Is character assassination necessary for a love story?

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prettypri

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: redviolet

exactly she offered him food I was just summing it up!

Ok...have it your way..!😆

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vandana

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: dinki24

I hope they show sahir repenting for saying something as bad as that...and any girl in arzoo's place would think twice before entering his room again..

but she did enter again🤣

what will u say now ?🤔

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vandana

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: dinki24
arzoo is becoming a doormat and i don't like the way sahir keeps manhandling her. i agree that she's irritating at times. but his words about husband-wife relation was too much.

i don't think sahir was wrong!

she pushed his tolerance level to the brim!

he kept on asking her to leave...but instead of getting the cue..she kept on and on with her non stop talks and actions!

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vandana

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: sho-shweet
@redviolet
Exactly.any sensible girl would do that.A girl should never take her safety for granted.Especially when she doesn't know her boss and who according to her is strange/phyco,which sensible girl would like to work with him.Rapists don't come from Mars.

safety for granted ?😲

u got to be kkdding me!

as sahir said those lines...did he even move an inch closer to her ? NO

as sahir said tho otherwise alarm aarzoo that his intentions were not right? NO

mind u..sahir did not invite her in his room..its she who has taken this liberty a bit too seriously...that she choses to walk in her boss's room..as and wen she wishes...inspite of him asking her to stay away...

aarzoo does not even have the basic manners to knock...and forget abt knocking...she sees vher boss just out of the pool...but she still choses to walk in...y? just to say thank you!

plzzz gimme a break!

and honey...for this line that "rapists don't come from mars"

lemme remind u a few things...

wen aarzoo fell in the pool...she was almost transparent...it was sahir who did not touch her on the pretext of "touching" her ...infact he walked out of the pool and the room..so that aarzoo could come out without feeling awkward!

that jungle scene...he could've done anything with her...but he chose to protect her rather than "rape " her(i guess thats what u r suggesting)...

she walks in his room...unannounced...he keeps on asking her to stay away!...i don't think rapists do such things!

so before u use such a word for sahir...just go thru the past epis and think what sahir has been all abt!

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vandana

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: redviolet

exactly she offered him food I was just summing it up!

this was not just food being offered...i guess aarzoo got a bit too influenced by "the good wife" (just the title😆) and decided to behave like one😆

she needs to realise...her relationship with sahir is formal...there's a very thin line between being good...and being interfering🤣

she crossed that line today😳

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prettypri

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Vandy... For a minute I thought I had actually missed seeing certain things.. Or totally misunderstood them

😆.

Thankfully that's not the case!

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Soaps1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Rapist don't come from mars agreed ... but Sahir showing all signs of one can only make me go 🤣 You guys should check pics of a few rapists out ... their eyes and faces are a clear give away ... and if he is such a rapist why didn't he rape her in jungle itself? No one was there ... no one would even know 🤣 And going by same theory why shouldn't we say arzoo is trying to be an imposer? Despite him telling her again and again to leave she goes on and on imposing herself ... what was she expecting in return? Enlighten me please 😉 Aik larkey ke room mey ... raat ko ... aik larki akeli ... he asks her to leave not once, not twice, not thrice, not four times but five times, in fact if i am not wrong there was a sixth time too when he said dont u get it ... she refuses and keeps insisting despite the clear angry tone of his ... what she wanted?

Of course I dont think arzoo wanted anything but if this is the basis of judging Sahir as a potential rapist why should arzoo not be judged based on same criterion? She has been imposing herself a lot too! 🤔 Just because she is a woman and he is a man? He is supposed to be always nice no matter even if she pushes his last nerve and dries all his patience? We all know he did not say that because she brought him food but because she refused to leave and stay away despite his repeated attempts to send her off!

If Sahir does not defend or support her we say he is being mean and cruel to her ... if he supports her it is said he is leading or confusing her ... if he does not support her when she is in pain or crying it is said he is inhuman ... if he does support her it is concluded he is leading her on ... Sahir has a past ... he knows about it and there is absolutely nothing between saaz yet that he needs to tell arzoo about it ... all he can do is try and keep her away ... if arzoo is human and is getting attracted to her ... he is a human only ... why judge him as someone from mars in this case then? If she can get attracted or confused or whatever due to his actions why can't he because of the same? Oh because he is married? Well what do we know about the reality of his marriage? Nothing!!! Yet we are always judging him ... where as arzoo's clear flaws are written off as innocence and carelessness ... why have two yard sticks in one show?

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sho-shweet

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

@soaps and vandy

did I call Sahir A rapist?Inwas referring to the comment of a girl who said that she'd stay away from such a person ever to which I replied that you always should if your boss says anything like this to you.Sahir is the hero of a romantic show and he has many like able qualities and he will not even in his dreams think about doing this to Aarzoo,I was talking about real life where a girl should stay away from person who behaves like this and appears strange/psycho.We know Sahir but people don't know their bosses in general.

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Soaps1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

we didnt say u did either did we? Thing is to have sexual desires is very much human ... but what separates a man from a moron is what he does with them ... so far Sahir has done nothing that would give arzoo any hint that he is a potential rapist ... he has not once touched her with desire nor even looked at her once with desire ... in fact even yesterday when he said that line which everyone is so upset about he made no attempt to go close to her or touch her ... 7 years of waiting I can't deny he wont be sexually frustrated ... its very much human ... but he is rich he can get in bed any girl he would lay his hand on ... but he hasnt ... nor he has done anything to arzoo so far that would make her fear him in that sense ... having said that i won't deny that arzoo needs to set certain limits too ... she needs to know when she is crossing the line she shouldn't

Edited by Soaps1 - 11 years ago

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sho-shweet

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Soaps1
we didnt say u did either did we? Thing is to have sexual desires is very much human ... but what separates a man from a moron is what he does with them ... so far Sahir has done nothing that would give arzoo any hint that he is a potential rapist ... he has not once touched her with desire nor even looked at her once with desire ... 7 years of waiting I can't deny he wont be sexually frustrated ... its very much human ... but he is rich he can get in bed any girl he would lay his hand on ... but he hasnt ... nor he has done anything to arzoo so far that would make her fear him in that sense

Yeah but the replies here about my comment about general life were filled with Sahir's frame of mind/Aarzoo's faults etc etc,but I wasn't even tall king about their situation.And again rapist don't have horns. And face is not the indicator of a person's frame of mind.Safety should not be taken for granted if the man looks cute and noble.

about being Sahir sexually frustrated or upset,we all get annoying guests,Aarzoo was getting more annoying I agree but we talk to out guests like this?do we?

Edited by sho-shweet - 11 years ago

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