

Felt bad for arpi..

Originally posted by: ..Orla..

Oh how I wish this happens!! These two should sort their feelings and differences first and the should proceed with Arpita marriage. Then they will be able to understand her POV better.

@Green : all this started due to Imlie's stupid speech - "jeevansathi jeene ki karan ban jatha hai" - this thought is so regressive actually when she herself has no idea what she wants from her marriage. What I am trying to say is whether Arpita wants to get married or start a career should be her sole decision to make. She shouldn't make the decision based on the pressure from anyone.

@bold: honestly didn't find it regressive taking into context the target audience which is not us.

but coming from imlie it's definitely a hypocritical statement