Originally posted by: Apsvenky
Here I want to put out something. Like I mentioned in another post of mine, Imlie has not reached that point in the relationship that Adi has already crossed. Reason being that even when compare today's scene with the scene when Adi was jealous of Prakash, we can see that Adi's feelings and involvement is much deeper than Imlies. For Imlie that connect is there but it has not yet developed into a full fledged two way rishta. Adi is ready for it because he has understood that she is the one for him, but I don't think she has reached that point yet. That is why it is easier for her to say today that let Malini's place be intact, I will create my own space in your life. Jab unka rishta becomes that 2 way street, that is when this care for Malini will matter to Imlie, especially when it will come to a point when it affects her relationship with Adi. Till then Imlie will be this clueless on the effects this gehri dosti of AM will actually have on her relationship with Adi.
LOL ok chalo I'll buy it for argument's sake....what exactly makes you think Imlie will EVER reach that point then? Malini ain't going anywhere and will ALWAYS be hanging over their relationship.....Adi has already said and done pretty much everything he can to assure Imlie of his feelings for her.....Imlie has already acknowledged to her family that she loves Adi and he is her "sab kuch"😆.....so do tell me what new point is left for her to reach to feel "involved"? 😆
This is just Imlie's escapism at work....if she needs AM's relationship to be officially dissolved to suddenly develop "deep feelings" for Adi😆, then their relationship is going to be hollow long term.....this otherwise long journey of so many things they shared - life and death experiences, understanding, faith....all of it is moot for Imlie?
What space is she talking about? Bullshit😆....to make space, you have to take steps....not just hang back and bury your head in the sand....karna kuch hai nahin aur baatein badi badi hawaa mein😆
Your example would hold up if the other person in this equation was not Malini......Adi's issues with Prakash are very different from the issues regarding Malini and Imlie.....and I think it's very twisted to first claim faith and confidence in someone and then claim insecurities later....if that's the Imlie they are going for, I'm deffo going to feel disconnected.