Change of mind - Page 2

Originally posted by: shakethebiscuit

But isnt the relation between malini and adi different to imlie and adi. if we know someone for long 7 years and have a set comfortable pattern with them therefore the changes happening from aditya's point would be a shocker for malini.

i feel that malini seeking sympathy from T's is being judged because imlie handled everything very bravely, but is it correct to judge malini by imlie's brave standards?

Their relationship was never in the comfortable zone even if they spent 7 long years in dating. They were stuck in obligations phase where none wants to introspect deeply bas hi bye bolo and chalte bano. Actual mein She invested her 7 years in codependent relationship and wants to continue it even after marriage.

Time period is not an accurate or only parameter for measuring relationship's longevity agar hota toh sabhi arranged marriage mein failure and love marriage ki successful ki guarantee rate hoti.

Forced marriage of Adilie made it's own place over love marriage of Adoon in just a short span of time. Reason?Inke relationship crystal clear hai bhale hi inki baat banti na ho par jo bhi karte hain ek dusre ke muh par karte hain bhale hi dusra wala bura feel kyun na kare. Next is Imlie's handling of situation in mature way w/o expecting anything in return from Tripathis. Imlie through her strong personality,her positive aura radiates which can instantly brighten up any dull situation. Issliye toh imlie jahan jati hai sabko apna bana deti hai.

Now in case of Malini,now she has become a daughter in law of Tripathis who is a mature professor. Par kya kar rahi other than indulging in playing victim card. Malini kabhi confront bhi nahi karti hai Adi se ki problem kahan hai aur na hi in-laws ki baat maanti hai. Confrontation mein kahin aise baat na nikal jaye jo Malini sunna nahi chahti. Hamesha ek kandha chahiye rone ke liye,jeene ke liye,khane ke liye....kab banegi apni in-laws ya husband ki pillar ki koi isey bhi ek pillar of strength ke tarah dekhe. Khud itni emotional weak hai ki iske aas paas ke log bhi unnessarily iske problems mein drag hote ja rahe hain.