A break from the suffocation? - Page 10

Wow, what an episode today. So many things happened in one 20 minutes episode. Watching some of these episodes is like sitting through a non-stop war movie. Can I send some virtual flowers to the writers of this serial. I am in awe of the scriptwriting. Acting toh is mindblowing by all 3 main characters. These people continue to impress me.

Today's episode should go down in history books as the episode where we got to see Mailini in her truest form ever. Even yesterday, we saw couple of minutes of Malini being nice to Imlie by showing her around college but today, for every second she was on screen, she was her real self. Absolutely no fake or pretensions today. This is the real Malini who has no respect for Tripatis, for whom Imlie is a servant, and Aditya is someone she needs to control. Today, no matter what Aditya, Tripatis or Imlie was telling her, not for one moment or a split second did she feel guilty or paused to think what she was doing, what she was saying. Malini today destroyed every single relationship of hers in Tripati household forever. It is one thing if Imlie and the Tripatis choose to ignore Malini's behavior and words today. But eventually, they will have to accept the real Malini just as the audience has had to accept her. There was no fooling Aditya today. He finally saw her for who she really is. It might take him some time also to accept Malini as she was today but for Aditya, officially this relationship is over. Baat (read jagda) khatam, rishta khatam. Thank god we will never see fake sugary sweet Malini ever again, and if she tries to come back to her fake self, no one, absolutely no one will believe her......well Imlie might....

Respect to Aditya today. That guy with as many flaws as he has, got all my respect today. It is so important for him to be true to himself. Since past 100 or so episodes, he has been suffocating. Yes, he fell in love, realized his lack of feelings for Malini, lived a whole lifetime in 100 episodes, but the bottom line is......he has been suffocating. Suffocating of hiding the truth, first of the forced marriage and now of his real feelings for Imlie and lack of feelings for Malini. He has been dying slowly from inside. Did anyone around him see this......his mother, father, sister, brother, anyone? Does Imlie realize, actually realize, that by forcing him to be with Malini so that she can save herself from feeling guilty about destroying their marriage, she is destroying the very essence of who Aditya is and what he stands for? It is Imlie's perceived guilt, it is not the truth. It is not her truth. My heart went out to Aditya in the precap. If only once his mother had asked him lovingly what is wrong he would have told her the truth. Aditya can have a million flaws but that man does not hesitate to speak the truth. And his one truth is that he is suffocating in a relationship. No one, absolutely no one who knows Aditya even a little bit should ignore this sentence that came out from Aditya's mouth. I really wish Tripatis open their eyes to the constant guilt and pain that their very own son is living in. They need to start observing him, the changes in him. They need to stop blaming him for everything going wrong in his relationship with Malini. They need to stop living in delusions that if Aditya apologized everything will be forgotten and forgiven. Tripatis got the front seat view of the dismantling of Aditya-Malini marriage today. They need to stop brushing Aditya's grumpy behavior under the carpet that this is just how he is and pay more attention to him, the reason behind his grumpiness. They will see for themselves that without Malini, their son can manage to be happy too.

And lastly, Imlie........even though my heart goes out to her today, one thing is clear, she has absolutely no self-respect when it comes to facing Malini. My god she was begging for forgiveness as if she killed Malini's 7 generations of family. I hope Aditya realizes that Imlie needs to be protected from Malini. Right now, Imlie is incapable of standing up in support of their relationship. It might be easy to independently hold onto a relationship, but it is hard, very hard to fight for togetherness. Imlie is nowhere close to standing by Aditya as he speaks the truth. She is drowning in her perceived guilt. Today, everyone's truth came out. Malini facade fell completely. Aditya made it clear he is suffocating in his relationship with Malini. And Imlie said it herself, she feels she is the one responsible for destroying Aditya-Malini relationship. She told Aditya today that he was happy with Malini for 7 years and now because of her, their marriage is breaking. Aditya did tell her that it is his fault only (again respect to Aditya) and not her's or Malini's but Imlie did not hear those words. And Aditya needs to come back to this again. Just a sentence here or there will not help. He needs to literally sit with Imlie and talk with her, make her understand how none of this is her fault. Hopefully, with Malini out of the house, Aditya will be able to spend some time with Imlie. Right now Imlie is 100% convinced that her being with Aditya is wrong. She will not be able to stand by Aditya. As of right now, she plans to live her life alone, without Aditya. She still thinks Aditya belongs only to Malini. She completely ignored Malini calling her servant today. Imlie's stand on her relationship with Aditya is exactly where it was 50 episodes ago. While Aditya has moved on a millions steps forward, Imlie has not moved a step. Someone needs to show Imlie how wrong her thinking is. With Malini out of Tripati house temporarily (thank god), either Aditya or Nishanth if he learns the truth soon need to help see Imlie how wrong she is in her thinking. Imlie needs to understand that pain is part of life and Malini has to face some hard truths. She needs to understand that whatever is happening to Aditya-Malini marriage, she has no real role in it. Their relationship was doomed with or without her in the picture. This is very important for Imlie to understand or else she will never be able to stand beside Aditya when the truth is out. Anyways, I do not think I will ever be able to forgive Malini for destroying Imlie's first day of college. And I am so happy Aditya realized that he should have left Imlie in the hostel. His impatience in bringing her home has only caused her more pain. He needed to sort his mess with Malini before bringing Imlie home but alas, if Aditya did everything correctly from the very beginning we never would have had this story. 😆

In tomorrow's episode, I know Aditya will not talk about the first marriage or his love for Imlie, but I hope Aditya talks part of his truth to his parents, which is that his relationship with Malini is over. His family needs to support him in this matter or else he will fight this himself but there is no way he will ever accept Malini as his wife from now onward. This truth needs to be told clearly to his family.

Best part of todays epi was Imlie wiped the whole sindhoor from the floor and put in in the Qutub Minar❤️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL if she wants to just be Aditya's wife in name only, then this is only about maintaining an image, nothing else. If there was ever love even from her side, she wouldn't agree to continue on a relationship in name only. rofl but woh toh separate hoke bhi rakh sakti hai medal. uske liye sabki leife itni miserable kyon karni rakh le stupid naam as if that gets her any respect from anybody chaat le usse *shrugs*

And if she realizes that Adi only listens to Imlie, then why not bother mending fences with Imlie even for her own selfish reasons so that she can manipulate Imlie to get Adi to do what she wants?....woh bhi nahin kiya....she was still doing token formal response to Imlie in the morning like raat ko itni saari bakwaas nahin ki uske baare mein.....if the writers are expecting us to just forget Malini ka bakwaas just like Imlie seems to, they are mistaken. Rofl Righ! what was that token adi made me behave this way and i think i overdid it the next morning.. They seriously anted us to go AWW poor mallu look how evil others are that they are making her behave this way.. ahrdly anybody said anything to her to ebahve this WAY.. she went on her own dandanati hui ith sindoor ke maafi hi maangni hai andaditya khana nahi khayega uhhh did he say that.. it was like ladayi khatam ho gayi but didi footage khane aayi at the end for Biggboss ke paise poore karne hain 🤣🤣 yup i am using biggboss ka Famous Footage khani hai caz true.. she came from chautha mohalla again to start and run down poor imlie and aur keecho maamla and do tamasha even more when it kinda ended with ehr lame walkaway

Yeah, I think this break is badly needed for both Adi and for us.....he is getting no time to breathe or reflect about how to sort out this mess....atleast today he acknowledged that he will have to fix this since he's the one who's made the mistakes that led to all this. Didi doesn't let anyone's brain function with her bakwaas so please keep her away for a bit.

I think the family might indeed start to give some breathing room to Adi cuz Aparna looked quite affected by the way he said he's suffocating in that room with Malini.she does look visibly upset and worried for him too the way she was brushign her hands on his face ke tell na.. i felt for aparna there and i just wished this was between maa beta.. i hope it is still a good scene caz maine kitne time se iska wish kia tha

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

still what does that has to do with her professional abilities in this scene.. also she doesn't need to be a professor actually to fill the form what adi meant was she is probably more informed about the procedures in the context he said it ke you know the procedure better than anyone else yet you delayed lol

yes agree - it was the only reference - I could think of.

Originally posted by: pamk06

This was one of my favorite parts today. In all the turmoil that was happening within him and around him, one thing that grounds him is Imlie presence. She is his strength and all he needs to face the world now is to know that she is physically standing behind him. Her saath is all he needs and he is ready to face the consequences of the mistakes he has committed.
Totally agree with you that he does not regret getting her home but the way he got her home without the correct rights. I think that bit came from listening to Malini calling her random girl, outsider and naukrani. All of which struck him and he could not defend it or counter it because of the vachan.

which is why i esp loved the way he asked ke come with me we are doing this.. Man plz tell me am not alone in finding it beyond beautifull and soulful he needs her in this important reveal caz her hona will give him all the strength he needs to confess it will encourage him and he knows that koi aur phir saath ho na ho she will hold onto him.. and that too when she is so fragile herself and is needing more of the comfort.. it felt like a Parallel to Tum sambhalo gi mujhe from that day.. today he knew only she could.. even when she is herself so emotionally disturbed but she can.. SUkoon moment indeed..

also yes i loved it too that he admitted ke kismat ko dosh nahi de sakte iske liye mera bhi fault hai infact mera hi hai lol

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Yeh lo caps for all .. it was so.subtle but so beautiful to see. I don't think he even realized it as such when he woke up but poor girl at some point gave him that blanket so he could sleep. I loved that tiniest sa subtle sa touch.. so much apnaiyat in it while she is all alone all sukdi hui with her SM .. yet his comfort his sukoon her priority . Matlab itna sabke baad bhi the girl is worried about him

self quoting but noticing it only now ke bechare sleep main bhi kitne bechain hai.. look at adi ka face sote main bhi sukoon nahi hai one can see the restlessness and all the pareshanis on hsi face even in his sleep while the poor girl even with SM in her hand couldn't really sleep sleep whcih was made apparent with the bijlee ki phurti se uthna the moment she noticed halka sa hulchul and it was kidna like a scared reflex ke ab kya coming for her.. aww also just saw dhyaan se she never took the watch off. guess never got the chance as she was too distracted but Oh mannn it just got even more beautiful him with her blanket and her with his watch.. awww

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

which is why i esp loved the way he asked ke come with me we are doing this.. Man plz tell me am not alone in finding it beyond beautifull and soulful he needs her in this important reveal caz her hona will give him all the strength he needs to confess it will encourage him and he knows that koi aur phir saath ho na ho she will hold onto him.. and that too when she is so fragile herself and is needing more of the comfort.. it felt like a Parallel to Tum sambhalo gi mujhe from that day.. today he knew only she could.. even when she is herself so emotionally disturbed but she can.. SUkoon moment indeed..

also yes i loved it too that he admitted ke kismat ko dosh nahi de sakte iske liye mera bhi fault hai infact mera hi hai lol

I think the saath & supporting each other part of their relationship is very beautiful to watch. They may argue, agree to disagree & be naaraz with each other but they do not leave each other alone ever. Small things like Imlie covering him up with her blanket today even though so much halla happened the day before & she is still hurt & upset herself is ❤️. Adi also going to greet her first thing in the morning & discussing what he is planning to do is also a testament to their bond. He knows that Imlie is against him revealing the truth but he still makes it clear to her that why is he taking such a step. He wants to be the real Aditya that he has had to hide for such a long time.

Adi also understands that his truth is also her truth so he went & informed her that he is going to reveal the truth. He knows she disagrees with him but still will support him when the truth is revealed. How much ever, Imlie tries to stop the truth from being revealed, I do believe that she will support him in making the truth clear to everyone when it is revealed. She may still drown in guilt & shame but she is never going to let him face the consequences alone. She may think of sacrificing their relationship under the onslaught of all the emotional diatribes & blackmailing that would go on but she will never let Adi get punished wrongly for any or all types of accusations that are going to be hurled at him & her.

@ Bold: Finally today he has truly acknowledged that it was his fault only for getting into this mess with Malini. Kismat had given him Imlie but he himself went & dragged Malini in the equation. But he is also ready to pay the price of his galti as well.

Apologies for the soooper long post - but so much to rant about .

Well- Happy first day at College Imaliya aur aap ragging se darr rahi thi 😆It was an exhausting episode to watch but kudos to all the actors and the whole team- the episode was definitely not boring - we could feel the frustration and suffocation.

The story is following a natural arc- a bit faster than I thought- I thought they would kheenchofy the Adini tension at home and may be we’d get a little bit more of Imlie at college- but looks like Imlaiya will choose patrachar/ correspondence course rather than set foot in Didi’s college again. Anyways college chhodo -Tripathi Nivas main tho poora pressure cooker exploded and literally stuff hit the ceiling...

Interesting thing is that Malini is the one to first give validity to the Imlie- Adi relationship. No one else at Ts has connected them yet. (Word of advice to Tripathis - please no one take Nishant in their team while playing guessing games Dumb charades or Pictionary- yaar ghar me pura sindoor phela hua hain and still he can’t fill in the blanks” zabardasti _____”😕)

BS keeps on telli Malini - you are angry with me why are you dragging Imlie into this? But it’s Malini who has chosen to spew her venom equally over both. She is the one tying them into a bond. And solidifying it by literally handing over her sindoor to Imlie.

Yes - Malini did ask Aditya multiple times in several ways what going on with their marriage and relationship and today for the first time she acknowledges that there is no more love in his eyes for her. She does have a right to be frustrated and angry with him because he is not giving her answers-she has every right to be angry. Even the first thing she said to Aditya today made sense- why shouldn’t I change when I have been seeing you change so much in the last few weeks.

but she is absolutely wrong in verbally clawing at Imlie and ripping at her- Imlie has given her no reason to do this. So what if Imlie disobeyed her over the sindoor- whatever ‘consequences ‘ the sindoor discovery had in college Imlie would have handled it without Didi’s kabiliyat as a professor.

Malini is no longer fighting for her marriage- she knows it a lost cause - she is probably purposely ripping Imlie apart to provoke a reaction from Aditya- just like Mrs Chaturvedi did a few episodes ago to provoke a reaction from Dev. She uses several triggers - calling Imlie random ladki, bahar wali and naukrani- but Adi is probably wise to her strategy and refuses to fall for it. Adi recognized her similarity to Mrs C several times today. . In her own eyes - Malini herself is faultless and perfect - she cannot bear that the person she loves finds her lacking in someway; that he cannot (and possibly has never) loved her. She doesn’t bother to remember that the first fight they had -had nothing to do with Imlii. Back then when Aditya was bothered about her choosing car over bike- she called it his immaturity. Later she blamed her Mom for sending the car but she herself was never to be blamed for choosing one over the other. Somehow if she can prove that Imlie used her wiles to trap Aditya (“Imlie itni naadaan nahi hain “ and “Imlie- mujhe ye sab ab cute nahi lagtha”) just like her mom has been saying all these years- she will be vindicated.

Imlie’s dogged devotion to her seems impractical and foolish at this stage . I too wanted to scold Imlie for being a murgha and humiliating herself- but unfortunately while our Imaliya would never show cowardice in front of physical harm, as far as relationships are concerned she is a coward. Wise Imlie probably fears that once she becomes the reason for the Adi- Ni split- then this love she receives from the Tripathis would probably also sour. And anyways what joy is there in a relationship that brings pain to others? She has already seen the pain that love brought into her mother’s life. Growing up with so few people in her life to love her - losing the Ts affection would be devastating for her. Also Adi has told her so many times that Imlie was a forced burden on him while Mun was his Pyaar and at one point- “Mun ke hain, Mun ke the and Mun ke hi rehenge’ that she probably believes that at some level. Especially since she idolizes Malini and finds herself lacking in so many ways as compared to Malini. Only with time I guess will Adi be able to convince her.

He should probably keep at the lovely morning moments when Imlie is the first one he greets. Adi probably also senses her fear and perhaps he also realizes that even if it was he who is to be blamed for the mess- society is such that Imlie will probably bear the brunt of it. So even if he will be able to reinstate himself as ‘sach ka moorat’ , that revelation could come at an enormous cost to Imlie.

Can’t wait to see how this unravels

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

self quoting but noticing it only now ke bechare sleep main bhi kitne bechain hai.. look at adi ka face sote main bhi sukoon nahi hai one can see the restlessness and all the pareshanis on hsi face even in his sleep while the poor girl even with SM in her hand couldn't really sleep sleep whcih was made apparent with the bijlee ki phurti se uthna the moment she noticed halka sa hulchul and it was kidna like a scared reflex ke ab kya coming for her.. aww also just saw dhyaan se she never took the watch off. guess never got the chance as she was too distracted but Oh mannn it just got even more beautiful him with her blanket and her with his watch.. awww

Can you make a gif on Adi's dam ghutna quote ?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CN4BSwDhjhz/?igshid=1w9wf010ujhqv

This scene gave too much sukoon❤️🥺

This is the first time Aditya is getting some concern from his family members😭

Aparna showing little pyar❤️

Hope Imlie wont interfere. Let that guy get some support😒