Not able to digest adilie - Page 11

Originally posted by: abha981

Imlie herself says she is naukraani in that house..do i have to say anything else. Now situation will change as she has topped which is a very welcome change.

Nice I saved my time by not investing time on your POV😆

Originally posted by: countryapple

Agreed, it is very demeaning to use maid in here.Imlie is well-educated and cultured girl. We are in 21st century where calling someone handicapping is considered misconduct, so call her by name without any inappropriate titles

Who gives engagement ring for a trial to a maid? Obviously no one. Fir Apu ne Malini ka engagement ring bhi sabse pehle Imlie ko diya. Sirf Adi hi tha jo sabko force kar raha tha yeh man ne ke liye ki she is just a maid.

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Yesterday Sundar even realised how he was completely wrong about Imlie's status. Do we need more clarity than that? Tripathi's never ever considered her maid not even for once,even though sometimes they were confused about her position i.e. stranger during Nishant arrival but they have never introduced her as maid in public.

Who gives engagement ring for a trial to a maid? Obviously no one. Fir Apu ne Malini ka engagement ring bhi sabse pehle Imlie ko diya. Sirf Adi hi tha jo sabko force kar raha tha yeh man ne ke liye ki she is just a maid.

Correct and now all of a sudden he is romancing that maid. I only have this problem with the set up. Man up sa truth before getting cosy with imlie

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Yesterday Sundar even realised how he was completely wrong about Imlie's status. Do we need more clarity than that? Tripathi's never ever considered her maid not even for once,even though sometimes they were confused about her position i.e. stranger during Nishant arrival but they have never introduced her as maid in public.

Who gives engagement ring for a trial to a maid? Obviously no one. Fir Apu ne Malini ka engagement ring bhi sabse pehle Imlie ko diya. Sirf Adi hi tha jo sabko force kar raha tha yeh man ne ke liye ki she is just a maid.

Agreed ...see sundar also thinks she is maid. But now since she has topped situation changed and i am very happy

Originally posted by: countryapple

Agreed, it is very demeaning to use maid in here.Imlie is well-educated and cultured girl. We are in 21st century where calling someone handicapping is considered misconduct, so call her by name without any inappropriate titles

Agreed even imlie said she feels bad. Also she said she was staying with them but no actual relationship...she was just a househelp. Please see the previous episodes. I have not invented this term maid...maid has been used n number of times in the show by characters even adi and imlie

Originally posted by: abha981

Correct and now all of a sudden he is romancing that maid. I only have this problem with the set up. Man up sa truth before getting cosy with imlie

Dil se woh kal bhi uski wife thi jo adi jaanta tha aur uski wife hai jiske saath aaj woh khud khada hai aur agey bhi khada hoga Imlie ke saath.

Fir maid wali baat aayi kahan se ???

Jab gussey koi maa bache ko danti hai...ja mar marja khana mat kha,uska yeh meaning toh nahi hota ki sachme uska bacha mar jaye. Same aisa hi Adi bhi hai...Dil uska tab bhi saaf tha aaj bhi saaf hai. Hamesha Adi ne illegal marriage Ka jaap kiya but he never ever mentioned their rista as illicit. Marriage toh marriage hoti hai chahe forced ho ya razamandi se ho.

Originally posted by: abha981

Agreed ...see sundar also thinks she is maid. But now since she has topped situation changed and i am very happy

Originally posted by: abha981

Agreed even imlie said she feels bad. Also she said she was staying with them but no actual relationship...she was just a househelp. Please see the previous episodes. I have not invented this term maid...maid has been used n number of times in the show by characters even adi and imlie

I know she used that word for herself to express her anguish, bust she considers herself to be daughter-in-law of the house and does all work but she cannot show any rights at the same time. We are talking about the morals of the show, so we should show respect towards the character in out to point out the wrong doing. Also her marriage is totally valid as per Indian law as the total event got eye witnesses and no one protested against the court stating that it is invalid or illegal. So as per law she is the daughter-in-law of the house until unless courts dismisses the marriage.

Originally posted by: ITVfan2020

I am also saying you are wrong do you believe it. Can’t you understand the show? Then why in the world you are wasting time and commenting on something you are not understanding? Learn the language and watch or watch with captions.

Why are you wasting your time and commenting again and again ...

Ooh you are still arguing about the maid thing?!

Ok while I know you may not accept what I will write , but I will give it a try

First, How could Imlie enter the house as her first time? In which way does they have to introduce her to the family back then when Aditya him self was not ready to accept their relation?

Who gave her this title ? Is it Adi? No , it is her call , she came up with I want to work let me help you doing your housework!

However, since then the Ts never for once said or introduce her as their maid to anybody! if I am wrong correct me!

Second, a working maid should have a salary, is she getting paid? No, Even when Adi gave her money when he tried to get rid of her and both go back to PD , she didn't accept it , and Adi himself said this is not a payment, and he will provide her and her mother money to live a decent life as her haq, which she also refuse coz she don't want money from a man that she couldn't say he is hers!

Third, yes Adi said to her that she is a maid, but all that was in his anger mood, when you are angry you tend to say words you don't believe it is true , just to hurt the other one or just because you want to believe it!

But after that he mention several times to her and to other in her village that she is his wife, his first wife!, and after realization he start to try to mend things, he is trying to remove this title from her, when he take her back from hostel to his home he refuse to make her work!

And I don't think the Ts will refuse this Idea too, because they already showed how they love her as a daughter and even Pankag wants to give her their name! And Bk and him said to her your father is a loser, we are your family consider us as fathers to you! And they genuinely cared about her study!

But she didn't want to do things right now which will only raise questions about them yet!

Fourth, yes Imlie herself said about herself is a maid, once for pari, and that was to tell him the truth of how she enter the house, and she also said they never treated her like one and they all love her and accept her as a daughter!

And she also said it to Adi, maybe she really don't want to comeback as a maid because however him and his family accepting her as family but AC will never see her else than a maid no matter step up in life she will have, but also maybe she only want him to go back without her so she told him this thing he could never argue and insist on her to come back!

So I think putting her always in the maid title will make us looks superior like AC pov, just because she is from the village, wear old clothes, not having the wife title in the house, so she is the maid! That is not fair for imlie

I don't care what will happens if Adili caught red handed before the truth come out, and how ppl will see them, and I am prepared for the theory of ( EMA with the maid ) By at least AC , but also we all know that they are married and for all the above reasons she is not the maid! So why we call her that?!

If you still thinking she is a maid, it is your call, I don't share this thought with you

Have a nice day 🌹💕