Aryan-Imlie/ AryLie Discussion Thread 3, DT Pg 77, Warning 148 - Page 103

Originally posted by: -Sarcy-

. Because the man is so comfortable and confident in his own skin he doesn't give a damn about anyone's opinion. He JUST. DOESN'T. CARE.

thats our boy and we hav to learn it from him.. like how come someone be this calm and composed among all the trashy and let ur work n action talk louder then other's filthy talk..

i take him as my mentor too ( though age wise chhota but acha teacher to koi bhi ho sakta hai)

Originally posted by: captain_waffle

But it could be also the fact that when somebody's ego is wounded, they turn into somebody unrecognisable from their actual self. I don't think it's a narrative to establish Aryan, but it's an actual narrative of society. Most men do this all the time, blame women for the failure of relationships rather than accepting the fate. Not just men, but women do this to women.

Weave a narrative around themselves of being the greater victim while wallowing in self pity, when the courageous thing would be to own upto your mistakes and learn from them to grow as an individual.

Bold – I agree with this because I've seen a live example of this with someone from my circle. This person doesn't stop at anything with their words just to ensure they're sort of winning an argument. The kind of words I've heard them utter makes me cringe at times, literally spewing vitriol – intended to hurt and as if almost tear the other person apart. The worst is, you can actually see the words also hurting them in the process but they don't stop. And in that phase, no amount of rationalization helps. And weirdly, when their state of mind is better, they can actually go to lengths to help the very same person they were attacking with their words just some time/days back.

So the whole scene with Aditya spewing venom about Imlie, then pining for her, then trying to help her didn’t seem that weird. It's obviously crazy, but I've seen it happen before.

Originally posted by: itsRitzi

https://twitter.com/oohseram2/status/1474975998344982529?t=qbXZc45OE-vX__NN4LPVrA&s=19

behna do one thing. please tag me to all the posts you are adding these gems from Twitter.. i watch them aaram se later.. nahi to bina tag ke dhundha impossible hai...

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

exactly thats my whole issur.. it feels as if this was the Real Adi from the start.. hav no respect for Imlie as a human being let alone as his wife..

and the love he shouts so loud about wasnt even there... it was just momentarily affection he had for The Imlie who saved him so many times, who fought for him.. so he was all delusional about what he felt for her.. and he thought being her only person in this shahar she will be under his chatrachaya all her life despite all the bad treatment she went thru.. but when she left him the real Adi woke up.. the real person who can stoop so low to disrespect, talk so filth abt her so called beloved wife.

i always wonder.. just cause she is not in love with you anymore you hav the rights to go behind her back talk those words.. how come.. wo to tumhare against kuch nahi bolti itna sab jhelnr ke baad.. hiw come you have become tru DevDas.. bas bottle nahi hai aas paas..

I truly have no words. Sirf itni si baat ki khushi hai, that atleast there is one character out there like Aryan to counter that filth.

Originally posted by: -Sarcy-

Bold – I agree with this because I've seen a live example of this with someone from my circle. This person doesn't stop at anything with their words just to ensure they're sort of winning an argument. The kind of words I've heard them utter makes me cringe at times, literally spewing vitriol – intended to hurt and as if almost tear the other person apart. The worst is, you can actually see the words also hurting them in the process but they don't stop. And in that phase, no amount of rationalization helps. And weirdly, when their state of mind is better, they can actually go to lengths to help the very same person they were attacking with their words just some time/days back.

So the whole scene with Aditya spewing venom about Imlie, then pining for her, then trying to help her didn’t seem that weird. It's obviously crazy, but I've seen it happen before.

Same, seen this toxicity beforehand and makes my skin crawl everytime.

Originally posted by: libran90

I truly have no words. Sirf itni si baat ki khushi hai, that atleast there is one character out there like Aryan to counter that filth.

yes me too.. but i hv doubt on Aryan's patience level.. wo banda jyada din sirf words se nahi samjhayega..

the day that sleeping volcano will erupt it will turn whole T n C empire into ashes for sure..

and jis din apni pe aayega Adi babu ko nani parnani sab yaad aa jayengi..

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

behna do one thing. please tag me to all the posts you are adding these gems from Twitter.. i watch them aaram se later.. nahi to bina tag ke dhundha impossible hai...

Here's my thread where I try to collate all amazing creations

https://twitter.com/itsRitzi/status/1467488980102893570?t=Yfpqsqy23cXk8Ws1zzthhA&s=19

Originally posted by: itsRitzi

sure ⭐️

Here's my thread where I try to collate all amazing creations

https://twitter.com/itsRitzi/status/1467488980102893570?t=Yfpqsqy23cXk8Ws1zzthhA&s=19

awesome.. koti koti dhanyawaad..

Originally posted by: captain_waffle

Well another thing is he is literally parroting what Malini and her mom had been feeding him about Imlie. In a saner mental space, he didnt agree to that, but when he is literally spiralling, he falls prey to those thoughts.

The man chose to write a public obituary to the relationship. So it ain't the first time he did this. The difference being this time he actually voiced out it clearly with an analogy.

Originally posted by: captain_waffle

But it could be also the fact that when somebody's ego is wounded, they turn into somebody unrecognisable from their actual self. I don't think it's a narrative to establish Aryan, but it's an actual narrative of society. Most men do this all the time, blame women for the failure of relationships rather than accepting the fate. Not just men, but women do this to women.

Weave a narrative around themselves of being the greater victim while wallowing in self pity, when the courageous thing would be to own upto your mistakes and learn from them to grow as an individual.

Oh yes, absolutely. I remember in my college there was this guy who threatened to release the nudes of his ex-gf if she didn't come back to him that too in the WhatsApp group. Prior to this he always pretended to be sophisticated and a feminist. Never underestimate the depravity of the male-ego.

But I also think that they are making Aditya completely irredeemable so that people don't hue-cry when Gashmeer finally leaves. Killing off characters has never bode well in ITV. Gul has learned that lesson numerous times.