moving on -- it is okay - Page 3

Originally posted by: SundariP

You don't need to justify Aryan to me bro...

I'm like his pseudo-lawyer without a law degree lmao 🤣

Just saying the behaviour of T fam is beyond my understanding 🤷

Not a justification dear, was pointing out... what a smart move from asr side, real businessman - win win both side.

Maybe the T family just loves weddings? They just had one wedding with Malini but apparently it wasn't enough. So they need another wedding fix. Maybe they were like many of us who were stuck at home during covid and had no entertainment like weddings to attend. hahahahah 💃🏻

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

Not a justification dear, was pointing out... what a smart move from asr side, real businessman - win win both side.

Well tbh this way he's taking the more heat on himself... I totally hate this masochist behaviour 🤷

Originally posted by: SundariP

Well tbh this way he's taking the more heat on himself... I totally hate this masochist behaviour 🤷

well, I am cold-blooded that I find Aryan's businessman approach rather cool! 😅

But then again, it just might be me that compared to Aditya, Aryan does not annoy me. It beats the other lead who goes from one sister to another and is upset that all the women aren't falling over their feet for him waiting to please him. 😂 🤦

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

well, I am cold-blooded that I find Aryan's businessman approach rather cool! 😅

But then again, it just might be me that compared to Aditya, Aryan does not annoy me. It beats the other lead who goes from one sister to another and is upset that all the women aren't falling over their feet for him waiting to please him. 😂 🤦

Yes Aryan attracts most sympathy of all the 4 leads as of now ..

But he's relatively new as well, we've seen the other 3 fck up their lives over past 400+ episodes and honestly Aryan has the burden to reverse them apart from his own mistakes which he definitely will have, he's a human as well.

So, it's too bad to see him hurt that's all, but then again he wrote that hurts for himself so sympathy comes down, never ending clown loop hai ye🤡

Originally posted by: SundariP

Yes Aryan attracts most sympathy of all the 4 leads as of now ..

But he's relatively new as well, we've seen the other 3 fck up their lives over past 400+ episodes and honestly Aryan has the burden to reverse them apart from his own mistakes which he definitely will have, he's a human as well.

So, it's too bad to see him hurt that's all, but then again he wrote that hurts for himself so sympathy comes down, never ending clown loop hai ye🤡

Am really looking forward to seeing how the writers approach Aryan's journey and growth. He is interesting character because he alwasy wasn't this way. Life and incidents have taught him some very bitter lessons that he now believes that any emotion is weakness. He has shut down his heart as that is what helped him survive these last four years and keep moving on. He constantly sees everything as a matter of win lose chess board. It can be very difficult to undo that because his experiences are true. It is not a matter of being negative or pessimistic because it is life and the loss that has changed him. I read a line somewhere that if you hold on too tightly to grief, it can corrode your soul. So that has what has happened to Aryan. He needs to learn how to grieve and how to move on. If it is done well, Aryan's track to regain his emotions and deal with the world in a more healthy manner can be a powerful emotional watch. The actor has the chops to deliver the kind of emotions that would be needed and we would be floored if the writers create some great arcs for him. However, if they botch it up and make it all stupid kitchidi, then yea, it will be just never ending clown loop. 😅

Beautifully stated!!!

I think ITV is showing quite a few programs now- maybe most of them are starplus ones so I could be wrong- where the FL is shown as moving on from their first relationship.

Patriarchal norms dictate that a woman should "put up" with so much garbage just to keep up the pretence of a well balanced "home". This is in our real lives and is also depicted on screen where FL's will fight to the ends of the earth for their husbands, parents, children etc and never have someone fighting FOR HER.

It's difficult to reconcile, the conditioning is all around us- but to have a depiction where a FL is able to move on, and find space outside of this identity is so important. Let's see where this go's!

Originally posted by: reeha_k

Beautifully stated!!!

I think ITV is showing quite a few programs now- maybe most of them are starplus ones so I could be wrong- where the FL is shown as moving on from their first relationship.

Patriarchal norms dictate that a woman should "put up" with so much garbage just to keep up the pretence of a well balanced "home". This is in our real lives and is also depicted on screen where FL's will fight to the ends of the earth for their husbands, parents, children etc and never have someone fighting FOR HER.

It's difficult to reconcile, the conditioning is all around us- but to have a depiction where a FL is able to move on, and find space outside of this identity is so important. Let's see where this go's!

While Aryan is a great character because he fights for her, I would rather see Imlie who fights for herself and puts herself first. Instead of taking care of people who just use her and calling them her "loved ones" -- eye roll. I keep going back to how uncomfortable and unsafe she felt that she slept in the office and was even willing to sleep on the road bench rather than go back to the Tripathi home. Yet, she is delusional to think that she owes them something and she needs to sacrifice herself to protect them. 🙄

Am hopeful that the moving on track will be done well -- but that is only because Arilie has so many fans 😂 So now the writers can't back out of this. hahahah... That said on a serious note, it is good to see FLs move on and find new love interests. Our society has changed that we now have dedicated matrimonial sites and services for second marriages. So why not have FLs who move on from toxic relationship to a more stable relationship where they are safe and someone is willing to fight for her?