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Posted: 4 years ago
#61

So I refrained from watching before the write up AY. The way you wrote it was so good that I went back and finally caught it. I dont know if we have visitors here from the creatives it sure feel so. Because they be reading and doing something about it.

Here is my pointer based review of what a dhasu episode-

1. It was a draining, straining episode. But that is because of how well the actors did their job. Kudos!

2. All Mrs C dialogues came out today. Phew ek guess work khatam hua!

3. I dont want to talk about Malini in this post because I am still trying to wrap my head on the way she thought, understood and reacted. To her the marriage was just Adi. She never really became the daughter in law of that family. She gave two hoots to how she had blown the entire sindoor drama out of proportion even when T’a try to calm her or Imlie down. Jaane do, I just cant!

4. Adi spoke and how?! I had very less hopes that he will speak up, he did to the extent where the family also knows that he has been suffocating in his own house and room. What a revelation for the T’s.

5. I loved Imlie and Adi’s conversation. They talk! Bas! They dont always agree but they talk..

6. Ofcourse no sachai is coming forth, but it is high time Imlie realizes that marriage is not only about joining two families, sindoor and all. It is about the right companion. I want the makers to show her go above her sharm. I do not want to see her standing in front of Malini again for her haq or Adi! NO!

7. Break ke baad kya? And what about Malini meeting Imlie everyday in college?

8. Time for Nishant to be the secret bearer!

And I think I am positive the sindoor drama is now over. The QM will find a nice place to stand like it is meant to be..

Edited by Whatever765 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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It reminded me of tum akeli hona hamare liye dil me pyar rakh k tum santusht reh sakti ho lekin hum akele nahi hai hum malini k saath hai ye jaante hue bhi k hamare dil me tumhare liye pyaar hai line to Imlie from Aditya kuch days pehle ka...

Indeed he is in torment sabse zyada..jiske saath rehna chahraha nahi rehparaha woh insan nahi hai willing to apke willing hone se koi faida ho nahi raha!Jiske saath nahi rehna chahrahe uski aur constantly apko direct kara jarha ,space share karne ko kaha jarha jabki your heart yearns for pehla person to aise me space share karna is an aziyat !

Theek hai k sab scenes isi k actions k consequences hai par kayi baar socha to k bol dey sach bana liya na irada, bande ko vachan de k roka gaya,ya seedhe bhi malini angle laa k...As much as truth revelation is necessary for Imlie & Malini's peace ,usse zyada it is important for him!I hope Malini didi ghar se hi summer camp chali jaye jo khich jaaye to kuch to pehle sa jee le yeh banda kuch pal❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
#63

Also plz can we all give a huge shout out to the powerhouse that ST is.. the way she made imlie's trauma and shock and dard so palpable throughout today...from her body language to the appearance to her voice .. she is just so brilliant and lifts these so so much with her mind-blowing acts and not make them cliche and formula based scenes 👏😀


Ditto for GM

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Posted: 4 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: AreYaar

A few bits that I am trying to remember as I recover from the draining feeling of watching Didi ka intolerable bakwaas:


1) The symbolism of Malini throwing that sindoor and Imlie immediately rushing to sameto it.....Imlie will always be the one who tries to keep things together while Malini callously tries to tear down things

+1000. Imlie has always been the one to take the higher road to sambhalo relationships. She was the one who literally let go of her rights as a wife so that Adi-Malini can marry & both the families can stay happy. Malini on the other hand is the tantrum throwing princess who will break things that she once treasured, case in point, the sindoor ka QM.


2) Imlie sleeping with the Sita Maiyya ki murti clutched in her hands all night.....sigh

I just wanted to give her a big 🤗 & ask her to cry out all her pain. She was in so much pain, hurt, guilt & shame. Thank god for SM who will ensure that her bff Imlie is happy in the long term❤️.


3) Notably, despite all the begging for maafi that she did in front of Didi, Imlie never once said ki achha if you want, main sindoor nahin lagaaungi😆

+1000. Imlie did say that her zidd was galat but she never said that I will not put sindoor again. She was blaming herself for the way the issue got escalated but not for lagoing the sindoor.


4) Adi was notably reluctant to go after Malini both times....the first time, his feet were literally rooted to the spot and he kept staring at Imlie's crying face even as his Mom kept asking him to go after Malini....finally he only budged with great reluctance but his expression again said he'd rather do anything but that.....the second time, his mom also couldn't make him go and he just stated his suffocation explicitly, refusing to spend another night in a room with Malini.

Adi took a stand today &he didn't back off even under pressure from Imlie & family. He went the first time looking at Imlie's hurt face but that was also not to maango maafi but to continue the confrontation😆. The second time he just let out the visceral truth that he won't go to manao Malini because he is suffocating in the relationship💔.


5) Malini tried to twist the argument many times but Adi wasn't having it....he kept trying to bring it back to the main point that the issue is not about what Imlie did but how Malini is speaking.....only he has the capacity to cut through her bullshit if others would let him.....left to themselves, Adi-Malini can easily end it in 5 minutes....Adi has no patience for her faltu games anymore and she is deluded to think her abusive tantrums will gain her any sympathy.


Oh Didi was all over the place in her arguments to justify her behaviour. She literally went from Japan to China in the argument but Adi stuck to his point. He was ready to end the relationship right there & then. Only Imlie's scream of distress stopped him. Didi is really delusional if she thinks Adi is now going to bend over backwards to manao her because of her tantrums.


6) Nishant is on the track to learning the truth soon most likely

Yes. Looks like at least Nishant will find out the truth soon. He reflected on the correct memory today of Adi having a secret related to PD & noticing the undercurrent between Adi-Imlie.


7) I really REALLY hope this break stretches out for a bit and it's not Didi ka faltu two days ka drama and back to expectations ki Adi use ghar laakar sab theek kar dega.....let the break stretch out and let the family see how happy Adi actually is when she ISN'T there.

If Malini Didi leaves then she is leaving for good. Adi toh definitely is not going to bring her back. Either she will come back on her own or family will try & bring her back. Or else she will take an even more extreme step of self harming herself. Anything is possible with Didi.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I agree sumbul is giving a tough challenge competing with Gashmeer and mayuri who are experienced. It is really difficult

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anuannie

It reminded me of tum akeli hona hamare liye dil me pyar rakh k tum santusht reh sakti ho lekin hum akele nahi hai hum malini k saath hai ye jaante hue bhi k hamare dil me tumhare liye pyaar hai line to Imlie from Aditya kuch days pehle ka...

Indeed he is in torment sabse zyada..jiske saath rehna chahraha nahi rehparaha woh insan nahi hai willing to apke willing hone se koi faida ho nahi raha!Jiske saath nahi rehna chahrahe uski aur constantly apko direct kara jarha ,space share karne ko kaha jarha jabki your heart earns for pehla person to aise me space share karna is an aziyat !

Theek hai k sab scenes isi k actions k consequences hai par kayi baar socha to k bol dey sach bana liya na irada, bande ko vachan de k roka gaya,ya seedhe bhi malini angle laa k...As much as truth revelation is necessary for Imlie & Malini's peace ,usse zyada it is important for him!I hope Malini didi ghar se hi summer camp chali jaye jo khich jaaye to kuch to pehle sa jee le yeh banda kuch pal❤️


And see this is what elevates adi in my eyes in many ways..yes he made a mistake heck not one many..he has made mistakes he never claims himself to be some faultless insaan jo kabhi kuch galat nahi karta. This very quality sets him apart from rest ke yeh karna chahta hai sab theek Sab acha sab righteous but just like any human karna chahta hai iske aage he is insaaan not perfection ka putla he knows it he accepts it.. THIS VERY thing make adi leads se alag.. sure thoda bihat karma toh aayega jhelna padega galti toh hui hai and uske results dikh rahe hain.. isse and he knows that ke kyon hi raha hai yeh sab pehle Asaan tha caz he wasn't aware of his own feelings ab aur bhi aziyat hai as you say..but he tries he is trying every bit to break the shackle at first possibility but somehow kuch na kuch holds him back then it brings me back ke phir itna torture ilkya wih sahi hai.. as people keep saying he deserves it. Does he really then? He wants to come out asap.. sure jitna milega milega am not saying ke utna bhi na mile but itna...jitna dono Bhagat rahe hain.. they sure do not DESERVE it to this extent.. dono nor imlie neither him caz dono apni jagah toh are only trying to make it less painful for all os that wrong..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm just finding it hard to believe Adi will ever accept staying in the same room with Malini again after the events that have just transpired.

+infinity.


He has also clearly stated to Imlie ki usse nahin ho paa raha any attempt to be a husband to Malini.....so I think this in a sense is the conclusion of the promise he gave to Imlie to bring her back home. With Malini leaving the house, I don't think that promise has any point either - as it is they were barely managing to keep it....lol...

I also think the infamous vachan of not hurting Didi has ended now😆. Imlie can't evoke it when it has already been broken.


I also found it interesting that he said she shouldn't think about leaving the house again while also saying that he shouldn't have brought her home from the hostel like that.....to me it almost felt unsaid as if he wanted to say, tumhein officially ghar laana chahiye tha with your due right as wife/bahu....aise bas laane ke liye nahin. He doesn't regret bringing her home....I think he regrets that the way it happened still didn't really get her her rights and only led to more pain and humiliation for her.

Adi has realised that he should have brought her back home as his wife & not just in her previous capacity. Today he could not openly defend against Malini Didi calling out Imlie as a random person, baharwali & naukrani because he did not bring her back as his wife. And he clearly is not going to let Imlie leave him. If she even tries, then also he is going to bring her back anyhow.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

My two fav. bits today I think.....


"Jinhein baat karne ki TAMEEZ nahin hoti, unke paas koi haq hona bhi nahin chahiye"👏




"Humara na DUM GHUT-TA HAI us kamre mein....hum nahin jaa paayenge wahaan"





I Bloody demand THE GIF FOR FIRST LIKE THE BIGG ASS ONE🤣🤣


Adi issi baat pe so many seetis and Huggies. Kya mast bola che .. itna straight and in her moonh in front of all hahah maza hi aa gaya...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

My two fav. bits today I think.....


"Jinhein baat karne ki TAMEEZ nahin hoti, unke paas koi haq hona bhi nahin chahiye"👏




"Humara na DUM GHUT-TA HAI us kamre mein....hum nahin jaa paayenge wahaan"





GM was just phenomenal throughout the episode. Adi was a man who was angry & disgusted on equal level at Didi's behaviour today & he emoted it beautifully.



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Posted: 4 years ago
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Ladies maine apni nameeni ankhon se extra zoom karle naye script ki ek.line oadh li hai.. imlie is supposed to meet education minister and malini didi is pissed and supposedly going with her..



Allah reham kare hum pe 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 ek toh waise hi I feel so exhausted at the end if the day due to fasting uppar se didi.. iska jaana zaroori hai kya.. but seems like she is indeed at her maayka caz daadi ko bata rahi hai

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