We need to change our focus

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Everyone's focusing on BM and Aditya's reaction to the Arylie wedding but I think we should also focus on the Tripathis. Like Pankaj cannot be more done with Aryan. I think he was happy when she ran off and I hate that cause, look at the devastation Imlie left in her wake. How can you be happy while Narmada and Arpita are broken??? ATM Aparna and Rupi might be my favourite Tripathi because besides them, everyone looked sullen.


Narmada and Arpita, stay like these precious beans forever! If I was in Imlie's position it wouldn't be that easy for me to leave the mandap just cause it would mean leaving those two in that state. I'm glad Meethi pointed that out because what's going on between Aryan and her stopped being between them the minute they put on this Marriage Charade.


And yeah, Imlie, tum Rathores ko ek minute ke liye bhi akele nahi chod sakti kyunki tum unka sooraj ban chuki ho. Woh tumse zyaada kuch nahi maangte par tumhari roshni se hi unki zindagi mein phool kilte hain. When they're in dire need of help, they won't call you to fix their problems because they don't want to burden you. But when you need anything, they'll be there without your call. Even if your happiness isn't with them, they'll be happy for you.

I don't understand how leaving the Tripathi's can have such an effect on you but the Rathores don't? You place the Tripathi's above them and your mother all the time and it sucks to watch. I admire the relationships you value but sometimes, I think you're betting on the wrong horse at the wrong time.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Well it makes sense and doesn't at the same time y'know?

Because in her real relationships she has equality and freedom to express....

While in her conditional relationships she doesn't,

And she always ends up choosing conditional relationships, it's not like she's love starved her concept of love is distorted.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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This is exactly true.

She doesn't care for those who have no expectations from her and love her for who she is. Her mom, dadda and ASR in any order. Because isko apni hero-giri dikhane ka mauka nahin milti. She is just Imlie, a young woman who shouldn't be burdened with the world's problems for them. She should be free to fly.

But, those who burden her with their problems, their pareshaans, they satisfy her hero-complex, her grandiosity about her invincibility. She, therefore looks at them as her apne. All of us want a purpose in life, but solving other people's problems shouldn't be the only purpose of our life. Yehi ek purpose hain toh, the people around us should always have problems to keep us happy🤡

If the true well wisher strikes her in her face, she will swat them off😡👎🏼

Lot of growing up to do. I truly, truly wish that she falls flat on her face a few times. Now, if ASR starts to enable her because he doesn't want those tears on his hand, then I am going to 😡 on him too.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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So true yaa... He should let her fail.

Only then she will realise her limitations, and only a true partner will do that for you.

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