Kismat ka Likha - Page 12

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Hi AY...

Logging in IF after eons and have just caught up with epis on binge watch so I might miss many nuances.

You guys have discussed everything almost.

Just few things I noticed. This is second time that Malini turned sarcastic and taunting on Imaliya. First on that Puja day when she thanked her for explaining that she wanted to eat on the floor with othre servants🤢and today when she told Imaliya to keep the Sindoor to herself.

Kash she would do it so easily for BS...Keep your BS with yourself Imlie since you need him quite often so much🤣

Secondly, in general, we see female leads fighting for ML's attention, in here the Adi and Malini seemed to be fighting for Imlie's share of attention...Meri college jayegi meri college jayegi...Didi is offended on BS choosing another college as if she owns the college ...arey bhai...you would also prefer a higher ranked college if someone gave you an invitation to join(not that they would...)

Also Imli'es Leaving certificates now carry BS ka namewa....that would be a added problem for them to take admission in Didi's college.

OMG did I just rant on Didi so much!!

Woah Srushti! Long time! Haha finally another Gulaal fan in this forum😆....Welcome ji, Welcome :)

Haha I try to avoid venting about Didi that much cuz it's mostly pointless....makers insist on brushing her weird behavior under the carpet. LOL but yes even I laughed briefly wondering ki will she let go of Adi just as easily if she learns ki Adi married Imlie first so now he's too "tainted" to be with Malini? 😆

Imlie has long been a football between Adi-Imlie....lol they have used her as an argument point other times also....even over a handwriting sample once😆. I feel all of these are just excuses/smokescreens to hide the larger issues in their relationship.....Imlie related things pe they start arguing but it always feels like something deeper is going on that both of them don't have the guts to directly acknowledge regarding their incompatibility. Imlie is just the catalyst that brings their relationship issues to the front....she's not the cause of those issues.

I sense that Adi's keen interest in doing things for Imlie or his protectiveness for her triggers some latent resentment in Malini which she isn't able to express directly so she tries to instead COMPETE with him in trying to show she cares MORE for Imlie than him😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Comprehension ability is sadly not one of Malini’s strong suits 😆.

We all expected that the obviousness of Adi looking through her to go rescue Imlie during that bridge incident would be a turning point for Malini but it all got brushed under the carpet 🤷‍♀️😂.

They only bring up things per convenience for some arguments, otherwise the status quo continues 🤷‍♀️

Maine kaha nah, Malini is close to having a personality disorder 🤦🏻‍♀️ She lives in a bubble and just recently discovered that her bubble might be bursting but is too afraid to admit and will do whatever it takes to make it work.
Aur kitne red flags chahiye? Likhe doon 😅

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL ab taunt subtle ho ya not so subtle....if there are no actual consequences for this behavior of Malini, it's all moot na😆. Adi also still insists on painting her into a saint despite all these underhanded comments she passes about Imlie from time to time....so kya bolein *shrugs*

Also, if coming second is a cause for irrelevance in Malini didi's dictionary, can't way to see her reaction to learning ki woh bhi second hi aayi in the list of Adi's wives😆.....by Didi logic, that means that Imlie is the only one who deserves priority cuz she came first in Adi's life as his wife😆.

So true. But I am sure Malini being a hypocrite will turn it around to herself as the priority when the time comes.

Let’s see if Adi actually ends up interviewing Imlie.. he is going to be so upset if he does not😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Malini pe kya barsega....lol for her, that argument is over now since she got her way with Imlie agreeing to come to her college😆. So Imlie is the one that will face his ire for not understanding why he was pushing for a bigger college for her.

His whole approach was that he wanted the best for her regardless of what anyone else thought.....in some ways, I saw SK coming through in him there as he insisted on dreaming even bigger dreams for Imlie than she is allowing herself. But Imlie has always grappled between wanting to dream big but also being emotional/impulsive enough to sacrifice any dream for the sake of her loved ones. Which is why it wasn't a big deal for her to agree to a college that Malini wanted....for Imlie, it is not the PATH that matters as long as the dream is actualized in some form.....call it faith, call it naivete....she trusts that her Sita Maiyya will get her there somehow. But Adi is thinking practically about how to actualize her dreams.....that is why he was the one who actually drove her to the exam even when she was willing to give up and wait for whatever plan Sita Maiyya would decide for her next.....😆. Imlie doesn't realize always that Sita Maiyya is speaking to her through her Babusahib also😆.

Anyways, this is all faltu ka drama....lol we always knew Imlie would end up at Malini's college....Babusahib should know by now that these two threads will always remain tangled even if he wants to put Imlie on her own seperate path😆.

I actually felt very bad for Aditya in that scene.... it was such a typical T’s scene where they did not even give him a chance to justify his reasoning. Malini made it sound as if he is Ok with any college except for hers and no reasoning is working with him so she just gave up. But that was not the argument at all. The argument was that he wants Imlie to go to the best college and it has nothing to do with it being her college. But again, every body just ganged up on, not even trying to understand his POV. This was the same after he came to PD that nobody asked for his side of story bas Sabne judgement de diya. No wonder he just shuts down because he knows there is no use as no one is going to support him or listen to him.

Imlie supports and understands but she also gives malini’s relationship with Aditya more importance than BBSB and his feelings especially if she is the reason for the argument. Its the same with the bigger issue of their own relationship of telling Malini the truth. She does not want to tell it as she is giving the rishta more importance than the feelings involved not realizing that in the long run it’s going to hurt all of them more but well that the character growth that she needs to go through.

The table scene felt like it was a bird eye view to the bigger picture that might play sometime in future where Malini will be “ meri kya galati”, everyone would be giving a Judgement and Imlie will be ready to sacrifice. 😊Let see how firm Aditya would be in his stance or will he just blow up. 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL ab taunt subtle ho ya not so subtle....if there are no actual consequences for this behavior of Malini, it's all moot na😆. Adi also still insists on painting her into a saint despite all these underhanded comments she passes about Imlie from time to time....so kya bolein *shrugs*

Also, if coming second is a cause for irrelevance in Malini didi's dictionary, can't way to see her reaction to learning ki woh bhi second hi aayi in the list of Adi's wives😆.....by Didi logic, that means that Imlie is the only one who deserves priority cuz she came first in Adi's life as his wife😆.

To this point the other thing that struck was Malini’s tone and attitude when she saw Imlie with the QM and that she had used it. It was like her mother had said that her daughter will not use things that are used by others. Following the same thought, Malini did not want to take the QM and her tone and words seemed like she is thinking thats it become inferior now that Imlie has used it and she cannot take it back anymore. She was trying to be nice but the derision came out that Imlie and Aparna both noticed it. Wonder then what her reaction if she knows that she has married someone who was already married or second hand 😆

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

So true. But I am sure Malini being a hypocrite will turn it around to herself as the priority when the time comes.

Let’s see if Adi actually ends up interviewing Imlie.. he is going to be so upset if he does not😆

LOL oh I don't doubt Didi's hypocrisy abilities either😆....pretty sure she will flip when the time comes to try and twist it all per the way she wants it😆

Adi will definitely find a way to do that interview....lol Imlie may try to make him go with Malini but I don't think it will work out.....us interview ka haq toh Babusahib ka hi hai since Imlie herself expressed that as her very first wish to him...aise kaise jaane dega woh😆.

I think Adi will eventually start having to use Sita Maiyya ke ishaare as a part of his arguments to convince Imlie....lol ki dekh lo tumne kitni koshish ki but Sita Maiyya still decided yeh haq tumehin hi milega😆....dekhte hain what Imlie says in response to that....haha.

Waise will Adi ever admit to Imlie ki yeh haq ab Malini ka nahin hai? 😆....that's the other elephant in the room that hasn't shown up in their conversations yet...they've talked about wanting to tell the truth to Malini, not being able to give Malini what she wants......Adi's talked about giving haq on himself to Imlie...but Imlie will keep countering him on not being able to accept that haq until he finds a way to tell her ki yeh haq SIRF Imlie ka hai, aur kisi ka nahin😆....so far he hasn't said that....I think he needs to say in some roundabout form ki ab woh Malini ko koi haq nahin de sakta...dunno how he will manage to though😆.....might come out in a burst of frustration if Imlie keeps pushing him towards Malini.

This might be an unpopular opinion😆....but I do understand Imlie's stance from her side too.

No, I'm not justifying her blind worship of Malini and her cluelessness about how Malini actually looks down on her.....but I do understand why she thinks the way she does.

She is convinced that Malini is a wonderful person😆 who has done a lot for her😆. Aditya has not spelt out to her in any clear way that his relationship with Malini was falling apart regardless of Imlie....right now he's mainly making it appear that he realized his love for Imlie so he now needs to leave Malini. Everytime Imlie says to Adi that she can't be the cause of taking away Malini's haq, Adi has no counter to it😆....why can't he say ki ab woh Malini ka haq hai hi nahin cuz is rishte mein kuch nahin hai? Ek technicality ke basis pe haq argue kar rahe hain?😆

Adi also stays mum when Imlie points out that she can't accept any haq he gives her cuz it will feel like she is taking away Malini's haq. Until Adi himself clarifies the emptiness in his relationship with Malini, Imlie ko nahin samajh aayega. To her, it will keep seeming like everything was fine between them before and Adi now realizing his love for Imlie is taking him away from Malini....lol

I also disagree with those that say that Imlie accepting his vow of saath/savoring his love for her in her heart is not in line with this.....it very much is. Imlie has for a long time shown that she is willing to go it alone keeping her truth/faith savored in her heart.....usko kuch jataane/dikhaane ki zaroorat nahin to feel contentment. She's always been like that....doesn't mean she can't still savor those emotions even if she can't fully accept them.

Adi is the one jisko lagta hai ab akele rehne ki aadat nahin raas aa rahi😆.....waise toh Malini ke saath reh ke bhi akela hi hota hai yeh....lol....but the technicality remains that he has attached himself to her.....so even if he wants to wait for Imlie's decision, he has to realize it's better to stay alone rather than suffocate himself in the relationship with Malini too.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Malini pe kya barsega....lol for her, that argument is over now since she got her way with Imlie agreeing to come to her college😆. So Imlie is the one that will face his ire for not understanding why he was pushing for a bigger college for her.

His whole approach was that he wanted the best for her regardless of what anyone else thought.....in some ways, I saw SK coming through in him there as he insisted on dreaming even bigger dreams for Imlie than she is allowing herself. But Imlie has always grappled between wanting to dream big but also being emotional/impulsive enough to sacrifice any dream for the sake of her loved ones. Which is why it wasn't a big deal for her to agree to a college that Malini wanted....for Imlie, it is not the PATH that matters as long as the dream is actualized in some form.....call it faith, call it naivete....she trusts that her Sita Maiyya will get her there somehow. But Adi is thinking practically about how to actualize her dreams.....that is why he was the one who actually drove her to the exam even when she was willing to give up and wait for whatever plan Sita Maiyya would decide for her next.....😆. Imlie doesn't realize always that Sita Maiyya is speaking to her through her Babusahib also😆.

Anyways, this is all faltu ka drama....lol we always knew Imlie would end up at Malini's college....Babusahib should know by now that these two threads will always remain tangled even if he wants to put Imlie on her own seperate path😆.

Agree.

Re sunaoing - I was thinking more long term. The college ship has sailed considering it was spoken out in the open. And that is where it had to end anyway. She was never going to join any college other than her sister’s. I was talking about Aditya’s tolerance of public tamasha. Malini toh kar hi rahi thi, if Imlie starts taking Malini’s side in these,the frustrations with the overall situation is going to propel him into telling off both sisters some day.

The SK/ Aditya comparison is something I think even Imlie sees in Aditya; I always felt that it was one of the reasons she felt drawn to Aditya too. On the education bit, I agree. Imlie leaves so much on SM and why not. Yahaan tak toh leke aa hi gayi. But with all the behen prem, she is overlooking others’ contributions to it. I do not know if it’s just me but I would have liked her to thank BK. Not him asking for it. But whatever.

@Pam - on feeling sad for Aditya 😆 Kisne kaha tha Aditya se ki woh kood ke Malini se shaadi kar le ya Imlie ko pehle itna berate kare. Karma came calling pretty fast for him 😆 Ab toh yeh roz ka naatak hoga

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This might be an unpopular opinion😆....but I do understand Imlie's stance from her side too.

No, I'm not justifying her blind worship of Malini and her cluelessness about how Malini actually looks down on her.....but I do understand why she thinks the way she does.

She is convinced that Malini is a wonderful person😆 who has done a lot for her😆. Aditya has not spelt out to her in any clear way that his relationship with Malini was falling apart regardless of Imlie....right now he's mainly making it appear that he realized his love for Imlie so he now needs to leave Malini. Everytime Imlie says to Adi that she can't be the cause of taking away Malini's haq, Adi has no counter to it😆....why can't he say ki ab woh Malini ka haq hai hi nahin cuz is rishte mein kuch nahin hai? Ek technicality ke basis pe haq argue kar rahe hain?😆

Adi also stays mum when Imlie points out that she can't accept any haq he gives her cuz it will feel like she is taking away Malini's haq. Until Adi himself clarifies the emptiness in his relationship with Malini, Imlie ko nahin samajh aayega. To her, it will keep seeming like everything was fine between them before and Adi now realizing his love for Imlie is taking him away from Malini....lol

I also disagree with those that say that Imlie accepting his vow of saath/savoring his love for her in her heart is not in line with this.....it very much is. Imlie has for a long time shown that she is willing to go it alone keeping her truth/faith savored in her heart.....usko kuch jataane/dikhaane ki zaroorat nahin to feel contentment. She's always been like that....doesn't mean she can't still savor those emotions even if she can't fully accept them.

Adi is the one jisko lagta hai ab akele rehne ki aadat nahin raas aa rahi😆.....waise toh Malini ke saath reh ke bhi akela hi hota hai yeh....lol....but the technicality remains that he has attached himself to her.....so even if he wants to wait for Imlie's decision, he has to realize it's better to stay alone rather than suffocate himself in the relationship with Malini too.

Oh not at all unpopular opinion I 2nd all of that.. ab imlie ko khwab thodi na aayega ke everything is over between them.. and it totally indeed is with her value system ke she cannot take kisi aur ka haq ..for her adi has accepted her doesn't mean he is over with malini which is why she keeps insisting ke uske rishte ke saath beimaani hogi she can't tale kisi aur ka haq.. yeah from his side adi might be telling her ke sab kjatam ho gaya hai but baat wohi hai has it.. for imlie sab kuch tab tak kgatam nahi hai until they decide to break off and sure imlie sees the arguments the keechav but she also takes the guilt ke shayad isko defend karme iske liye lady rahe hain so she tries to make up for it.. she doesn't know ke jahaan kuch tha hi nahi wahan kuch nahi hoga ab bhi.. they were meant to broken caz they were khokhle to begin with.. imlie ho ya ha ho.. so yeah I don't get imlie is mshaan and she's wrong and she doesn't want adi or doing wrong with her Also.. while I do say I get mad at her too I do not hold her guilty caz I understand where she comes from and my ghussa is of 2 mins and goes poof caz it is impossible to stay mad at a girl who is just so beyond everyone else in putting herself at stake so someone as selfish as malini can stay happy.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@Pam - on feeling sad for Aditya 😆 Kisne kaha tha Aditya se ki woh kood ke Malini se shaadi kar le ya Imlie ko pehle itna berate kare. Karma came calling pretty fast for him 😆 Ab toh yeh roz ka naatak hoga

Exactly😆. I mean I can feel bad for both his conundrum as well as acknowledge the fact that he brought this upon himself by marrying Malini😆.

Imlie ke case mein toh bol diya for so long ki gunpoint pe majboori thi....but no one put a gun to his head to marry Malini😆....he did that all on his own....lol so now he has to bear the fruit of that on his own too. Iska blame sirf Imlie pe nahin daal sakta ki Imlie ki wajah se he's trapped here😆.

I wonder if they will talk about it at some point😆....will he ever regret that he married Malini at that point and that is the major cause of the mess they are now in?😆.....now he can't convince anyone either way ki kaunsa haq kiska hai😆.....until he gives Imlie a clear answer ki woh Malini ka haq nahin chheen rahi but woh haq le rahi hai jo humesha se uska hi tha, this ain't going anywhere😆.

We will need to see some sort of a return of the Adi who fiercely told Imlie one has to fight for the haq that Kismat had written for you during that time of her exam....in this case, he will have to fight for Imlie's haq cuz he only kinda give it someone else too😆.