Pity Malini - Page 2

Originally posted by: curious1

Why is all this not applicable to Imlie. Why did she try to stick to this marriage. Is it because she is a ganwaar and keeps taking Sita Maiya’s name in vein.

i am amazed to see that for the sane reason Imlie is praised and Malini is criticized.

Why all the bad marriage and divorce supporters did not say this for Imlie

How blindly biased Imlie supporters are.

Totally agree.....well said

Imlie by her believe does not have the option of "divorce" but she did give up her marriage and separate herself and did not tied up Adi by their relation , she just let him go! She did not claim her right from him till now, but I hope she will very soon!

However, letting him go and giving up her own relation for the sake of Adini happiness, is her choice! She could fight! She could raise her voice,however I don't think how Aditya ending his marriage by low will affect her believe, that need her to change her mind and give up on her own rooted believes too, so it will end their marriage in front of the low, but that will not change that to her he is her husband for the next 7 life to come!

But she have the courage to let go and leave, she have the tenderness to reject him after his acceptance! Yes she is mahan

And I hope she stop this now, and claim what she always own!

Originally posted by: curious1

Why is all this not applicable to Imlie. Why did she try to stick to this marriage. Is it because she is a ganwaar and keeps taking Sita Maiya’s name in vein.

i am amazed to see that for the sane reason Imlie is praised and Malini is criticized.

Why all the bad marriage and divorce supporters did not say this for Imlie

How blindly biased Imlie supporters are.

Imlie has never stuck to her marriage. She has stuck to the Tripathi household, that too for practical reasons:

1)Going back to PD will bring more trouble for her mother from nakli nani

2) She doesn’t want to trouble her already worried mom

3) The truth coming out for Satyakam will threaten Aditya’s life

4) Imlie sees staying in Delhi as a way of fulfilling her dreams

She has never claimed her rights in the marriage—she is an independent entity without the tag of being Aditya’s wife. She doesn’t want to remarry—that’s her choice. But when has she harmed herself or gone on the path of self-decimation because of her bad marriage? NEVER. The point in question here is the harm women bring on themselves for being in a bad marriage, which Malini is doing to herself. It is a terrible role model to be portrayed on national TV.

Imlie is hurting everyone with her silence. She should have spoken up before Aditya and Malini’s marriage. The biggest difference between Malini and Imlie is that Imlie knows everything and Malini does not. Malini cannot do much without finding the truth but Imlie decided to get stuck to them after knowing everything. This makes Imlie a bad person. She could have hone away snd made something out of her life instead she tried to destroy 3 lives.

it will be great if Imlie and Malini both leave Aditya.

Originally posted by: woman11

Since you got personal with the second person “ you”, let me tell you that I would happily walk out of a marriage where my husband stays with me only because he is scared of me😁 🤣🤣🤣

And I would not commit suicide over my suspicions until they are confronted and confirmed 🙏 BTW, I have been through a break up with a cheating partner and I certainly did not behave like Malini! I walked out of the relationship with my head held high! So please do not make assumptions before launching a personal attack🙏The serial is portraying women as weak, moping, and their existence defined by a man. It’s high time we call out on such problematic portrayal.

A few years ago a woman was killed on Karwachauth by her husband over an affair. The husband wanted a divorce, the woman got her in laws and everyone in the family to “fix” her husband. She refused to give divorce and stayed on. Eventually, she was murdered brutally. The husband is in jail and the couple’s six month old and six year old are growing up without parents😢. I wish she had walked out of her marriage and started anew with her kids. We really need to teach our girls to walk out of bad marriages, not mope and try to “fix” irreparable things

Am sorry if this was deemed to be a personal attack. Its about Malini and only Malini and about all the women who find themselves with man who are neither faithful nor have enough pluck to confess the truth.

Malini's reaction however desperate they are, should not absolve Aditya of his unprincipled behavior. He deserves slaps from Malini and every member of Malini's house. My post is not regarding what Malini should do upon finding about her unfaithful husband. But the unfaithful husband himself who has made a joke of their relationship. Malini is a victim here. She is not to be blamed for Aditya's unfaithful, gutless and unprincipled behavior. Lets not put men like Aditya on a pedestal even in fiction but make a habit of calling out their wrongs. While Aditya gets a free pass, Malini is villainized for her desperate reaction to Aditya's betrayal is seriously mind boggling.