Jald Se Jald - Page 3

Originally posted by: Colormenow

So, I was saying. As much as I am excited Arylie and their bond to grow in future, it is difficult for me to enjoy them when we clearly know Adi ji was raped. Even now if he knows what happened to him and still walks into that relationship, I can happily accept what happens to him next is his fate. I am not going to take his side or do his badhai but it just spoils the whole ras of finally watching something good for Imlie.

Yes, where he is today is his own making but I will not deny the fact that Imlie even after knowing and fighting for Adi ji ki izzat decided to let the victim share the house with his rapist( she had good intentions for the child but at the same time was wrong for her husband's wellbeing) she can say sorry that she let MC stay and she should because for that moment she did forget Adi ji was raped. It is not wrong to loose a fight but it wrong to let it as is and let the culprit stay close to your husband. Accepting the child is parent's business but when the decision was given in Imlie's hand, it should have been taken keeping Adi ji's well-being in mind and not her illegitimate tag. Her situation was not the same as the child coming out of rape. In whatever way it maybe Imlie's conception and birth was out of choice and consent whereas Adini union was neither out of consent nor Adi ji had a say if the child should be born or not, since he still does not have a clear picture of how it was conceived.

The only thing that is destroying my watch is Adi ji's rape victim status. If it was consensual or an actual mistake( that Adi ji think it is) I wouldn't have given it a second thought and moved on. I do not like current Adi ji and want him to suffer like anything( would have let him suffer while she extends her stay at the Ts) but suffering while being married to your own rapist is unacceptable for me. 👎🏼

So yes, cannot be pro Adini marriage as long as MC is roaming around with rapist tag. Might even be unbearable to a point where I can finally take a long awaited break till Adi ji or MC dies.😆

He know he lost everything. More he will drown when he comes to know there was no relationship between imlie & Aryan . He agrees to marry only based on a MU. He is now like world end . Then what makes the difference if he married his assaulter . Actually it is the biggest punishment for her. What she gain ? Only thing physically separated Adhithya & imlie. Nothing else.

This marriage declaration have a long run impact also. I hope again imlie will not push back Adhi , but 2day Rupi said why imlie have to beg for pyaar.

Only T who knows Adhi inside out is questioning not only his trust on imlie but also his pyaar. A very big downfall have occurred by unintentional mu.

What happens when he come to know imlie doesn’t send dp … instead at a moment he get the actual letter.

Imlie’s sufferings was empathetically viewed by everyone .

Aryan’s every dialogue is twisted by imlie for a while . There’s a dialogue by Aryan that ‘ you didn’t know mr. Tripathi as much you have to know’ let’s keep hope whether it’s come to play.

No body after JM incident was tried to understand Adhi. Imlie does but more focus was on her. That I feels like for a self assurance that Adhi not cheated her. Without solving or understand they tried to move ahead . But I hope this split will make them more understand each other.

Originally posted by: aarti1234

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Naukri nikala milega Aditya ko he will accept AC ka offer 🤣

Originally posted by: Colormenow

So, I was saying. As much as I am excited Arylie and their bond to grow in future, it is difficult for me to enjoy them when we clearly know Adi ji was raped. Even now if he knows what happened to him and still walks into that relationship, I can happily accept what happens to him next is his fate. I am not going to take his side or do his badhai but it just spoils the whole ras of finally watching something good for Imlie.

Yes, where he is today is his own making but I will not deny the fact that Imlie even after knowing and fighting for Adi ji ki izzat decided to let the victim share the house with his rapist( she had good intentions for the child but at the same time was wrong for her husband's wellbeing) she can say sorry that she let MC stay and she should because for that moment she did forget Adi ji was raped. It is not wrong to loose a fight but it wrong to let it as is and let the culprit stay close to your husband. Accepting the child is parent's business but when the decision was given in Imlie's hand, it should have been taken keeping Adi ji's well-being in mind and not her illegitimate tag. Her situation was not the same as the child coming out of rape. In whatever way it maybe Imlie's conception and birth was out of choice and consent whereas Adini union was neither out of consent nor Adi ji had a say if the child should be born or not, since he still does not have a clear picture of how it was conceived.

The only thing that is destroying my watch is Adi ji's rape victim status. If it was consensual or an actual mistake( that Adi ji think it is) I wouldn't have given it a second thought and moved on. I do not like current Adi ji and want him to suffer like anything( would have let him suffer while she extends her stay at the Ts) but suffering while being married to your own rapist is unacceptable for me. 👎🏼

So yes, cannot be pro Adini marriage as long as MC is roaming around with rapist tag. Might even be unbearable to a point where I can finally take a long awaited break till Adi ji or MC dies.😆

From a neutral PoV, if we come to the matter of rape, then there are many who cannot come out and fight because of how society views them, be it, men or women. As a character, Aditya is a journalist, has been fighting for people's rights, and has been projected as someone who considers himself as the "voice of people". He claims to, kya tha woh, humne ye profession isliye join kiya tha taaki hum bina dare apni baat rakh sake danke ki chot pe". When we keep that Aditya in mind, our expectation is, he will stand by what is right.

But claiming to be usulon ka pakka and then going ahead and deleting evidence goes against the very professional obligation he chose to uphold. It is a crime. Why? Because he became emotional for a child? Whose birth doesn't involve his consent? Woh bhi rehne do. He does not consider Malini as a perpetrator, but a victim, despite seeing proof. Why? Why would you do that? Emotion for the child I still get, but not considering Malini wrong is what I don't get.

Okay, Imlie made a mistake, she should have handled the bachcha affair a bit more smartly. Could have taken up responsibility without placing her in the house. But ye bhi to socho, that a girl who has lived without her father's name, she takes pride in being her mom's daughter, but dimaag aur dil me baat hai na, ki woh bin baap ki hai. Ussi ko trigger point banaoge to hogi hi emotional. And Aparna had also said na, to live with it. To accept and move on.

Malini is not someone whom I even consider worth any criticism. She is just beyond all this. But a morally upright and principled guy, bends his principles and gives bakwaas logic, is what fuses the bulb. If he only sees Malini as the victim, then how can anybody save him. Imlie ko samajh aaya she is wrong to woh usko rectify karne ki koshish kar rahi thi. Par jiske saath sab kuch hua, woh khud hi kuch karna na chahe, sach ko dekh ke bhi nahi dekhna chahe, to khudaay khidhmatgar bhi uska kuch nahi kar sakta.

Just my opinion.

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

He know he lost everything. More he will drown when he comes to know there was no relationship between imlie & Aryan . He agrees to marry only based on a MU. He is now like world end . Then what makes the difference if he married his assaulter . Actually it is the biggest punishment for her. What she gain ? Only thing physically separated Adhithya & imlie. Nothing else.

This marriage declaration have a long run impact also. I hope again imlie will not push back Adhi , but 2day Rupi said why imlie have to beg for pyaar.

Only T who knows Adhi inside out is questioning not only his trust on imlie but also his pyaar. A very big downfall have occurred by unintentional mu.

What happens when he come to know imlie doesn’t send dp … instead at a moment he get the actual letter.

Really more than imlie Adhi have suffered alot

Imlie’s sufferings was empathetically viewed by everyone .

Only difference being, Imlie suffered at the hand of others and for others.

Adi's suffering is his own making.That's why he is not getting any empathy.

As a mother if my daughter falls in a pit and gets hurt ,I am empathetic. (Example: Adi got raped. Imlie understood him after initial shock.)

But if I tell my daughter not to do something hundred times, but she still gets hurt doing the exact same thing, I will be angry. Ofcourse I will put bandage and all but I won't be empathetic. (Imlie being upset with Adi after proof deletion.)

Now after that my daughter makes other kids do that and everyone is hurt. What would I do? ( SK got trapped in Malini's jaal because Adi is not willing to open his eyes.)

Adi didn't trust Imlie : got raped

Adi misunderstood Imlie: getting married to Malini

Where to get sympathy for such a person. Rn, he is for Imlie what a rotten limb is to otherwise healthy body. That limb was not always rotten but now keeping it will destroy the whole body. Some people are saying that love is forever, in sickness, in health etc. I completely agree. But does that mean accepting another woman in your husband's life. Does that mean sacrificing your father at the alter of your husband's blindness. No. Imlie left only after SK got affected in this dirty game. For the love of one person, should you sacrifice everything and even after sacrificing, you are not making any positive impact in your life or that person's life.

Originally posted by: aarti1234

For me, as much as I am enjoying Arylie equation, that is the story that has been shown 1000 times on TV,movies and what not.. so I am really not interested. It was Adilie that was different, courageous, bold. It was the courage on my side as a viewer to accept and cherish a bit different version of EMA. It was the purity and innocence of their love and madness of Adi which attracted me.

If they move to Arylie, I am not interested. Till the time Adi is there,I would hope for his redemption.

I agree with Adilie being unique in its own way and I love them for it but rn it is not something that I can't handle. It is still very much pure to me, still innocent and naive. Their naivety has brought them to this state that other people are able to dictate their relationship, there is too much toxicity in their relationship that needs to be cleansed if it can be and Imlie has done more than enough to hold on to her end. If Adi ji is unable to hold on to his end then he does not deserve her, even with his victim status.

You are right on Arylie too. They are regular cheeni kum paani wali chai. Same as any other ITV couple but it is less toxic for now and a fun watch. If not anything, atleast we get a happy Imlie away from dd torture

Originally posted by: Colormenow

So, I was saying. As much as I am excited Arylie and their bond to grow in future, it is difficult for me to enjoy them when we clearly know Adi ji was raped. Even now if he knows what happened to him and still walks into that relationship, I can happily accept what happens to him next is his fate. I am not going to take his side or do his badhai but it just spoils the whole ras of finally watching something good for Imlie.

Yes, where he is today is his own making but I will not deny the fact that Imlie even after knowing and fighting for Adi ji ki izzat decided to let the victim share the house with his rapist( she had good intentions for the child but at the same time was wrong for her husband's wellbeing) she can say sorry that she let MC stay and she should because for that moment she did forget Adi ji was raped. It is not wrong to loose a fight but it wrong to let it as is and let the culprit stay close to your husband. Accepting the child is parent's business but when the decision was given in Imlie's hand, it should have been taken keeping Adi ji's well-being in mind and not her illegitimate tag. Her situation was not the same as the child coming out of rape. In whatever way it maybe Imlie's conception and birth was out of choice and consent whereas Adini union was neither out of consent nor Adi ji had a say if the child should be born or not, since he still does not have a clear picture of how it was conceived.

The only thing that is destroying my watch is Adi ji's rape victim status. If it was consensual or an actual mistake( that Adi ji think it is) I wouldn't have given it a second thought and moved on. I do not like current Adi ji and want him to suffer like anything( would have let him suffer while she extends her stay at the Ts) but suffering while being married to your own rapist is unacceptable for me. 👎🏼

So yes, cannot be pro Adini marriage as long as MC is roaming around with rapist tag. Might even be unbearable to a point where I can finally take a long awaited break till Adi ji or MC dies.😆

Color yaar Adi and Imlie made for each other(yesterday I have mentioned why) and I want Aryan to move on from his revenge and have some peace without Imlie in his life.

Adi himself not behaving like a raped victim , then why should I even feel bad for him ? He mingles with didi freely and even today she has freepass to his room and in T house. Everyone just give didi disgusted looks and not more than that. Even after these happenings Adi has gut feeling that his wife is wrong and doubting her character.👏 So why should I care for such a hypocritic character ?

Even I don't want to give much credit to Imlie as she is/will be unable to move on from Adi. In promo what she has done is definitely a gawar harkat and where would be her self respect if Asr asks amount for damaged Mercedes car ?😳Is it even required for her to go for such an act ?

Yeah , I know its for Aryan to fall for Imlie but I wanted to state my prospective.If really Imlie moves on from Adi I would be more than happy. But I doubt this scenario.

If Aryan now falling for Imlie so most probably makers would finally kill him in some aacident (positive character) or make him like Didi (negative character) to give us so called Adilie endgame.

I'm actually not liking Adilie/Adi anymore and it has become too much toxic , Adilie which I have liked are gone last in the show. I don't find any aww.. or beyond connection feeling or anything which is extremely good in their relationship.

Now I'm just watching for Asr character as his character was not that butchered yet.

So I will be there till they keep this Arulie love story/till Aryan character kept positive in the show as I don't want to see toxicity beyond that and I would only watch the final episode for having beared so much of nonsense and to see the pathetic end(Adilie) by makers showing us Adi's redemption and forgiveness from Imlie!

This is my take yaar. Sorry if u get hurt on my words on Adilie /Adi.

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

He know he lost everything. More he will drown when he comes to know there was no relationship between imlie & Aryan . He agrees to marry only based on a MU. He is now like world end . Then what makes the difference if he married his assaulter . Actually it is the biggest punishment for her. What she gain ? Only thing physically separated Adhithya & imlie. Nothing else.

This marriage declaration have a long run impact also. I hope again imlie will not push back Adhi , but 2day Rupi said why imlie have to beg for pyaar.

Only T who knows Adhi inside out is questioning not only his trust on imlie but also his pyaar. A very big downfall have occurred by unintentional mu.

What happens when he come to know imlie doesn’t send dp … instead at a moment he get the actual letter.

Imlie’s sufferings was empathetically viewed by everyone .

Aryan’s every dialogue is twisted by imlie for a while . There’s a dialogue by Aryan that ‘ you didn’t know mr. Tripathi as much you have to know’ let’s keep hope whether it’s come to play.

No body after JM incident was tried to understand Adhi. Imlie does but more focus was on her. That I feels like for a self assurance that Adhi not cheated her. Without solving or understand they tried to move ahead . But I hope this split will make them more understand each other.

@bold: For me personally, the difference is still there of being an assaulter and victim. Every rape victim gets a chance to decide whether they want to keep a child out of assault or not. Here the victim isn't even aware of the assault and is made to believe it to be a mistake on both sides. He was again left deprived of that choice. I wish I could say it is the same as as him taking away MC's choice of marriage but it's not ( different situations and intentions). That's why I feel it should be known to Adi ji before he steps into that marriage because if the scores were to be settled then it was settled the day she slept with him.

I don't think it is a punishment for MC as she is getting a physical being for whom she has committed a crime. She is getting what she wants. She decided it the day she walked on the path that Anu showed her . So however she gets Adi ji, it won't matter to her and she will never regret for what she did. If she does not regret the rape then she cannot be human enough to feel beyond physical presence.

@bold2: It is because she has always been on the receiving end and have always fought her battles however difficult it is to fight, unlike Adi ji who always chooses to show his back or become ostrich. The only time he was ready to fight back was when he wanted Imlie in his life but got comfortable and forgot that the fight was not over yet and thag his wife needs his help. Before Aru ji's existence, I saw Adi ji as a bad husband but after I only see him as a lost cause and nothing else. Not a person, fit to love anyone but himself. He is still wallowing in his own ghum without even trying to look for answers as to why this ghum has come to him. I personally find it difficult to empathize with him as he himself has never felt empathy towards anyone. He says he listens and understands but never does anything to make a change.

@bold3: I feel she did try to do her best with what she was given in hand. She fought the way she knew and lost. I won't even blame Adi ji for video deletion because he did what was right with the truth he knows and has accepted. He did it for the baby, knowing that it was not rape but a conspiracy of someone else. I don't find Imlie wrong in her fight for her husband because it was not for her sense of security that her husband did not cheat on her but for what was right even if the victim isn't aware of his own assault. I only find her wrong that even after knowing the child was out of forced union she accepted it and accepted MC's stay in the house but she is young and emotional and is still learning.

*will add more once I gather my thoughts.

Originally posted by: Colormenow

Forgot to tag. Please comment and let me know your views🤗

I agree but khud victim hi maanna nahi chahta even after seeing the proof, and upar se he wants to marry her.

Socho agar someone tells me that I was raped by my friend and I don't believe that claim and baad mein I'll marry them, you'll feel bad for me but whose fault is it? I'm doing this to myself. First of all, would I do it as a sane person? Never. I think adi has Stockholm syndrome.

I choose to zone out that chamdi and his manhoosiyat.

I love imlie, I loved the purana wala Adi and I loved Adilie, but now I can't accept Adilie cuz Adi is beyond redemption.

Toh like I said, zoning out the manhoosiyat is the only option we have to focus on imlie.

Originally posted by: aarti1234

For me, as much as I am enjoying Arylie equation, that is the story that has been shown 1000 times on TV,movies and what not.. so I am really not interested. It was Adilie that was different, courageous, bold. It was the courage on my side as a viewer to accept and cherish a bit different version of EMA. It was the purity and innocence of their love and madness of Adi which attracted me.

If they move to Arylie, I am not interested. Till the time Adi is there,I would hope for his redemption.

Aarti ji kis level pe redeem karna would be acceptable for us?

I don't think makers ka utna aukaat hai to give proper redemption. Already Adi is beyond redemption. Ye long denge bhi toh thanda hoga bilkul..

I left all hopes on it, they will give Adilie in the end but at this cost, I can't accept it.

Now finally is the Adini marriage happening or not?