Aryan-Imlie/ AryLie Discussion Thread 15 🧿 - Page 87

Originally posted by: Charishma

All of this. All of it. From the T's to Meethi, to FK, to Imlie. I do feel bad for Imlie, but like, you said, she waffles between one and the other. Where is she? This girl needs to find herself.

On the plus side I think this romance found what it needs to get the necessary cool off for a bit. I hate the roadblock they chose, but whatever.

that's the current plot isn't it.... did you see my post about this in th #10 after lori episode?

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Fir toh woh move on nahi kar sakti completely qnki Rathore mein sirf do jan hai (mom and sister) ,doh jan mein OTT drama kese hoga. Issliye Tripathi ka yahan rehna jaroori hai for OTT of everything😃

Time aane par dur daraz se koi na koi OTT Rathore aa jayega drama karne ke liye. Long lost bua or someone. 😆

Originally posted by: Pavilion_way

I do want to add that this is going to be a lengthy process for Imlie to recover from.

Here are the 5 stages of grief and what we will see from Imlie:

This is especially going to be difficult since she was not in a healthy relationship but a toxic one which she is still not aware of.

- In that toxic relationship she was emotionally dependent on AKT and the T's, had a strong fear of being rejected and abandoned.

- In addition her, self-esteem was shattered. In that relationship she was totally undermined and her self-confidence was destroyed, even when she tried to build that self-confidence. The longer she stayed in that relationship, her self-worth diminished even more, thus leading to her feeling weak, inadequate and unable to live without the other person (AKT). The weaker person in this relationship (Imlie - the 18 or 19 year old) thus started to think that they don't deserve any more than what they are getting.

- Self-esteem is very imp when it comes to recognizing abuse, putting an end to it by confronting it and being able to stand on own two feet. We saw this is in Imlie when she took a stand, burnt her mangalsutra and left the T house (I swear applause for that day ). We also saw it in the scene of her apologizing to herself. These two scenes were great but sadly just a very tiny step towards realizing her self-worth and acknowledging the toxicity of her relationship with AKT.

- Now coming to Grief: in order to properly grieve, one needs to support themselves to a great extent. But, if the part of our-self is already so damaged then how is one supposed to support themselves during this intense grief? In this case Imlie's emotions, self-respect/esteem, love and more has a deep wound which was not being allowed to heal (due to the T's calling her back and Imlie herself going back) and so when it time will come to confront grief and go through the process it will be very tough.

I don't know if this is making any sense? 🤔 I think I may have lost my train of thought and I am over thinking this cause the makers are definitely not using logic for their story 😑.

In short be ready for a lot of rona dhona

Originally posted by: shalu79

Kyunki Malini ka pyaar saccha tha aur hai... Usne sirf ek hi aadmi se pyaar kiya hai🤣🤣 woh titli nahi hai🤭🤣

Malini ka pyar is such an underrated love. AKT u better come back for her love and Diya

Originally posted by: SundariP

i think i've seen this, but don't rem as i didn't observe it.....

that's when SK buried Adi alive i think? and mitti romance after imlie dug him out?

Yes...the one right before Mitti romance.. I also don't remember the exact dailogues.. it was all about how Imlie spirit has been killed since meeting him n how she changed n no more the Imlie from PD.

Originally posted by: mltr16

Explain pleej. What BTS? This thread moves so fast I miss half the posts

The day the hullabaloo started about the "vulgar" scene, FK posted a story on insta showing the bite mark on his hand and crediting it to Sumbul. 🤣

Originally posted by: SundariP

true... I also always needed additional incentive to bear this poison-fest show... at one time it was KC now Aryan and Arylie (much better) 😆

oh... my bad didnt get your sarcasms.... she'll take a lot of time to move on; because breaking free from stockholm syndrome ain't easy.... also with her limited experience in life all the more hurdles

i can't believe i signed up for this... but aryan is tooo good a trap to make me stick to this shit-show 🤣

Oh I just saw who KC was, ah it's kinda good that KC disappeared when he was a good character because in the Original Version after a certain time period , the dissapointment was real.

But true, incentive ke bina, it does become unbearable. I can see why all the members of this AT are so dissapointed today.

I know man, she will take a lot a lot of time and it's understandable as well. She's been married to that man for an year, PatiVrata and PatniNishtha has been instilled in her head due to her conditioning, she found T family's (conditional) acceptance after proving herself itne baar which she never got in her own village so her childhood dreams/ wounds whichever way we take it were fulfilled or healed in a sense and biggest factor being she is just a 19 year old who just got divorced some days/weeks ago in reality, she had thought this relationship to be the crux of her life so if the person is dead, she would be naturally devastated especially since she is an empathetic person plus we have to combine the guilt of not saving BS when ek saal se its her job to basically save him T household mein toh yahi sikhaya combined with Ex husband, what a cocktail.

So even if her concern is understandable, the execution of the episode has been horrible.

The concern translated on screen sounded repetitive and insensitive especially when she didn't give another thought to her mother and nani, plus on doosra hand the T clan along with AC and MC. There was just no relief or saving grace so it's scrambled our head.

Same man, after IB being my first and last Flower Khan show and ITV show I really invested in, I promised myself I would stop but damn, one random Insta clip and then gifs of Arylie on one Tumblr blog that I completely got sucked in. That chemistry is such a trap, I swear. How does 4 Lions always manage to pair up the most attractive duo and create that sizzling chemistry, even if the story is or turns crap, is really beyond me. But they do it everytime and we innocent people end up getting tortured ugh.

If Aditya was someone like ARC from barrister babu I can still understand that why imlie went after some 30+ man

Because in that show too FL (20) an educated London returned barrister went afterwards ML 30+ we in that fandom often used to call him jobless and unemployed barrister but we all used to him ML slot

He made the same mistakes as Aditya 😂 in the whole show not trusting FL lead who was a 12 year old child that time but still trusting his ex girlfriend over the FL but as the show went through the story and their pure platonic relationship Bloom into true love obviously as FL grew up this what I call the ture platonic love adilie has made a joke of this word

Here in imlie and barrister babu basic plot of male lead stories are same getting married without consent and main lead being mentor to uneducated but Sharp and cripy FL zimdedari sirf zimedari rant was common in that show too

What made me accept barrister babu pair despite ML being 30+ as compared to 20+ female lead was how he truly without any doubt sacrificed his everything and changed himself through out for FL and her betterment it a beautiful show with beautiful plot line where ML was 20+ before leap while FL was 10or 12 and how he guided her through this journey and how after 8 years they fall in love

But here in imlie God spare me 😂 yaha toh Aditya ko mentor honne kea bajea imlie ko protect aur ek strong woman banne kea bajae yeah khud hi mosivat mea phas jata hea har bar galat advice deta hea aur phir career mea agge bhi nahi badnea deta

The sole reason why I can't accept adilie and a answer to those who says that age difference is the reason why police are not accepting adilie

Originally posted by: shalu79

Yes...the one right before Mitti romance.. I also don't remember the exact dailogues.. it was all about how Imlie spirit has been killed since meeting him n how she changed n no more the Imlie from PD.

Woahh. SK was man of wisdom .can he come out of jail already imlie needs some mental cleansing

Originally posted by: shalu79

Yes...the one right before Mitti romance.. I also don't remember the exact dailogues.. it was all about how Imlie spirit has been killed since meeting him n how she changed n no more the Imlie from PD.

thanks... ❤️

totally fits my "finding imlie" theory... i'm glad there's some logic in the plot if only the bigger picture because the episodes are so so bland and half-baked it doesn't satisfy me logically and intellectually 🤢