A hint from todays episode - Page 5

Originally posted by: PPak

the key word being ... 'ab'. This says nothing about what may have transpired before :) It may be good to get the clarity...storywise - but if Imlie does not want wafadhari - what does it matter?

Agree but as being the first wife she may have some hopes. She might not give importance to it directly but deep jn her it affects especially when she sees them together.

Originally posted by: Sunnygrin1

I mean he said he hasn’t given that haq to Both of them at the same time and that is good enough I think.

But okay if it does matter- clues that Adini never perhaps move forward on that front- the HONEYMOON!!!!! People that’s what it was all about. They have never been on e HM which is probably how makers wanted to signal the beginning of that part of the relationship. And honestly with the marriage starting out so stressful- I mean they have their first fight after Adi comes back from PD and then so many things one after the other ....

But honestly in this day and age, does it matter? So many people in second relationships. We belong to a time when women ( and men) are not settling for just anything.... I think we have to move away from that mindset that ‘purity’ is somehow tied in with ‘virginity’. I mean look at Imlie’s mom- such a wonderful person and some how she seems so ‘pure’ to me in her thoughts etc. Her relationship with Satyakam is not anymore sullied or shallower because of her relationship with Dev. So I say- that as long as there is no one else for Adi than Imlie from the point that he says he loves her- it’s all good and fine with me

Thats what we all think . They must have saved it for their honeymoon. Perhaps thats why makers didnt give a light on that part as yet.

Clarity on this is important especially for viewers who prefers adilie pair more and they feel that imlie should get the wifey rights first. For malini it woukd be best if she remains a virgin coz if the divorce took place she would be less hurt that she was not involved with him physically

Physical relations beween husband wife brings out the more stronger bond between them. Only love alone is not enough. A sense of touch a passion is necessary to keep the bond alive.

Imlie somehow controls herself. Aditya is doing the same as well. The emotional hug which they shared in pd the nite they slept in the same room indicated the physical attention between them.

Well i look ai it this way. Imlie should get the right first. And for malini it will benefit her in a way that she will feel less guilty when she finds out that imlie is her step sister and the fact that she slept with het sisterz husband will taunt her more.

As it is she is already feeling guilty of imlie surrendering all rights to her.

The clarity on this is importance for both sisters coz they are tied to the same man.

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Well, Imlie herself didn't ask him to be loyal to her, as someone mention her earlier so it is not an issue at all

I don't care if they did it before marriage, or save their self to marriage, or they both are still virgin 😂

If they done it, we understand human nature we will not judge them 🙄

If they don't we will question Millani IQ and Aditya behavior, like why you marry a women who you can't sleep with! If you are not ready why rushing it? If it feels so wrong why marry her and complicate the things in first place?!

Yes we know this thing is not what whole marriage should be base on, but it is a fundamental issue in every martial relation! It is what elevate from being a frnd to a life partner!

On the other hand it will be a treat for us that Adi save him self for Imlie 🥰

And as someone said if their will be a fake pregnancy attempt to make Adi grovel back to Millani this fact will be needed to be clarified!

But till now, it is not a big deal, I will go with common sense , and everyone could chose what best to believe, until it become clear/ or need to be clarified!

Yes it will be a treat to watch aditya saved it for imlie 😂😂😂

Thats why most viewers who like their pair wants clarity. To imlie it does matter but she is just not showing it. To us also it matters thats why we are discussing it. 😂😂😂

A pregnancy track could hinder adini divorce. Malini wont fake her pregnancy but AC might. This is just a pov that makers can use pregnancy as a twist to halt adini divorce. They need to keep malini in the story and drag as much possible.

And this is also why they didnt show us adini intimate scenes. Perhaps saving for a big twist later on.

Welk hope they dont take this route thats all. Adini divorce takes place. They become friends again trying to move on. Imlie starts her journey. Adilie meet again. Adilie live journey and their re marriage

Theres a lot the makers could do actually but as u see this is itv without twist and turns nothing is possible.

I don’t know why you all think adini never consummated .. isn’t it obvious that they did ! They both were so much into each other and in real world I think it’s impossible for a man and woman who are in “love” and married, not to consummate ..here they even dated for 7 years!!

Originally posted by: prietyp

I don’t know why you all think adini never consummated .. isn’t it obvious that they did ! They both were so much into each other and in real world I think it’s impossible for a man and woman who are in “love” and married, not to consummate ..here they even dated for 7 years!!

And they don't have to be "in love" to do it any way!

It is enough to be comfortable with the other partner 🙈😂

A lot of marriages with kids based on understanding, practical, and respect! Some of them work without love involved!

It is a physical need, and a human nature no one can ignore that!

And they were MARRIED , at least in front of their families and in Dilhi low and they even registered the marriage ( if not she will not ask for the divorce)!

But you and us have to understand and put this fact on our minds too, that ( Real logic and common sense not always work in ITV)

It is a norm in ITV that a man can hold him self living with a women for several months and years from touching her or even till her he loves her while they are already married! 😂

While in real 😂 this could not happen 😂😂😂

So this is the million dollar q, is they gone by logic or by ITV norm 😂

Both of them work for me 😂😂

Originally posted by: prietyp

I don’t know why you all think adini never consummated .. isn’t it obvious that they did ! They both were so much into each other and in real world I think it’s impossible for a man and woman who are in “love” and married, not to consummate ..here they even dated for 7 years!!

How u know they consummated. Did u see . Which episode .😂😂😂

If they show them being involved why didnt show their ntimate scenes .. in itv serials we do get this scenes but not here. Defo not bold ones but romantic hot scened Like for example shower scenes. Catch and fall scenes.

Here only huggng kissing forehead feeding apples filling the maang. Etc. The guy and lady carries their bag to work in the morning etc. Eve

On top of that suhaag raat ruined. They had misunderstanding. Then lots of obstacles came in between tension between them . Then honeymoon postpone. So .

What do u expect . Anyone who watches this serial will ask himself or herself about adini relationship status apart from being husband and wife. 😂😂😂

What u said could logically be true. We all understand and agree as well but dear this is itv. Couples could be married for 7 mths but no physical relationship. In itv anything is possible and here defo is possible coz of the tons of obstacles that cane into their marriage life.

Perhaps in coming episodes things will be more clearer

Actually previous episode when it was raining(barso re Megha) adi saved moon from water splash and moonji was all in la la land with that touch or concern but adi was totally normal it did not affect him ...so I guess he never felt that kind of pull towards moon.like ladki hai, barish,romance .😆but incase if imlie he felt that pull . If she is not in front of his eyes he went crazy...

So I still feel nahi huya hai adini ka consummation ..the marriage itself was for promise or say adi finding it comfortable to spend his life with moon as she was his good friend ...but till the time he understood the damage was done

Originally posted by: prietyp

I don’t know why you all think adini never consummated .. isn’t it obvious that they did ! They both were so much into each other and in real world I think it’s impossible for a man and woman who are in “love” and married, not to consummate ..here they even dated for 7 years!!

I am just 🤣 reading through all the posts in the topic.

What does it matter if Adi & Malini have consummated their relationship?!🤔

I don't get this strange obsession that fandoms have of the lead pair having physical relationship only with each other & being pure as if virginity is some reward to be given.

Even if it looks illogical with them being in stable previous relationship for years & having ample opportunity to have physical relationship with their previous partner😈.

It is an individual choice as to whether one has a physical relationship with random people, a stable gf/bf or waiting to get married & then consummating it.

You don't have to passionately fall in love with your partner to have physical relationship. It is part of a normal couple relationship & if both partners give consent, then what's the harm in it?

Adi-Malini were in a stable relationship for 7 years. Even if they didn't have physical relationship during their dating years, what was stopping them from consummating after their marriage? They have been friends for a long period of time, had basic trust with each other & also had plenty of time too.

Just because we have been shown interruptions on their SR or other PDA times, it does not mean they didn't have other opportunities in their 4-5 months of stable relationship. HM is not the only time when people have physical relationship.

I for one believe that they have had physical relationship. One has to just look at the obvious comfort in their physical interactions. Be it the glow on Malini during the vrat day, their chipka-chipki during PDA & their affectionate gestures when they were together alone in their room, writers have subtly implied that they have had physical relationship.

Yes, technically it is Adi cheating on Imlie because she is his first wife. But Adi did not accept Imlie as his wife consciously until the latest PD trip. Initially after his marriage with Malini, he consciously only recognised only Malini as his wife. So why would he feel any guilt for this?

He had already told Imlie that he does not consider their marriage valid & she has no rights on him. Hum Malini ke hi hai was his truth then. So he has not led Imlie on & not cheated her at all.

Once his feelings for Imlie started surfacing into his conscious state, then you can see how he physically detached himself from Malini. Now he is not even comfortable in giving her a friendly hug because for him Imlie is his wife now who deserves his complete commitment.

During his car date with Imlie also he had said that ab Malini aur humare beech aisi koi baat nahi jispe hum parda dale. This "ab" is an important adjective implying that now Adi has completely cut off relationship with Malini on every level & he has committed himself to Imlie completely.

Imlie had always known that Adi loves Malini & was present through out their marriage & post marriage phase. She did not have any expectation from BS about any loyalty because he was Malini Didi's husband. Hence all the wifely rights on him belong to Malini. It is just that Imlie has this understanding & dignity which never allows her to dwell on their past in such a way or ask Adi such crass question directly like Malini.

The most important part is that Adi never two-timed them. Once he accepted his feelings for Imlie, he has been totally loyal to her & completely detached from Malini. That is the only thing that should matter.

Yes, Imlie might have insecurity about not matching up to Malini for Adi but that insecurity is not just limited to the physical aspect but overall as a life partner when they come from such different backgrounds & she has heard that Malini is his perfect match from everybody & most importantly him.

And people do you really think Malini who raises a public tamasha over slightest inattention from Adi wouldn't have raised a tamasha over marriage not being consummated? It would be too big a sign for her to ignore. She might have at least informed her mom about it. That is why during one of their recent fights over Imlie's college admission form being not filled, she had raised the point about him not having been physically affectionate with her.

I liked how the writers have shown this part of a married couple life subtly through implication rather than show us their SR or sexy times directly because Adi-Malini were always meant to be temporary & Adi-Imlie are the end game of the show.

But people are welcome to have their own opinion about it. I have just mentioned what I have deduced through observations. Peace out👍🏼.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I am just 🤣 reading through all the posts in the topic.

What does it matter if Adi & Malini have consummated their relationship?!🤔

I don't get this strange obsession that fandoms have of the lead pair having physical relationship only with each other & being pure as if virginity is some reward to be given.

Even if it looks illogical with them being in stable previous relationship for years & having ample opportunity to have physical relationship with their previous partner😈.

It is an individual choice as to whether one has a physical relationship with random people, a stable gf/bf or waiting to get married & then consummating it.

You don't have to passionately fall in love with your partner to have physical relationship. It is part of a normal couple relationship & if both partners give consent, then what's the harm in it?

Adi-Malini were in a stable relationship for 7 years. Even if they didn't have physical relationship during their dating years, what was stopping them from consummating after their marriage? They have been friends for a long period of time, had basic trust with each other & also had plenty of time too.

Just because we have been shown interruptions on their SR or other PDA times, it does not mean they didn't have other opportunities in their 4-5 months of stable relationship. HM is not the only time when people have physical relationship.

I for one believe that they have had physical relationship. One has to just look at the obvious comfort in their physical interactions. Be it the glow on Malini during the vrat day, their chipka-chipki during PDA & their affectionate gestures when they were together alone in their room, writers have subtly implied that they have had physical relationship.

Yes, technically it is Adi cheating on Imlie because she is his first wife. But Adi did not accept Imlie as his wife consciously until the latest PD trip. Initially after his marriage with Malini, he consciously only recognised only Malini as his wife. So why would he feel any guilt for this?

He had already told Imlie that he does not consider their marriage valid & she has no rights on him. Hum Malini ke hi hai was his truth then. So he has not led Imlie on & not cheated her at all.

Once his feelings for Imlie started surfacing into his conscious state, then you can see how he physically detached himself from Malini. Now he is not even comfortable in giving her a friendly hug because for him Imlie is his wife now who deserves his complete commitment.

During his car date with Imlie also he had said that ab Malini aur humare beech aisi koi baat nahi jispe hum parda dale. This "ab" is an important adjective implying that now Adi has completely cut off relationship with Malini on every level & he has committed himself to Imlie completely.

Imlie had always known that Adi loves Malini & was present through out their marriage & post marriage phase. She did not have any expectation from BS about any loyalty because he was Malini Didi's husband. Hence all the wifely rights on him belong to Malini. It is just that Imlie has this understanding & dignity which never allows her to dwell on their past in such a way or ask Adi such crass question directly like Malini.

The most important part is that Adi never two-timed them. Once he accepted his feelings for Imlie, he has been totally loyal to her & completely detached from Malini. That is the only thing that should matter.

Yes, Imlie might have insecurity about not matching up to Malini for Adi but that insecurity is not just limited to the physical aspect but overall as a life partner when they come from such different backgrounds & she has heard that Malini is his perfect match from everybody & most importantly him.

And people do you really think Malini who raises a public tamasha over slightest inattention from Adi wouldn't have raised a tamasha over marriage not being consummated? It would be too big a sign for her to ignore. She might have at least informed her mom about it. That is why during one of their recent fights over Imlie's college admission form being not filled, she had raised the point about him not having been physically affectionate with her.

I liked how the writers have shown this part of a married couple life subtly through implication rather than show us their SR or sexy times directly because Adi-Malini were always meant to be temporary & Adi-Imlie are the end game of the show.

But people are welcome to have their own opinion about it. I have just mentioned what I have deduced through observations. Peace out👍🏼.

Agree dear like how u have deduced through observations similar here as well as to what most of us have observed from the show.

Before posting this thread i felt the same way . Perhaps consummation have taken place . But its just that his dialogues i cheated neither of u made our eyes roll. Thats all.

So for this reason this post was made to get opinions from others . Its good u brought up urs

I was confused coz when he said he did not cheat malini coz there was no physical relationship with imlie . Understood . No problem. He never cheated malini. That we all know.

But the same he said for imlie as well. I cheated neither of u. What does that mean. He didnt cheat imlie. That means no physical relations with malini either. Imlie is the first wife no matter how the marriage took place and subconsciously he admitted to it as well.

Well i look at it this way. A man who marries second time and consumate the 2nd marriage first while being married to first wife is considered cheating the first wife . Whether he accepts the first wife or no doesnt matter. On moral grounds it does matter coz they are fully married with full rituals and plus the first wife considers him as the husband.

So when he said i cheated neither of u . Means what . High possibility this hunk is a virgin 😂😂😂

Well makers might bring a light on this somehow later on.