Selfish Sahir and Selfish Zaki- Arzoo go away.

Both the brothers are turning out to be mega self absorbed people. I couldnt relate to anybody's character today, even Nausheen was very disappointing and Alvira...what should I say.

Sahir admitted that he stopped her from going because he was afraid Zaki would find her anyway, or because he did not want to see her going. It was ABOUT HIM, again...it was not about her emotional pain at all.!!...Arzoo is close to emotional breakdown, facing betrayal from the first man she trusted ,and betrayal from Alvira too...she needs to get away from here...she came here to be a designer, she needs to fight the world for her goals and not get trapped in this quagmire Alvira and her sons are putting her in. Alvira wants chance to say mafi...and then what?

For once, Arzoo had made a good decision , she needs to get away physically from this place...from Sahir .She still does not know that Zaki loves her, once she knows that she will want to be away form him too.
Sahir pleads with his mom to stop Arzoo because she has no place to go...yes..because you took away their only source of living...the factory in lucknow. She needs rest--how can a heart broken and abused woman be "rested" anywhere near her abuser? Yes, the way Sahir talks to her, and tells her that finally she has understood he wants her to go away...each thing he does with her before to trap her in his love is abuse.
Alright..Allah miya will give him the saza...but Arzoo has a right to go away and heal herself...
If they don't have a place to stay they can go to their khala with whom Dadi and Myra are with right now. Arzoo and her sisters are educated...and Nausheen was supposed to be a strong woman herself...then this question of "where to go now" should not make them stay with the man or a family that has wronged their daughter.Why did Nausheen not confront Alvira and Sahir about what happened with her daughter instead of crying and looking for Zaki to comfort her?

Zaki in bed with Arzoo...one of the most disgusting scenes of late...Zaki took advantage of the distraught woman and her plight...he should not have even touched her...rape attempt is a traumatic experience and a woman does not trust anybody in this situation...his attempt to get close to her and telling her that he will take care of her...was a low blow by Zaki. All this when he knows that Arzoo loves Sahir, not him. Being a friend is okay, being a chipku lover is not.
Wake up Zaki...Arzoo called Sahir for help when he was being harassed...not you. Its Sahir who reached there to save her, not you. Agreed, Sahir has wronged her, but Zaki is wronging her too by covering up his love under facade of friendship and getting close to her.
What Zaki did today, by trying to prove himself the good one in front of Nausheen and Arzoo, especially being in bed with Arzoo on pretext of comforting her, when her female family members are available for that purpose, was really bad.Very wrong Zaki.

Arzoo, needs to leave this place pronto...Let Sahir deal with his promise and then go back and find Arzoo, redeem himself , be her humsafar in action and let her come to him, when she is able to understand him, forgive him and love him.

Nausheen, she took me by complete surprise today...she was okay with Zaki being so close to Arzoo the whole night? Is she dreaming of giving Arzoo to Zaki in marriage?

Alvira brought Arzoo here to let her be a fashion designer...let Arzoo be that, she is a young woman with dreams...this family of Alvira and sons is killing her dreams!!

Coming to Sahir, he knows he has wronged her. He mutilates himself again and again...does not help the situation because he keeps hurting her after that. Guilt and tears do not help either...remorse has to be followed by taking action. Most important thing that Sahir should be doing is to come clean with his past, about Zeenat and nature of his relationship, his promise, the deal and why he did all this. If he really cares about Arzoo's mental peace, he should come clean, and let her make her choices. If she wants to go, let her go...sometimes you have to love by giving space. Just being possessive or guilty does not mean love at all.
If he cannot clarify to her for any reason, he should just let her go. ...

Let her go Sahir...heal yourself and then heal her.

Agreed 101%! Saahir still has not started repenting for his deeds! He is just afraid of losing Arzoo! He might be in pain but its all about him and its self-invited pain! Cant believe people actually want Arzoo to put her pain aside and heal the selfish pyscho Saahir? Um he invited most of his pain on himself? She does not owe him anything as of now since they are not even in a relationship. Saahir owes Arzoo a lot. Look what he has turned a jolly go innocent girl into? She was strong enough to put aside of her pain from childhood which I still believe is stronger pain compared to Saahir as it impacted her upbringing. And thanx to Saahir she is almost destroyed now yet its still her responsilbity to heal him after all of this? 🤪

Originally posted by: redviolet

Agreed 101%! Saahir still has not started repenting for his deeds! He is just afraid of losing Arzoo! He might be in pain but its all about him and its self-invited pain!Cant believe people actually want Arzoo to put her pain aside and heal the selfish pyscho Saahir? Um he invited most of his pain on himself? She does not owe him anything as of now since they are not even in a relationship. Saahir owes Arzoo a lot. Look what he has turned a jolly go innocent girl into? She was strong enough to put aside of her pain from childhood which I still believe is stronger pain compared to Saahir as it impacted her upbringing. And thanx to Saahir she is almost destroyed now yet its still her responsilbity to heal him after all of this? 🤪

I agree that whatever happened to Arzoo was wrong..but don't you think she forced herself into this situation ?? Right from the beginning he had been telling her to stay away..so many times...but she used to barge in...she never took all the pushing away seriously...she invaded his personal space again and again...even though he told her to leave him alone repeatedly..so that way both are responsible for each other's situation...my POV..no offense to anyone..

I agree with most of the points here but Sahir did not stop Aarzoo for his selfishness. Yes his self talks showed today that he was confused about the reason he stopped her,but he definitely wasn't confused when he was pleading to Alvira on his knees to stop her as she needs rest and she has nothing in Lucknow.

sahir has broken her heart, and wronged her, but he is not responsible for the tormented condition of her, she is tormented because of the molestation, which was not done by anybody and an accident, and infact that has horrified her more, which led to her this broken state.. and not only her, it has equally broken sahir also, so its more like the pain inflicted on her is being suffered by him..

Originally posted by: redviolet

Agreed 101%! Saahir still has not started repenting for his deeds! He is just afraid of losing Arzoo! He might be in pain but its all about him and its self-invited pain! Cant believe people actually want Arzoo to put her pain aside and heal the selfish pyscho Saahir? Um he invited most of his pain on himself? She does not owe him anything as of now since they are not even in a relationship. Saahir owes Arzoo a lot. Look what he has turned a jolly go innocent girl into? She was strong enough to put aside of her pain from childhood which I still believe is stronger pain compared to Saahir as it impacted her upbringing. And thanx to Saahir she is almost destroyed now yet its still her responsilbity to heal him after all of this? 🤪

its not her responsiblity, and thats the only reason sahir did not tell her the entire truth, he knew if he would tell her the actual truth then she would come back to him, to heal him, which infact would be selfish of him.. he has let her go, and thats why and what was expected na.. and no her destruction was not because of him solely, yes he induced a lot of pain upon her, and she was broken, but she still had taken her self respect back and left his house, and then the molestation destroyed her, which is not because of sahir and indeed that molestation scenario devatstated both of them ..

Originally posted by: TaanuDeewani

I agree that whatever happened to Arzoo was wrong..but don't you think she forced herself into this situation ?? Right from the beginning he had been telling her to stay away..so many times...but she used to barge in...she never took all the pushing away seriously...she invaded his personal space again and again...even though he told her to leave him alone repeatedly..so that way both are responsible for each other's situation...my POV..no offense to anyone..

Alvira is responsible for pushing Arzoo towards Saahir. She told her to become Joe. She told her to stay at Niyammat house. Secondly she was in the house at work any way how far away could she stay? The one time she tried to remove her desk away from him he created a scene in public? He told her to leave while pinning her to the wall. He was never clear in his message. Had he been more clear she would have understood. In fact the whole family kind of cheated her by not telling her he was married before hand.

Further more he didnt play the game with her because she wasnt giving him enough space he played the game with her because he wanted that business deal. He thought she was standing the way of Zaki marrying Samaira. Neither case would give him the right to play with someone' s emotions anyway.

I do agree with one thing she should have never tried to heal him. She shouldnt have done it before and she shouldnt do it now. It has only gotton her pain in the process.

Originally posted by: redviolet

Alvira is responsible for pushing Arzoo towards Saahir. She told her to become Joe. She told her to stay at Niyammat house. Secondly she was in the house at work any way how far away could she stay? The one time she tried to remove her desk away from him he created a scene in public? He told her to leave while pinning her to the wall. He was never clear in his message. Had he been more clear she would have understood. In fact the whole family kind of cheated her by not telling her he was married before hand.

Further more he didnt play the game with her because she wasnt giving him enough space he played the game with her because he wanted that business deal. He thought she was standing the way of Zaki marrying Samaira. Neither case would give him the right to play with someone' s emotions anyway.

I do agree with one thing she should have never tried to heal him. She shouldnt have done it before and she shouldnt do it now. It has only gotton her pain in the process.