Up in the air! DT Note Page 4 - Page 2

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Breaking news keep real out of fictional show that she picked for work.. I am sure she is aware what she is doing and whatever her personal tragedy is has nothing to do with the job.. NOBODY here not a single soul here is judging malini or mayuri based on her personal life so stop mixing you want to sympathize plz do but with the charcate le here keep mayuri and malini separate... that has nothing to do with how people feel for malini and just caz she suffered in real life doesn't again give her token and whitewash medal in reel.. that is no justification for the way her character behaves.. plz if you want to argue use fictional argument from.the show..

Making fun of suicide is okay ?? Just bcz it's a show ? I don't find it okay and so I hv pointed it out to show how insensitive you guys are to real issues.

Oh I don't want to argue wid you. I am sure I can't change your mind and vice versa.

I don't see any justification for the way Adi and Imlie behave either .

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Making fun of suicide is okay ?? Just bcz it's a show ? I don't find it okay and so I hv pointed it out to show how insensitive you guys are to real issues.

Oh I don't want to argue wid you. I am sure I can't change your mind and vice versa.

I don't see any justification for the way Adi and Imlie behave either .

Nobody is making fun of the suicide but in this show the character did it because she was not getting her way. Do you really want that message to go out to the community that its better to take the extreme step rather than facing the truth bravely? i know there are weak women out there but I would rather have them follow Imlie's footsteps who went through much more hardship and pain than the darling princess who just knows how to throw tantrums.

@bold: Are you watching the show because not sure what this means?

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I know hw trp works . But when I didn't say anything about the trips and den why should I listen to arguments abt it. I read articles where it was written Imlie has fallen in his position. And dts what I mentioned. If you think it's doing well......good for you.

If it's against the forum rules......go ahead and report it. DTs can remove my comment or send me a warning. I hv no issues.

yeh according to us it's doing well so we are least bothered about any other least important thing like position.

thanks

When suicide is a sensitive content the problem is with romantising it. Why did she actually tried to commit suicide.😡 Lol that too in wedding attire. Then inviting Aditya see it. For Inflicting trauma😵 Aditya revealed he is in love with Imlie today only. She took 3 days footage for 1 suicide . Wrote a letter costing 1 episode. Actually why did she do it.

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

When suicide is a sensitive content the problem is with romantising it. Why did she actually tried to commit suicide.😡 Lol that too in wedding attire. Then inviting Aditya see it. For Inflicting trauma😵 Aditya revealed he is in love with Imlie today only. She took 3 days footage for 1 suicide . Wrote a letter costing 1 episode. Actually why did she do it.

aditya ko zindegi bhar ke liye bada wala trauma dena tha aur guilty feel karwani thi just on the basis of her fake assumptions isiliye suicide ki woh bhi wedding attire pe, basically she wanted to make sure he lives the life of a murderer in the rest of his life even though he wasn't one! Thank God imlie ne bacha li 😳 aur itna kachra karwa di pure ek hafte ka with her kachra activities toh trp toh girna hi tha

Originally posted by: Mahimahijit

We all forget this is a GUL KHAN show ...after a great start the whole script becomes evil and even more diabolically evenly ..will someone please tell her that in this day and age when people are already depressed with Carona no one wants to watch a sadistic violent and terrible show like Imlie

Yeah right that's why it's in 2nd position 🤣

Originally posted by: pamk06

Nobody is making fun of the suicide but in this show the character did it because she was not getting her way. Do you really want that message to go out to the community that its better to take the extreme step rather than facing the truth bravely? i know there are weak women out there but I would rather have them follow Imlie's footsteps who went through much more hardship and pain than the darling princess who just knows how to throw tantrums.

@bold: Are you watching the show because not sure what this means?

I am tired of explaining to every person. Suicide isn't something which weak people do. Tagging a person who commited or attempted suicide is just equal to making fun of the whole thing. People don't do it bcz they are weak. It's a moment of depression or a sequence of events leading up to it. It's when a person feels helplessness that they think they ought to do it bcz the pain feels overwhelming. It's very easy to say be strong as long as you havent been in their position or felt what mental pressure they have felt. Depression is real issue and so is suicide . It's not something weak people made up.

It's so unfair to call every person who has ever been on that position weak. I wish people would be more sensitive and understanding of mental health .....world would definitely be a better place.

Imlie is not a role model for me and I won't suggest any woman I know to be like Imlie . Instead of trying to do something for your family and focussing on making a future , just go and pursue a forced marriage and stay as a maid of the sake of your husband. Say you want someone's happiness when in reality you want that happiness for yourself. Well she isn't a role model for me.

As for your question.....yes I hv watched the show and I find Imlie and Aditya's actions far too questionable than anyone else's. Well to rethink Anu and Dev would top the list, followed by Aditya and Imlie. Love isnt the only value in life.....not for me. There are things I value over love.....for example loyalty, honesty , friendship , family and respect.

If we’re talking the law, when will Anu be arrested for her physical abuse and violent attack on Imlie? Just wondering 🤷🏽‍♀️

Aditya WILLINGLY married Malini knowing he was already married at gunpoint to imlie. He didnot have the courage to tell the truth when he was not at fault.

This show is just promoting bigamy, EMA

I really want to know where we're these bold voices when Imlie was going through such a ordeal in initial episodes.

Poor Malini, she is being cheated on, where were this righteousness gone when Imlie was being treated unfairly for?

If Suicide was a moment of weakness, then why Imlie staying as a maid or accepting her marriage is weak or immoral.

A so called well educated mature professor has crossed all boundaries of stupidity and a 18 year old is held responsible for her thought process she grew up with.

Why?

She shouldn't think about her financial and physical security but chase a so called self respect that would either land her up on roads or back in her regressive village. Even if she choose to believe in marriage, who is any one to tell her not to follow her belief system. She never forced her self on anyone.

While suicide has been seen upon from just precious Malini's point of view. Well this moment of weakness could have ended entire life of not just her ,but her parents, Aditya and Imlie, inflicting life long psychological trauma on them.

That beautiful Suicide note she wrote was enough to finish everything for Aditya, even his family considering he did no crime. He has wronged malini, but never once disrespected or abused her. Why he should be punished for offense like harassment, when he never did any of that.

What Malini did was a terrible deed, keeping aside her post Suicide actions which hardly make any sense.

Imlie will any day be superior for me, then Malini. Today also instead of asking right questions and bashing Aditya, all Malini madam did was trashing Imlie using cheapest words most of the time.

Typical mentality of blaming the girl instead of grilling your own husband, that is a big sign of a weak mind and shallow character.