The Game of Cat and Mouse - Page 11

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

Is this idea given by our opsora

Originally posted by: Pearl21

Not a bad idea 😉 girls kya Kehte ho 😆

DD ka Sach bahar ane k baad next track😆

@bold likh k lelo ye kabhi nahi hoga🤣

Isi hope mein trp aa rahi jo bhi aa rahi h🤣

Originally posted by: jperalta

One question this track poses is: how much of the effort it takes to maintain a relationship should be put in by one partner only?

On the surface level, it seems like Adi is doing all that he can from his standpoint because he, to him helplessly, believes certain lies that have hurt Imlie, regrets what he did as a result, but still wants to be with the woman he’s in love with. This guy is a bit too good at compartmentalizing. What is really going on here is Adi pleading with Imlie to get past what has happened and go back to the way things were before. His entire sense of normalcy & well-being stems from Imlie. We’ve seen it before, in his world, all’s well & good while she’s good with him. Notice how he keeps taking the child’s reference to justify his actions that have hurt Imlie, yet not once has he expressed any genuine emotions, positive or negative, about becoming a father to anyone?

This is working on two levels. He deleted the video impulsively thinking, hey, this is my Imlie. Where a child is involved, she will understand me. She will forgive me, as she has forgiven me and my family on other instances multiple times before. I broke her trust, yes, but in the larger scheme of things, she will still hold some faith in our relationship because that’s who she is. That should make her hold on to me, no matter what. In the meantime, I will win over her forgiveness come what may. When Imlie and I are in a stable place, only then will I have the mental and emotional capacity to think about the child that, for me, Imlie will raise lovingly. Who’s the real mother — he’s least bothered about that despite jeopardizing his marriage for her.

We all want Imlie to leave, keep her self-respect above all this. Fair enough, I want that too. 👍🏼 The counter argument is simply, she doesn’t want to and shouldn’t have to. Adi is the man she loves, and for all his flaws, she doesn’t want to give up on him. The way his family has treated her has been disgusting, to say the least, but from her perspective, they took her in back when Adi was at odds with her and she loves them deeply, so their words & actions may have hurt but she doesn’t want to give up on them either. The crux of the matter is Imlie is a young girl in love with a guy who’s crazy about her, but tends to make glaring mistakes from time to time. I guess the counter perspective here really is, she’s strong enough to fight for her love and marriage when her partner is falling short, so why should she quit?

That brings me to question I started this post off with. Is it fair to expect only Imlie to fight? And if not, does it matter anyway because she wants to? We, as the viewers, are furious on her behalf, but she’s still there working through all of her grief and anger, trying to find her way back to Adi. She has openly declared she isn’t leaving in front of his mother. She loves him to the extent that she is open to the idea of raising a child he’s having with someone else so he won’t have to choose between them.

Is this, or Adi, her strength or weakness? It’s love, so maybe it’s both? Maybe it all depends on the perspective.

Sorry for the long and unexpectedly philosophical post. 🤣 In practical terms, Imlie needs to make a firm demand of Adi. She needs to be the one to advocate for a divorce. She’s the one who’s wronged here and we all know Adi ain’t gonna breathe normal until Imlie at least tries to forgive him, so he won’t think twice about getting that divorce now for Imlie’s sake. (Should be doing it for his own sake but ).

Sorry, couldn’t tag all 😔

I really liked the way u put it.. Will get back.. So yeah after a long time gadda

Originally posted by: Pearl21

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Originally posted by: nim_var

Edited

Thanks for the WU and thread Seera 🤗

Today my mood is slightly better.. after seeing Imlie smile.. that poor gal.. has been through so much..this week alone.

Was it a great week.. nah... but still the needle moved and we got to see Apu turn a corner. I also liked that Imlie is learning to be independant and came home on her own, though it was risky. Her naivete and innocence is very endearing to see and the girl who is fearless does not know the women she met are ladies of the night. Still her innocence was preserved and was able to hitchhike a ride and got herself out of a sticky situation.

Adi getting caged in a marriage was very evident today.. earlier he chose to be with M and now she is sneakily and emotionally BM him to be at her beck and call. The man gave zero faraks to her in the car ride and felt he was grimacing more than smiling... and lost in thoughts of Imlie. Oh how sweetly the knife was twisted into Adi for trying the thread... and his eyes were restlessly searching for his jhalli only. Baby or no baby, the man is gone, she will be left holding only the ashes.

As for everyone rushing out on hearing the noise made by Imlie and BK was funny, asking Sundar to fetch the danda to hit the guy... to giving Adi taana from a total random stranger was...🤣

Poor Imlie.. her trophy broken like her dreams, hurt and disappointed... that Aditya did not come to pick her up.. again he broke her trust in him..... confirmed by the next words uttered by M.. as for BK-RAdha, I ignored what they said... seeing Radha smile like that... was..too much for me to bear.

Apu what a turn..from her and the thawing has begun..the ice has begun to melt at last. PT's words have an impact and she is observing what Imlie has done and is doing now. Gives her advice like a stern mother and cries..while saying it. Hmmmm... Imlie gets a new lease of life on hearing her words.. this was a lively scene.

The coldness continues between Adilie and Imlie is hands off... to Adi... who tries to talk to her.. and says sorry again for the nth time.. and wants to take her on a date..a lunch date.. Oh..Imlie melted at last.. and gave a tiny little smile.. Adi is also kush... awww... happy Imliya.. is good. As for the resident evil.. she is always lurking about and slithering hither n thither with strange cravings.. and treating people like dirt. Bring it on lady... you are gonna lose..loser dd.

Finally managing to catch-up with the thread this evening and love this post as so much you have said is so true and more love it 🤗 glad to see you felt there was a shift in the story this week even if it was slow.

One thing to me that stood out the most today was during the Maline and Aditya sit down with bk and rahdha was that she is slowly chipping away at is soul stealing what she can still see is left of him because her own died a long time ago, today the venom was on display fully with the way she deferred the topic from imlie to the child. Today was a proof of why there love died because as they say love is killed by either neglect or narcissism and in this case the pattern of abuse is control. She was always happy on having Aditya and chose him for the middle class values because she knew she could control him to her means and portray what she wanted the family to see which was a sweet smart woman whom anyone would want but is toxic on the inside. She was looking for a man like her farther and found one in him because he would do what she said for seven years. He has been threading on eggshells for so long that he cannot see the difference between it anymore.

But what I love is that even with him there she has not been able to get her control back for that communication is gone. He soul physically and mentally was calling out to imlie and you could see if bothering her. Child or no child imlie is here to stay and her love for Aditya is not bound but control but of respect. The consent and acceptance that they will want to be together has not been denied with this child in play.

It’s eating her up on the inside that she can no longer control him emotionally and this is why she has now targeted his family and the way they see him. She thought playing this card imlie would leave but by allowing her to stay she has shown her faith in her marriage and the trust she holds in him and them. She has crossed that boundary of fear slight even if she is not ashore just yet.

The web of misinformation being sewn by Maline may seem unfair to us today but unless and until Aditya doesn’t want to see what his happening he will not be able to falter form trusting her. I think aparna advice was sound today and a step in the right direction it was a way for imlie to come home to Aditya and heal him and them and allow him to make the right choice of whom to trust and how. I feel as much as aparna did this for her she also did it for her son because I feel she can see his pain and the shell he has become.

People keep saying his character is lost I say his guilt has defined him to chose between love and responsibility. He cannot deny either and is happy to make a choice once he is assured of where he stand with imlie, he is lost because he feels he cannot deny the hurt he has caused. In his eye the only victim in all this is her because he has yet to help her be the rightful wife in his family and travel a journey of dreams he may have had wished for with her. Once he knows he has her support he can bring back the faith and with be the husband he wants. I found it so adorable that imlie stood her ground on the issue of the date or no date she was not willing to let him get of scot free. She was hurt and told him. I love that she is always honest and willing to say what is in her mind no matter what others think. This is why I love there journey because amongst all the angst and anger there is still hope and respect that they will be one again. The willingness to fight is what will heal all the cracks.

He is not the same normal person he was at the start aloof from the family and angry at his faith today he is in denial and struggling with all that has happened. Walking one eggshell of what he believes he is supposed to be doing then what he wants. When he was forced to marry imlie and came home at least he was allowed to be the man he was. The journalist in him was thriving him forward but the lie was eating him at the core of the truth he was holding back. He has alway been a simple black and white kind guy and has no remorse about it. Today he is not even that because of the fear he carries within if he makes a choice because he doesn’t know where he stands on either side.

The choice of the marriage reveal and lie was his and the pregnancy acceptance has not been. He was forced to take responsibility of the marriage when imlie had told him that she will be fine on her own and he can be with the woman he loves. She never manipulated him to be with her he chose to be with her and own the man he was within. Why do people keep saying his character sketch has been lost at the root of it all he took responsibility of imlie when he did not want or loved her and he has done so with the child as well. And let’s remember imlie is as flawed as he is because she let Maline mistakes slide for a long time as well had she acted when she started she would not be here today. What I love of her that unlike Aditya she is not afraid to call out her flaws and own them and shown Maline that she is aware of her manipulation. If some struggle to see this then they should have know that this was not a cliche love story form the start but a journey of imlie were she learns to love herself, others and achieve her dreams because of the strength she holds as she finds a home in Aditya as he does in her.

It’s nice to see the ice melt in aparna and I am glad that nani and pt words have made her think. I also believe will pave way for her to see the scheming ways of Maline know that imlie will try rk look after the child and show her support to Aditya as she did in the case. This will eat away at family and at the same time allow imlie to be welcomed at the rightful wife.

Maline and AC have not realised that with this issue they have only made there own game more complex for they won’t like the support imlie will be getting from all parties. Today shows that imlie faith and trust will lead her gain the love she deserves. But most of all on all these problems Maline is setting up for her the girl managing to find a way to be the wife and dreamer she is.

I feel Maline will crack sooner or later and reveal a darker side of her that she has been holding back and this will be the wake up call Aditya needs to sort things through. You have named her aptly Nim resident evil will soon learn that a lie can spun a thousand ways but one day it will become moot when he or she is no longer willing to believe what you are saying. He withholding information and replacing it with false once will strike her where it hurts and this we hopefully will see soon as imlie will want to bond with the baby and Aditya shall support her for her left the choice to her and he said he would follow.

But I shall say this it will be treat to watch Aditya lost like a lost puppy seeking imlie attention know that it will be divided and we have known in the past he doesn’t like sharing as he claims he does 🤣🤣

For me the story is on the right track and will agree toe disagree that no new male lead is needed. This story was always about unrequited love and how this can become beautiful of accepted for what it is. We have to remember both Aditya and Imlie never believed in it and nor longed for it as it was bestowed upon them by faith. So watch it one step at a time and see how they come together again. I love the message shown so far walking away is easy staying and fighting so what is tight is hard and imlie from the first episode has been a fighter whom has fought for her own loved once or be that her demons. So why will she not be here today to help him fight off this abuse and make a choice he is so clearly struggling to make. For he can be a father to the child even when he has divorced her for that there is no need of a marriage or relationship. So in the end Maline has lost to title of lover, wife and daughter in law and the irony is she is yet to see it 🤣 what a fall from grace 🤣🤣

So I agree with it all and more and hopefully the next few episodes will lighter with imlie in action. I hope the imlie gods head to some of our words

Originally posted by: Juvvi9

First of all ek dum mast review chinta ji... 🤣 🤣

2 weeks min as i said.. Miscarriage drama i dont know 50 50

Ab didi konsa depression mei jayegi.. She needs no reason to be in T house.. She is welcome there always.. Didi k chakkar mei humko depression ho raha hai..

With all this imlie thinking of baccha n becoming SIRF MAA as aparna said.. Didi ab desperate hogi i feel miscarriage drama se pehle hi imlie NDE karegi n blurt out everything..

Pregnancy fake hai yaar.. Still #Teamkuchnahihua

Thanks juvvi ji.. 🤗

Lol ho bhi sakta hai but itni jaldi thodi na denge humhe ye log. How much more of Adi's insensitivity towards Imlie just for the sake of bachha should we watch. We don't even get to know what's in his mind. Hum toh kuch depth assume karke we were khush.. ki kuch hoga hoga.. gash ne toh saare hopes maardiya by mentioning frivolous writing. How can we even hope now. Upar se this dragging n now new track of bachha caring. Nonsense

Originally posted by: nim_var

raaz I loved your take on the epi and on Adi.. will reply tomorrow..

I also read the WU posts.. and hope to share some thoughts..

No worries take your time and have a lovely weekend 🤗 love to read what you think soon in the mean time I shall catch-up with this weeks post 😊

Originally posted by: jperalta

One question this track poses is: how much of the effort it takes to maintain a relationship should be put in by one partner only?

On the surface level, it seems like Adi is doing all that he can from his standpoint because he, to him helplessly, believes certain lies that have hurt Imlie, regrets what he did as a result, but still wants to be with the woman he’s in love with. This guy is a bit too good at compartmentalizing. What is really going on here is Adi pleading with Imlie to get past what has happened and go back to the way things were before. His entire sense of normalcy & well-being stems from Imlie. We’ve seen it before, in his world, all’s well & good while she’s good with him. Notice how he keeps taking the child’s reference to justify his actions that have hurt Imlie, yet not once has he expressed any genuine emotions, positive or negative, about becoming a father to anyone?

This is working on two levels. He deleted the video impulsively thinking, hey, this is my Imlie. Where a child is involved, she will understand me. She will forgive me, as she has forgiven me and my family on other instances multiple times before. I broke her trust, yes, but in the larger scheme of things, she will still hold some faith in our relationship because that’s who she is. That should make her hold on to me, no matter what. In the meantime, I will win over her forgiveness come what may. When Imlie and I are in a stable place, only then will I have the mental and emotional capacity to think about the child that, for me, Imlie will raise lovingly. Who’s the real mother — he’s least bothered about that despite jeopardizing his marriage for her.

We all want Imlie to leave, keep her self-respect above all this. Fair enough, I want that too. 👍🏼 The counter argument is simply, she doesn’t want to and shouldn’t have to. Adi is the man she loves, and for all his flaws, she doesn’t want to give up on him. The way his family has treated her has been disgusting, to say the least, but from her perspective, they took her in back when Adi was at odds with her and she loves them deeply, so their words & actions may have hurt but she doesn’t want to give up on them either. The crux of the matter is Imlie is a young girl in love with a guy who’s crazy about her, but tends to make glaring mistakes from time to time. I guess the counter perspective here really is, she’s strong enough to fight for her love and marriage when her partner is falling short, so why should she quit?

That brings me to question I started this post off with. Is it fair to expect only Imlie to fight? And if not, does it matter anyway because she wants to? We, as the viewers, are furious on her behalf, but she’s still there working through all of her grief and anger, trying to find her way back to Adi. She has openly declared she isn’t leaving in front of his mother. She loves him to the extent that she is open to the idea of raising a child he’s having with someone else so he won’t have to choose between them.

Is this, or Adi, her strength or weakness? It’s love, so maybe it’s both? Maybe it all depends on the perspective.

Sorry for the long and unexpectedly philosophical post. 🤣 In practical terms, Imlie needs to make a firm demand of Adi. She needs to be the one to advocate for a divorce. She’s the one who’s wronged here and we all know Adi ain’t gonna breathe normal until Imlie at least tries to forgive him, so he won’t think twice about getting that divorce now for Imlie’s sake. (Should be doing it for his own sake but ).

Sorry, couldn’t tag all 😔

Agree to all your points 👍🏻

@bold1: exactly.. in today’s episode he said not get anytime… next day of court case kidnapping occurred. Next day college issue & another MU created. Atleast now he may thing really someone ( only one is pulling him apart) … and also he specifically said not anybody only two of us … that means he must want to talk about them selves …

&bold2: that we have seeing in episodes … yesterday it self he was like a dead man sitting beside M.

@bold3: who is the real mother least bothered him… Actually I also felt it when Aparna said it to imlie … His mother knows what and how Adhi thinks that’s why she said sirf maa, Obviously other two relations are existing but sirf maa is some more related to Adhi. & through this only their relationship also develop. Most of the comments are like Aparna asks to babysit the kid etc … I feel it’s not like that & even she have empathy to imlies situations Aparna is giving choice …

As always imlie is the one who thinks about long term process … Adhi is still not thinking about responsibility side he was like I not able to reach imlie due to MU. Maha episode also he said I will take responsibility as you said, taking responsibility is also not his choice…when family

For imlie & about family I feel Adhi is still her strong hold … but obviously considers family since from day 1 to tablethod shaadhi they support her. When decision to imlie to shift to C house she said Rupi like when Adhi was not for her this family stood for her.

This are my takes …

Jis tarah aditya ko dumb kar dea imlie ko bhi ker dain makers simple tab to possible ha 😆

Originally posted by: Pearl21

Jis tarah aditya ko dumb kar dea imlie ko bhi ker dain makers simple tab to possible ha 😆