Originally posted by: libran90
Hey, nice post. I can only speak for myself. See, I don't want her to get over anyone. Emotionally you can't and it won't happen. But there have to be baby steps in a direction that I don't see happening. Not even baby steps. In real life, we consistently evolve and grow out of situations, people, relationships but that happens at least. We don't see anything happening in that direction. Imlie doesn't take any steps. She continuously gets caught up in her emotional vortex.
Regarding Aryan and Imlie, I don't see any love, neither we want it that quick. But, we see trust and faith-building, respect building. If Imlie can't do anything much, she can at least try to respect the trust and faith, instead of flouting it each time. Aryan doesn't expect, but Imlie needs to have that much sense. She feels so obligated towards Tripathis for nothing, but she has no sense of duty for the people who gave her a roof, food, and work? That is bothering me. As far as feelings are concerned, Aryan will never believe Imlie can love him seeing her affinity for these people. No one can. Even Arpita has sensed that. And you are right, she has disappointed him so many times, that it will be hard for him to accept that she loves him and would choose him. As much as it will be hard for him, it will break her heart, but then she has to understand her actions which have led him to not accept her love. Her feelings and her words lack integrity.
Let's not bring age as a factor. At 19, we all did not do stuff that is shown on ITV. It doesn't make sense whatsoever. At 19, on ITV, girls are becoming wives, mothers, fighting villains, romancing, and are least bothered about their life, studies, or marriage. At 19, I was busy selecting which coffee shop to hang out with my friends, and struggling with my second year in college. Had nothing else on my mind.
Imlie doesn't need to move out of anything and she has a right to the pace of how she wants to change. But the least she can do is respect what she has and not play with something she always dreamt of having.