Like Moth to a Flame - Page 16

Originally posted by: aparnak

One thing i realized with this show is that anything i am predicting is not happening. I wont have any expectations going further. The promo was so misleading giving romantic notions etc. I am not sure now if that is the snd result. Also this is going to be a SLOW journey. And each episode is actually good on its own without my over thinking.

From today onwards mein bhi expectations nahi rakhungi. I was super excited ki aaj century hit karega show toh we will get explosive episode. Aisa kuch bhi nahi hua toh disappointed hogayi.

mera expectations tha

1. Male version piya tose qnki iss baar Adi ne initiate kiya khud ke marzi se ki why he is feeling restless in absence of imlie

2. Cycle ride with nok jhok. Jhalli mujhe lift do mein toota phoota aadmi chal nahi sakta.

3. Khali haath aaya hoga gifts ki koi umeed nahi lag rahi hai. Atleast laddoo hi le aate.

4. Saaliyon ne jyada tang nahi kiya ki Adi blush karne lage.

Dekhe mere bade bade rangeen sapne. Dhadam se muh ke bal gir gayi🤢🤢. Na Baba ab se bilkul bhi expect nahi karungi.

Kya pari 🤢good dadaa send him ..saare lakshan bete ke jaan gaye pehle hi aur wahan woh aparnaji bete ko chod bahu ki party join ki hai ...lakshan pechano aparnaji 😆beta haath se chala jayega. ..

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@bold - Imlie will always be the one to go through it first, alone. Aditya will follow. There is only one route to take now, Aditya and Imlie grow closer, Aditya Malini grow further apart. I hope they tone down the intimacy but I do not know. I do hope the makers take the chance to give Malini a better characterization than what they have done so far however, but even there my expectations are pretty low. They are bent on making her a whiny mad woman.

I think Aditya is going to be a lot more open about his affection for Imlie, especially if he knows Malini’s dad is the guy who wronged her. He is a pretty selfish guy and that is just going to drive anything related to his equation with Imlie going forward.

Yes, and I think that part has already been reached....Imlie has gone through it alone for a while, Aditya is now following.....from this point on, they need to walk the path of pain TOGETHER....it shouldn't be her alone struggling with it.....as Fary said above, it would be just be knowingly cruel if Adi lets Imlie go through all that again by flaunting his relationship with Malini.....he was clueless before, so he got some leeway....that won't fly anymore.

Logically yes, the only path forward does seem to be Adi-Imlie growing closer while Adi-Malini drift apart....but the part I'm not sure about his how will they show Adi-Malini drifting apart unless they actually start showing things like her leaving the house for a bit....or atleast awkwardness between them even when they are alone in their room.....and will Malini keep taking all of that to the family daily or will she shut up for a bit? 😆.....The logical follow up to all this should also be Adi seeking out Imlie on his own more often than he has done before.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, I also feel that if anyone realizes anything, it will be Imlie.....since they are showing her as the one being aloof from him right now, she will guilt trip more when she sees him dying in her arms just like he was guilt-tripping big time as he saw her dying from the gunshot cuz he had been aloof with her throughout that time in PD. The difference is that Imlie's feelings are at a more consciously developed stage than his so it's quite possible she will get more conscious awareness of the fact that she's in love with him after all this and it will be all the more painful for her from hereon to bear Adi with Malini.

Adi as always is the wildcard....if his goal of having Imlie back in his life, his house is achieved, will he think of anything beyond that? Will this time in PD atleast bring some awareness in him that he cannot be as ignorant and indifferent towards Imlie anymore or be so casual in how he likes to flaunt his romance with Malini?

I hope you're right that there is some struggle in him when he returns....not just a struggle to hide their relationship, but a struggle with his feelings for Imlie....it shouldn't be so easy for the makers to switch him from an Adi staring at Imlie nonstop in PD to an Adi resuming his "Hum sirf aapke hain, Moon" jaap....I can buy some general pampering from him to pacify Malini's clinginess but the level of obliviousness needs to change or there is no point to all these PD scenes that are happening right now.

If Imlie is going to go through the pain of unrequited love, Adi deserves to as well. Even more so if she comes back with him again and then is put through having to watch the spectacle of his relationship with Malini yet again. If they want to continue to show an Adi with a conscience, he shouldn't be able to bear that either and it should prick him big time.

All I want is that he isn't able to be as COMPLACENT with Malini again....lol that's my bottom line.....delusional toh yeh rehta hi hai so nothing new....he finds a way to keep convincing himself that Malini hi sahi hai, Malini hi sant hai blah blah.....but it would be just too unfair to show him being able to retreat into his life as before while Imlie's heartbreak gets worse having to watch him with Malini. Jisne aag lagaayi hai, woh bhi jale usmein :P.

I do not think he is going to think beyond getting her back to his house but I also feel or rather hope that they do not go back to the previous Adi who was totally devoted to Moon without nary a thought for Imlie. Yes, that devotion will be there, there will guilt, groveling and we should be prepared for it but there should also be the struggle which should be shown through his inner thoughts or actions. Else, as you said the whole PD trip would have no meaning. The biggest for me would be his jijhak in romancing Malini in front of Imlie where first he was all ok with it.

Having said all that, I do feel that we are going to see an increase in groveling, pampering and guilt because the more he gets pulled towards Imlie, the more he will push himself towards Malini. Imlie has always been a step ahead in terms of their relationship so realizing her feelings first, go with the flow but she is also so blind to his feelings (or so convinced about his feelings for Malini) that she will misinterpret all his actions towards her and Malini, invariably getting hurt. She will try to pull herself away from him which in turn will increase his restlessness. So yes, he will burn but lets see how the makers show it to us... Intensity ki to yeh show kami nahi hain. They should just make full use of it...😉

I do feel that we are going to see more gifts coming Imlie's way which would increase Malini's shak and insecurity...which is turn its going to land on Aditya.... Do Biwiyon ka bahot shok tha isse ab bhuktega 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LMAO🤣.....Snake ko bhi DAANT lagaa ke rakha hoga apne black bag mein ki jab main bolun, tabhi nikalna🤣

Jokes apart, I agree with others here who've speculated ki snake woh Pari hi laaya hai😆.....kal se dirty looks de raha hai Adi ko.....lol pucca koi kaand karega.

I am thinking Aditya is going to do chance pe dance... In that state, he will ask her will you come back with me or you will never leave me, promise and she will like "kuch bhi bas ab teek ho jao"... aur Imlie phas jayegi 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, and I think that part has already been reached....Imlie has gone through it alone for a while, Aditya is now following.....from this point on, they need to walk the path of pain TOGETHER....it shouldn't be her alone struggling with it.....as Fary said above, it would be just be knowingly cruel if Adi lets Imlie go through all that again by flaunting his relationship with Malini.....he was clueless before, so he got some leeway....that won't fly anymore.

Logically yes, the only path forward does seem to be Adi-Imlie growing closer while Adi-Malini drift apart....but the part I'm not sure about his how will they show Adi-Malini drifting apart unless they actually start showing things like her leaving the house for a bit....or atleast awkwardness between them even when they are alone in their room.....and will Malini keep taking all of that to the family daily or will she shut up for a bit? 😆.....The logical follow up to all this should also be Adi seeking out Imlie on his own more often than he has done before.

@bold - Jin cheezon se hum logon ko chhid mach jaathi hai, Aditya will now probably start seeing that a lot more in Malini. She already does not affect him emotionally, now her actions/ habits/ characteristics too will start annoying him a lot more. Ghar jaane walon mein se nahin hai hamari Malini. Roz roz ka tamasha kahaan karegi varna.

Right way to do it is for Aditya to start acknowledging that there are basic differences between them in everything from ideological viewpoints to perceptions. Will the makers do it though I do not know.

Imlie will realize she loves him first. Will go through the gamut of feelings that will come with having to accept that he might never be hers in a meaningful way. For Aditya, her presence is his need right now. She’s his support system. He will not entertain anything beyond that because Malini is still a fixture. But like how he could not help himself from needing Imlie to going to PD, he will not be able to help himself but realize he is in love with Imlie. And when that happens, Imlie might step back because Malini didi. It will then be Aditya’s turn to experience unrequited love.

Also, I do not think there will be an alone Imlie anymore. Aditya will walk together with her. Just not as someone who knows he is in love with her yet.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

ROFL chalo you are also realizing this finally😆....main toh kabse sabko bol rahi hoon ki mat rakho expectations😆.....none of what people are expecting actually happens.....especially the romance waale expectations😆.

Promo was good for speculations and laughs....but I also knew ki exactly waisa nahin hoga jaise wahaan dikhaa rahe hain😆.....I realized a while back ki yeh journey aise hi chalegi baby steps mein😆.....so only expectations should be of very very slow progress....like Adi now staring at Imlie so intensely is a major progress from before, isn't it? 😆.....so what if romance nahin hua....intensity toh increase hui na😆

The show in and its pase the actors (st and gm) are sooo good as it is. Its my overthinking coming in the way

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

+1

From today onwards mein bhi expectations nahi rakhungi. I was super excited ki aaj century hit karega show toh we will get explosive episode. Aisa kuch bhi nahi hua toh disappointed hogayi.

mera expectations tha

1. Male version piya tose qnki iss baar Adi ne initiate kiya khud ke marzi se ki why he is feeling restless in absence of imlie

2. Cycle ride with nok jhok. Jhalli mujhe lift do mein toota phoota aadmi chal nahi sakta.

3. Khali haath aaya hoga gifts ki koi umeed nahi lag rahi hai. Atleast laddoo hi le aate.

4. Saaliyon ne jyada tang nahi kiya ki Adi blush karne lage.

Dekhe mere bade bade rangeen sapne. Dhadam se muh ke bal gir gayi🤢🤢. Na Baba ab se bilkul bhi expect nahi karungi.

Agree. I think all of this will happen in the future. But is way early still. I also expected 100 to be adilie bonus insteas makers put all the cast into the episode.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Matlab water cooler mera hua😎😱 caz I was the first one who thought yeh pari ka kaand hai 😆

Aapka itne saalon ka Gul show watching experience kaam aa raha hai😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Having said all that, I do feel that we are going to see an increase in groveling, pampering and guilt because the more he gets pulled towards Imlie, the more he will push himself towards Malini. Imlie has always been a step ahead in terms of their relationship so realizing her feelings first, go with the flow but she is also so blind to his feelings (or so convinced about his feelings for Malini) that she will misinterpret all his actions towards her and Malini, invariably getting hurt. She will try to pull herself away from him which in turn will increase his restlessness. So yes, he will burn but lets see how the makers show it to us... Intensity ki to yeh show kami nahi hain. They should just make full use of it...😉

I do feel that we are going to see more gifts coming Imlie's way which would increase Malini's shak and insecurity...which is turn its going to land on Aditya.... Do Biwiyon ka bahot shok tha isse ab bhuktega 😆

@bold: LOL yes, this should be the logical next step. He can keep on doing his usual groveling/pampering with Malini but Imlie cannot burn alone in this torment anymore....ab Adi should burn along with her and that is how the angst should build to the next level. He should understand the ramifications of trying to continue to sail in two boats....he should feel himself actually being torn apart, not between what he thinks to be pyar and zimmedaari but between soul-deep love and a guilt ridden obligation.

If the levels of madness he is showing currently are any indication, then yes, this will all still continue in Delhi also even if he manages to bring Imlie back....his phobia that she can leave him should remain 😛.....which reminds me....lol so much for him saying he wants another chance to make amends with Imlie....woh toh beech mein hi pause ho gaya, no? The real meaning of the grahpravesh and the second chance should be followed up now when Adi-Imlie return from PD.