Kismat ka Likha - Page 11

Ehh sindoor aside i just adored the closeups of ST and Her beautiful beautiful Expressions. Yeh ladki kya Hai sach main.. she makes otherwise cliche sindoor scene bhi so moving with her lovely lovely reaction ... and that is why i gifed this bit..

and my Absolute Fav bits.. what beautiful Lines and just the sincerity with which they talk lagaooing 4 chaand

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Technically he should that is the most sane thing 5o do and he did acknowledged it too baar baar ke it will only give her unhappiness too and they will all be living in the ghuttan but adi I feel is waiting for inlie ka faisla in that matter too if she decides she wants haq on him only then he goes and does that interest he will be causing malini the pain for nothing. I mean he is willing to remain in this khokhla Bandhan I guess for imlie ki and malini ki khushi ke iski taraf se nahi hai kuch but if these 2 women feel good toh khel le.. though it is insane on his part to think ke aise jaise taise karke nibh jaayeigi eso now that he has this much clarity on his mind and it is a closure from his side.. but than adi sane tha kab ke sanely soche ke regardless it is time to.end and free both of them from this torture 😆 yahan aata hai vachan into play i guess imlie permission de toh kare yeh kuch

LOL@ how insane this is that Adi actually thinks aise nibh jaayegi😆

See, reason I was saying that Adi needs to end the relationship with Malini independent of whatever Imlie's choice/decision is cuz this way he is now making it sound that Imlie is the only reason his relationship with Malini can't work out😆.....and that is why he can't end things with Malini unless he tells her that he is now in love with Imlie so he can't be with Malini.

It's not clear right now how exactly Adi wants to break the truth.....lol does he want to tell them all that he fell in love with Imlie or that he first got married to Imlie and now he's accepted that as his destiny, that's why he can't be with Malini?

Why is it so darn hard to tell Malini that they are not right for each other? 😆 Ismein Imlie ka kya lena dena hai? If her "naazuk" state is what's holding you back from telling the truth, so what difference will it make if you tell her the truth of your incompatibility pehle rather than whatever else you've realized about discovering true love with Imlie?

Is the only reason Adi can't be with Malini that he now loves Imlie? 😆 Uske ilava mast life chal rahi thi with Malini? 😆 If so, then Aditya babu, you are STILL lying to yourself😛.

Also, I'll repeat...if Adi is doing all this for Imlie ka vaada, they need to show the FB of that vaada more often😆....cuz mujhe toh nahin lagta phir ki woh reason hai.....if vaade ki baat hoti toh Adi topic hi nahin raise karta every other day trying to make Imlie see how it won't work out like this....agar vaada diya hota toh kehta ok main vaade ke liye back off kar raha hoon....but he never says that😆

There is suffocation on the cards for him big time and it's Karma only na....like I said in one of my previous posts....I'll just repost it cuz I don't know if kisine padhaa😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Main bhi wohi soch rahi hoon based on how he expressed it today.....strangely, Imlie can still feel a little free in the contentment of her love for him, but he is now feeling more suffocated directly cuz he still has to live with someone and can't savor his love for Imlie by himself like she can for him. I guess this is Karma coming for him since he committed bigamy....lol....

See, Imlie ko bhi yeh bolta reh gaya ki kisi aur se shaadi kar lo....but Imlie ne nahin ki na....kabhi nahin maani to give anyone else that status, that place in her life but him....so she's had a long time to savor that "contentment" as he's calling it....cuz her beliefs haven't changed....lol. But Adi is the one who was late to the game....lol he's the one who went and attached himself to someone else....toh ab uska price toh pay karna padega with this suffocation I guess.

I was wondering if they will show him realizing on his own that he needs to end things with Malini cuz it will get too suffocating for him....but then I remembered ki writers likely won't give him or Imlie that choice....lol sab kuch Didi ki meherbaani pe tikaayenge ki wohi let go karegi tabhi yeh koi decision lenge.....so tab take hote rahenge suffocate and torture.

I honestly feel suffocation badhta rahega if he doesn't realize this isn't just about the fact that he loves Imlie but also about how him and Malini are not right for each other. Right now they are trying to portray it like some kind of majboori ki Malini loves Adi a lot😆 but Adi can't give her what she wants cuz he's in love with Imlie now.....lol but if they really want to continue with showing the honesty in the realizations and emotions of the characters, I'd like to see more discussion of the sort where Adi candidly talked about what kind of partner he envisioned for himself and Malini is not that.

Dunno why the writers are too scared to show these scenes of the fundamental incompatibilities between Adi-Malini regarding their approach to life/relationships. Everything can't be covered up simply with saying ki Adi fell in love with Imlie toh poor Malini peechhe reh gayi. They really need to clear up that demarcation between Adi falling for Imlie being a seperate issue from the devolving of his relationship with Malini.....if they keep conflating the two, it would be a misrepresentation of what has actually happened.

P.S.....lol maybe the intent is to show Adi thinking ki his only options are either to be with Malini or be with Imlie😆....but he will be forced to come to realization at some point ki Imlie mile na mile, Malini ke saath rehne se achha hai yeh akele reh le😆....that's where the suffocation should come into play. He will try to blame Imlie ofcourse😆....ki tum mujhe sach nahin bolne de rahi....lol if it's Imlie's vaada stopping him from hurting/leaving Malini toh uska clearly roz FB dikhaayein😆.....ya have Adi clearly state that he's only living with Malini cuz of that vaada😆.....otherwise for now, it's hard to understand why he can't leave Malini regardless of what Imlie says.....if that relationship is totally empty, why drag it?

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

Aditya is 100% right in saying that he needs to detach himself from Malini otherwise he is doing wrong by her the more he remains in a relationship with her. Sometimes I think Aditya should end his marriage with Malini even without Imlie's support. But then the question arises, on what basis can he end the marriage. It is not like Malini will go away quietly and no one will question him. When he ends the marriage, he will have to confess the whole truth, not only to Malini but the whole family.

And this is why I'm saying they need to clear it up whether Adi only wants to end the marriage with Malini cuz he loves Imlie or with acknowledgement of the fact that him and Malini were never right for each other. Cuz if it's the latter, he can very well explain it to Malini if he wanted.....doesn't Malini always say that she will believe whatever he tells her directly? 😆.....cuz otherwise she is mindless about all the obvious signs in front of her.

Until Adi himself confronts the fact that his marriage with Malini was a mistake, that they were always incompatible but took too long to realize it....he will not be ready to give the right answers to Malini. Right now, the writers are sort of navigating around this elephant in the room....cuz this would involve pointing out Malini's contribution to why this relationship/marriage has failed....but no one seems to have the guts to do that since the insistence is on painting her as a gullible victim😆....jiska "haq" Imlie ne maar liya🤔.

So for now, it's the easy route of blame Imlie ka vaada and her resistance to claiming her haq😆.

Let's see how long the blame Imlie strategy works out.....lol zindagi toh tum kaat rahe ho, Babusahib....nothing stopping you from choosing to live it alone also - no one said you NEED to have one wife with you at all times😆. Imlie ko toh choice pe bada gayaan de rahe ho....kabhi khud pe bhi apply kar lo😛

As always good analysis actually it saves our day 👍🏼

Coming to the episode it was good not better let see what they serve us tommorrow ...👍🏼

Adi has fully accepted imlie and just waiting for her to accept so he can declare to the world she is only one with whom I want to stay for ever but as usual imlie rejected it due to her didi bhakti ..the more she will push adi the more he will get attracted or say the more he will be clear like nope I can't stay with moon ...today he himself was pissed off with the fact that imlie again tried to make her didi happy by taking admission in her college..plus she had made him also angry ... ..he knows she does not think practically.so slowly slowly his suffocation is going to increase to the extend that we may see some grey shades in adi ..so be ready ....because I too think instead of all 3lives getting spoiled at a time it is better that only 1live or heart break is good option ...👍🏼

Finally didi true colors we can see in precap ..like saying imlie has come 2.was not in good taste ..so let see tommorrow which tantrums she is going to throw for adi vashikaran ...😆

I think it's time for imlie to get out of didi bhakti and see the picture clearly means how much she tries to make her happy by forcing adi it's not possible because didi is so insecure that she doesn't think straight ....🤢

And in case of adi he will just give 2-3 days because he doesn't have that much patience I guess ...and plus imlie pushing him towards moon ..will make him blast very soon 😆

Waise, I’m waiting when Malini will remember how Adi saved Imlie’s life instead of hers during that accident. She clearly remembered when she came back home, but after that no mention whatsoever.
Woh sab bhool gayi kya? Seriously, it’s not normal to turn a deaf ear or blind eye to so many red flags 🤦🏻‍♀️
Get yourself together woman, confront him with whatever bothers you and yes be ready for whatever storm comes your way. Because, yeh toh clear hai to Malini that Adi is not the same anymore then find the damn reason for it too!

Okay sorry, frustrations here 😂

Originally posted by: metoyou

Waise, I’m waiting when Malini will remember how Adi saved Imlie’s life instead of hers during that accident. She clearly remembered when she came back home, but after that no mention whatsoever.
Woh sab bhool gayi kya? Seriously, it’s not normal to turn a deaf ear or blind eye to so many red flags 🤦🏻‍♀️
Get yourself together woman, confront him with whatever bothers you and yes be ready for whatever storm comes your way. Because, yeh toh clear hai to Malini that Adi is not the same anymore then find the damn reason for it too!

Okay sorry, frustrations here 😂

Comprehension ability is sadly not one of Malini’s strong suits 😆.

We all expected that the obviousness of Adi looking through her to go rescue Imlie during that bridge incident would be a turning point for Malini but it all got brushed under the carpet 🤷‍♀️😂.

They only bring up things per convenience for some arguments, otherwise the status quo continues 🤷‍♀️

Hi AY...

Logging in IF after eons and have just caught up with epis on binge watch so I might miss many nuances.

You guys have discussed everything almost.

Just few things I noticed. This is second time that Malini turned sarcastic and taunting on Imaliya. First on that Puja day when she thanked her for explaining that she wanted to eat on the floor with othre servants🤢and today when she told Imaliya to keep the Sindoor to herself.

Kash she would do it so easily for BS...Keep your BS with yourself Imlie since you need him quite often so much🤣

Secondly, in general, we see female leads fighting for ML's attention, in here the Adi and Malini seemed to be fighting for Imlie's share of attention...Meri college jayegi meri college jayegi...Didi is offended on BS choosing another college as if she owns the college ...arey bhai...you would also prefer a higher ranked college if someone gave you an invitation to join(not that they would...)

Also Imli'es Leaving certificates now carry BS ka namewa....that would be a added problem for them to take admission in Didi's college.

OMG did I just rant on Didi so much!!

Originally posted by: MuteButton

One last bit before I end the day on here, Aditya at his core is an unapologetic man where his beliefs and principles are concerned. Imlie annoyed him today with her Malini didi’s college bit. He had decided on not that college for a reason. By not even entertaining his wish Imlie turned into the Ts for a bit there. Aditya is not going to be silent; it is not in his nature to be silent. Kisi pe toh barsega. If not Malini, Imlie khud sunegi uski daant. She is not resolving anything by trying to be sacrificial

Malini pe kya barsega....lol for her, that argument is over now since she got her way with Imlie agreeing to come to her college😆. So Imlie is the one that will face his ire for not understanding why he was pushing for a bigger college for her.

His whole approach was that he wanted the best for her regardless of what anyone else thought.....in some ways, I saw SK coming through in him there as he insisted on dreaming even bigger dreams for Imlie than she is allowing herself. But Imlie has always grappled between wanting to dream big but also being emotional/impulsive enough to sacrifice any dream for the sake of her loved ones. Which is why it wasn't a big deal for her to agree to a college that Malini wanted....for Imlie, it is not the PATH that matters as long as the dream is actualized in some form.....call it faith, call it naivete....she trusts that her Sita Maiyya will get her there somehow. But Adi is thinking practically about how to actualize her dreams.....that is why he was the one who actually drove her to the exam even when she was willing to give up and wait for whatever plan Sita Maiyya would decide for her next.....😆. Imlie doesn't realize always that Sita Maiyya is speaking to her through her Babusahib also😆.

Anyways, this is all faltu ka drama....lol we always knew Imlie would end up at Malini's college....Babusahib should know by now that these two threads will always remain tangled even if he wants to put Imlie on her own seperate path😆.

Originally posted by: Krantikari

On the precap, does anyone think that Malini Didi's "Imlie came second, someone else can take her interview" is a loaded question? It seems to me like Didi is complaining to Adi why he is prioritising Imlie first and Didi second.😆

LOL ab taunt subtle ho ya not so subtle....if there are no actual consequences for this behavior of Malini, it's all moot na😆. Adi also still insists on painting her into a saint despite all these underhanded comments she passes about Imlie from time to time....so kya bolein *shrugs*

Also, if coming second is a cause for irrelevance in Malini didi's dictionary, can't way to see her reaction to learning ki woh bhi second hi aayi in the list of Adi's wives😆.....by Didi logic, that means that Imlie is the only one who deserves priority cuz she came first in Adi's life as his wife😆.

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

Imlie's sacrificing nature does irritate me sometimes. Like, she should see for herself, that she is not the cause of every Aditya-Malini argument. The problem is in their relationship which has nothing to do with her. Just like initially, Aditya kept on hurting Imlie in order to keep Malini happy due to his guilt, Imlie is now hurting Aditya to keep Malini happy due to her perceived guilt.

@bold: I don't think Imlie will ever realize that on her own unless Adi also acknowledges it directly....that his problems with Malini are not happening because of Imlie. Their relationship issues are independent of this....but sadly the writers don't seem interested in showing either Adi or Imlie realizing that anytime soon😕

So far, the focus is just on guilt....that is all Adi-Imlie constantly talk about....their guilt about hurting Malini. I would like to see more of the kind of candidness that Adi displayed when he told Imlie there is nothing between him and Malini that he would need to hide from Imlie. I sometimes feel the writers don't want to make it look like Adi is complaining about Malini to Imlie😆...that is why they avoid showing him talking about his issues with Malini to Imlie in that sense....they stick to the general guilt only about not wanting to hurt Malini.

Still, no matter how awkward or difficult, they need to talk about this if they actually want to continue maintaining the honesty of their relationship....Imlie is not going to understand it unless Adi first understands/accepts it himself that Imlie is not the cause of his problems with Malini.....otherwise Imlie is also programmed by default to presume that Adi-Malini only argue cuz of her😆.