A hint from todays episode - Page 6

Originally posted by: Aniash

Agree dear like how u have deduced through observations similar here as well as to what most of us have observed from the show.

Before posting this thread i felt the same way . Perhaps consummation have taken place . But its just that his dialogues i cheated neither of u made our eyes roll. Thats all.

So for this reason this post was made to get opinions from others . Its good u brought up urs

I was confused coz when he said he did not cheat malini coz there was no physical relationship with imlie . Understood . No problem. He never cheated malini. That we all know.

But the same he said for imlie as well. I cheated neither of u. What does that mean. He didnt cheat imlie. That means no physical relations with malini either. Imlie is the first wife no matter how the marriage took place and subconsciously he admitted to it as well.

Well i look at it this way. A man who marries second time and consumate the 2nd marriage first while being married to first wife is considered cheating the first wife . Whether he accepts the first wife or no doesnt matter. On moral grounds it does matter coz they are fully married with full rituals and plus the first wife considers him as the husband.

So when he said i cheated neither of u . Means what . High possibility this hunk is a virgin 😂😂😂

Well makers might bring a light on this somehow later on.

According to me what he means when he said that he has not cheated on both of them is that he was not two timing them. Just that.

Yes, you can say that he cheated on Imlie technically since she was his first wife. But he never gave her the right of being his wife until recently. So in his mind he has not cheated Imlie.

I do not have any problem with this thinking personally.

One can call him a cheater on a technicality or call him a guy who was loyal to the one whom he considered his wife at that point. It's one's own individual opinion how one looks at his definition of loyalty & commitment.

Makers can definitely show a convo between Adi-Imlie later on regarding this.

With this I will close my discussion on this topic. I think I have made my opinion clear enough👍🏼.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I am just 🤣 reading through all the posts in the topic.

What does it matter if Adi & Malini have consummated their relationship?!🤔

I don't get this strange obsession that fandoms have of the lead pair having physical relationship only with each other & being pure as if virginity is some reward to be given.

Even if it looks illogical with them being in stable previous relationship for years & having ample opportunity to have physical relationship with their previous partner😈.

It is an individual choice as to whether one has a physical relationship with random people, a stable gf/bf or waiting to get married & then consummating it.

You don't have to passionately fall in love with your partner to have physical relationship. It is part of a normal couple relationship & if both partners give consent, then what's the harm in it?

Adi-Malini were in a stable relationship for 7 years. Even if they didn't have physical relationship during their dating years, what was stopping them from consummating after their marriage? They have been friends for a long period of time, had basic trust with each other & also had plenty of time too.

Just because we have been shown interruptions on their SR or other PDA times, it does not mean they didn't have other opportunities in their 4-5 months of stable relationship. HM is not the only time when people have physical relationship.

I for one believe that they have had physical relationship. One has to just look at the obvious comfort in their physical interactions. Be it the glow on Malini during the vrat day, their chipka-chipki during PDA & their affectionate gestures when they were together alone in their room, writers have subtly implied that they have had physical relationship.

Yes, technically it is Adi cheating on Imlie because she is his first wife. But Adi did not accept Imlie as his wife consciously until the latest PD trip. Initially after his marriage with Malini, he consciously only recognised only Malini as his wife. So why would he feel any guilt for this?

He had already told Imlie that he does not consider their marriage valid & she has no rights on him. Hum Malini ke hi hai was his truth then. So he has not led Imlie on & not cheated her at all.

Once his feelings for Imlie started surfacing into his conscious state, then you can see how he physically detached himself from Malini. Now he is not even comfortable in giving her a friendly hug because for him Imlie is his wife now who deserves his complete commitment.

During his car date with Imlie also he had said that ab Malini aur humare beech aisi koi baat nahi jispe hum parda dale. This "ab" is an important adjective implying that now Adi has completely cut off relationship with Malini on every level & he has committed himself to Imlie completely.

Imlie had always known that Adi loves Malini & was present through out their marriage & post marriage phase. She did not have any expectation from BS about any loyalty because he was Malini Didi's husband. Hence all the wifely rights on him belong to Malini. It is just that Imlie has this understanding & dignity which never allows her to dwell on their past in such a way or ask Adi such crass question directly like Malini.

The most important part is that Adi never two-timed them. Once he accepted his feelings for Imlie, he has been totally loyal to her & completely detached from Malini. That is the only thing that should matter.

Yes, Imlie might have insecurity about not matching up to Malini for Adi but that insecurity is not just limited to the physical aspect but overall as a life partner when they come from such different backgrounds & she has heard that Malini is his perfect match from everybody & most importantly him.

And people do you really think Malini who raises a public tamasha over slightest inattention from Adi wouldn't have raised a tamasha over marriage not being consummated? It would be too big a sign for her to ignore. She might have at least informed her mom about it. That is why during one of their recent fights over Imlie's college admission form being not filled, she had raised the point about him not having been physically affectionate with her.

I liked how the writers have shown this part of a married couple life subtly through implication rather than show us their SR or sexy times directly because Adi-Malini were always meant to be temporary & Adi-Imlie are the end game of the show.

But people are welcome to have their own opinion about it. I have just mentioned what I have deduced through observations. Peace out👍🏼.

Aare when Imlie has no issues with his wafadari on this front why do we care ! Who care if BS is pavitra or not all it matters is at this point in time is he committed or not ... with Imlie.

We are in 2021.

Originally posted by: Dreamer007

Aare when Imlie has no issues with his wafadari on this front why do we care ! Who care if BS is pavitra or not all it matters is at this point in time is he committed or not ... with Imlie.

We are in 2021.

Arey behen chill . Only discussion 😂😂😂 discuss kar ney mey meza aata hai. 😂😂😂

May be the whole husband-wife intimacy topic raised by malini was just to show us the viewers, adi didn't do it with either malini or Imlie. Also, Malini said while talking about divorce, humara rishta bs kagazi hai.

Jitna pda dikhaya gya utna hi hua adini mein, nothing else.

🤓

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I don't get this strange obsession that fandoms have of the lead pair having physical relationship only with each other & being pure as if virginity is some reward to be given.

Loved this statement. I was going mad reading about being pure... blah blah blah. Why is so much importance given to physical relationship, so if they had physical relationship they can’t separate? Does it mean one cheating other? Why is it always viewed as a guy taking advantage?

Nicely written... very good analysis...

Originally posted by: Angel_Shweta

May be the whole husband-wife intimacy topic raised by malini was just to show us the viewers, adi didn't do it with either malini or Imlie. Also, Malini said while talking about divorce, humara rishta bs kagazi hai.

Jitna pda dikhaya gya utna hi hua adini mein, nothing else.

🤓

But it could mean that their marriage is not valid because he is already married to Imlie first and now he want to be only with Imlie as his wife!

Maybe it is not about physical interaction between them

She already said once to , that is she is disgusted that she shared the same bed with him

So that could be reference that they already get involved physically, why she would be disgusted for only sleeping in a bed?

Originally posted by: water_83

Pehele aap lambi saans le aur relax ho jaye...

😆 waise when ever he did that PDA it was only when he needed to hide something or guilty ..or busy convincing himself that hum sirf aap se pyaar karte hai moon...😆many eg were there imlie birthday,moti roti war ...

Secondly moon gale padu was begging haq when things went out of control ...and finally she asked today abt patni haq of imlie ..since usse bhi nahi mila ..so enquiry ...😆

🤣🤣 Haq Enquiry 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Dreamer007

yup she would be like , u used me or u got it from her that is why u r leaving me .. she just wants to ensure wht she can use to give them guilt trip and ensure they are not happy ...even if they are together ... tht is why tht suicide kand too don’t let any1 b at peace ... did he ask her abt her and KC relationship level ...

Malini ka so called imaginary BF will one day pop out of nowhere and create more chaos in her already self created mess🤣🤣

Most people blamed Adi that he Shld have told the truth right away after she woke up from her first fainting spell 🤣 and Shld not have worried about her health blah blah 😵

But why the so called straight forward truth ful Malini is not telling Adi that she lied about her Boyfriend ? why is she carrying a lie forward now ? 😆

Kunal chauhan -🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 kahan ho ?

Tum bhi aajao 😆

More the merrier 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: brat2008

Malini ka so called imaginary BF will one day pop out of nowhere and create more chaos in her already self created mess🤣🤣

Most people blamed Adi that he Shld have told the truth right away after she woke up from her first fainting spell 🤣 and Shld not have worried about her health blah blah 😵

But why the so called straight forward truth ful Malini is not telling Adi that she lied about her Boyfriend ? why is she carrying a lie forward now ? 😆

Kunal chauhan -🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 kahan ho ?

Tum bhi aajao 😆

More the merrier 🤣🤣🤣

I hope they get some1 BS ke takkar ka ...😀

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

And they don't have to be "in love" to do it any way!

It is enough to be comfortable with the other partner 🙈😂

A lot of marriages with kids based on understanding, practical, and respect! Some of them work without love involved!

It is a physical need, and a human nature no one can ignore that!

And they were MARRIED , at least in front of their families and in Dilhi low and they even registered the marriage ( if not she will not ask for the divorce)!

But you and us have to understand and put this fact on our minds too, that ( Real logic and common sense not always work in ITV)

It is a norm in ITV that a man can hold him self living with a women for several months and years from touching her or even till her he loves her while they are already married! 😂

While in real 😂 this could not happen 😂😂😂

So this is the million dollar q, is they gone by logic or by ITV norm 😂

Both of them work for me 😂😂

Lol.. exactly My point , Iam married and I know that a normal man can not be without getting intimate with his wife if the wife is more than willing . If he is , then definitely somethings wrong with him.

But this is ITV, i think the whole reason why they didn’t show it is to keep it open ended for people to imagine whatever they want.

From the kind of dialogues and pda they showed , it was quite obvious that they had a normal wedded life. Yes, after adi realized his love for imli , they never showed him being intimate with her or even talk to her romantically , which makes sense coz now he is invested somewhere else