The Magical Hug ...Words Fall Short to Describe it:Edit by Swetha Pg1 - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: redviolet

Beautifully written once again!

Few things I noticed about the episode overall today. I think they go in point with the hug as well. Arzoo seemed very mature today around her family. This is/was how she is in Lucknow very mature. Somehow her immature and childish naive side only comes out when she is around Saahir? Even around Zaki she is quite mature and Alvira too. Why is that? She can only let loose around him? Does she know he is the only one who can handle it? While her family needs to her to be mature? Same deal with the hug she can only find solace in him while her family needed consoling she consoled herself through Saahir.

She is the bread owner of the house .. so I guess that sort of forces her to act matured but she lets loose herself in front of someone like Sahir who is actually matured and experienced and she knows that she can learn a lot from him ... with zaki too she acts matured knowing well Zaki himself is immatured ... so Sahir is only one with whom she feels secure and takes the liberty to let loose knowing well that he can handle it whereas with rest especially her family , she knows she will hv to handle it all ...


The hug was very beautiful shot. I liked how they kept moving their arms around to hug one another from every different angle. It was very beautifully depicted. How they complete and find solace in each other only. It seemed like both of them wanted to hug each other till the end of time.

yess they keep moving their hands to get the feel and it looked very real 😳 ,.. yup they just dint wanted to break the hug at all .. its like years of bottled up frustration and pain and then suddenly finding solace in each other's arms ... so they wanted to forgot all the pain and just live that moment forever 😳


Im still very ifey about Saahir having a wife who is alive. Even if she was cheating him does it justify him doing the same? Not sure? Lets see how it plays out. From today's episode it did seem like Saahir loved her. He goes their every Thursday waiting for her to wake up and look at him? Kind of suggest he has a soft spot for her? Than how come is growing attraction towards Arzoo? Not sure? Also if he gifted her a car than that means the marriage was going good from his ends? Either that or he was just a really good husband in love or not!

That dialogue can mean anything .. mayb he wants answers from her and so waits for her to wake up .. it could b out of hatred too .. I mean why does he keep talking of fareb and chaand mein daag type of things which has nothing to do with a mere unfortunate accident 😕 '

Also I dont think he will cheat on her till she comes back to her senses and he actually finishes off all ties with her mayb ... so till then he wont accept his love for Aarzoo even if he falls for herr



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Posted: 11 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: rockstar29

Wow Jyoti ur write SI beautifully and ya I have seen the movie hope we see end of sahir first wiffy like that but need to wait and watch




lets see how they take forward the wife past .. this is first time 4 lions is attempting such a complex past story of a lead .. lets see how they take it ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: BHAVII

whatever the case may be Jyoti its disgusting to see a married man's love story on screen.

Whats up with Gul and her show's😕

1st show showed a married man marrying a girl for money
2nd show showed a married man obsessed about a girl

Now in both the above case they were negative characters

But here a married man falling for the intern

Whatever the past story may be its just not right and Sahir just punishing himself and giving himself pain does not do any good aswell. 🤢

Bhavi I find it absolutely fine to b honest because in real society today married man and theri affairs is quite an issue ... cheating in marriage is also an issue ... so if somehow 4 lions r highlighting these stuffs in this show and trying to bring in a bold aspect to it , I dont see anything wrong in it as long as they dont make a mockery .. we really dunno the details about his marriage with Zeenat ..

Plus lets assume even if Zeenat is a good wife and all was good in marriage , still after 7 yrs of loneliness , its only natural for a man to feel attracted towards someone in his life ..imagine 7 yrs of being a brahmachari 😆 ... every man or every human rather hv his biological needs and I assume Sahir is normal too ...

And this is where its bothereing him that after 7 yrs of self control , I m finally loosing it .. I actually find it gripping and something bold attempted on Indian TV to b honest ...


And last but not least why cant a married man fall in love again if the wife is dead or has no chance of coming out of coma or might hv been unfaithful .. I feel every man or woman should hv the right to get a second chance in life if their first marriage for some reason does not go right ... u cant forever remain alone and sulk na


Despite brilliant acting by leads just the idea of love story of a married man and unmarried lady is indigestible😒 I know polygamy is allowed as per Muslim law and in his case its even viable as the first spouse is incapable of taking their name ahead yet just the idea is disgusting.

I really dont find it disgusting given the situation shown here 🤔 .. its a bitter truth in our society ,, why not reflect the same in our shows too


So what's the difference between Sarfaraz and Sahir?😕 😕 May be if they showed Sarfaraz's past we may see some kind of guilt in the guy and may be Farha may have changed him.

R we not assuming too soon by making this comparison .. we know why Sarfaraz dumped his first wife . but do we know the reality of Sahir-Zeenat marriage .. plus she was dead for almost 7 yrs with no hope of her returning back to sense either as per one spoiler .. in such scenario , any or woman do hv right to move on I feel

Eventhough if his wife was cheating on him - still he is married.

so just bec he carries marriage tag , he should stop living and not move ahead ... dont divorces or second marriage happen in India ??


I am thinking about Arzoo here. What will she feel once she knows that he is married? Will she not blame herself for being the second woman and causing all the griefs to first wife especially when she has seen her mother going through all of that.

she might blame herself but by that time we might also come to know how is Zeenat .. what is her character all about .. what if she is Farah in this relation while Aarzoo is Nausheen ??


Yes we all need a hug from some unknown person but the issue is they are not strangers and i have not seen two strangers hugging so far.

after one night together in jungle , I feel their comfort level hv reached a stage where they dont feel shy hugging each other for comfort ,... why should we judge hugs between man and woman based on love or passion only .. it can b just to console each other too na

If i keep aside all the above then yes the Hug was devine. It was demand of that moment. Both needed the much required peace and solace. I can see Arzoo developing soft spot for him and we all know that her thoughts create havoc to Sahir so not sure where is the story going?

Aarzoo already developed a soft spot I feel but yet to realsie whereas Sahir already realised it , so was punishing himself by hitting with a belt ... I think he might feel more relaxed if he just tells her the truth about his past .. she might herslef move away from him ..



Just a thought - Would we have accepted the story if it was other way round? Meaning Arzoo married and her hubby in coma and falling for Sahir😕😕 😕 😕 😕

yup I would hv accepted for sure .. in fact I m watching similar show on life ok where I m rooting for a married women to fall for her boss because her husband is a criminal and cheated on her .. its ekta's show ajeeb dastaan .. so we do hv such stories too on Indian telly today 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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^^ Jyoti am not against the second marriage or second chance. Every person needs second chance. Marriages don't work and that's where the legal system comes into play. I know its just a drama and they are showing the reality yet it would have been more digestible if they showed it the right way.

Why are people making their life so complex when it can be so easy.😛

Well Ekta comes with some weird ideas and she is the paragon of showing polygamy and step kids 😆 . Her leads marry few times so that does not surprise or bother me. I can digest this in Ekta;s show but i started watching 4 lions show for their clean love stories and that's why i am just pissed off
Edited by BHAVII - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BHAVII

^^ Jyoti am not against the second marriage or second chance. Every person needs second chance. Marriages don't work and that's where the legal system comes into play. I know its just a drama and they are showing the reality yet it would have been more digestible if they showed it the right way.


Why are people making their life so complex when it can be so easy.😛

Well Ekta comes with some weird ideas and she is the paragon of showing polygamy and step kids 😆 . Her leads marry few times so that does not surprise or bother me. I can digest this in Ekta;s show but i started watching 4 lions show for their clean love stories and that's why i am just pissed off



Bhavi na Ekta is no more the same if u watch her life ok show ajeeb dastaan .. its got a wonderful script actualy and shows the harsh reality of life when he woman has to suffer or bear the brunt of her husband's sins .. its beautifully shown there 👍🏼

I m hoping something similar here too but from man's POV mayb ... thats why its important to know Zeenat's past before we conclude anything on this track .. unless we know about her character sketch its difficult to assume why Sahir feels attracted towards another woman even when he claims to still wait for his wife coming out of coma .. there must b a strong reason hopefully 🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved your writeup jyoti ji ...and am killing the replay button of today's episode 😉
Such a long passionate hug well shot well enacted well directed and such a soothing background score just took the scene into another level !!!
They were complementing each other so well Harshad n Shivya are giving their life into Sahir n Aarzoo👏...Am loving the show and the mystery behind - hoping Sahir's first marriage was never complete 😉

Lets see how the story unfolds ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#17
beautifully written...I am lost in Saaz world...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think the highlight of the episode was definitely the hug, that was magical, it was done very beautifully. In reality, when people hug each other out of sadness, the hug turns out like this, they leave their pain very slowly and rest in each others arms to comfort themselves, this s got to be the most realistic hug I've even seen, the leads expressions, specially Harshad's expressions reflected What Sahir is going through, HC is a magician, how can someone be this fabulous.

Keeping the fangirl in me aside, I guess the circumstances that resulted the hug showed both Sahir and Arzoo's inner conflicts, which are breaking them inside at the same time bringing them close to each other: Nausheen
And Sarf's broken marriage and Sahir's past ( read wife )


One thing that I don't get is, how will Arzoo feel after this super tight hug ? From Sahir's side, he already knows he is attracted to her. But Arzoo is yet to develop any romantic feeling for Sahir, she still considers him her mentor/ boss. I know after the Jungle mein manghal incident, she has become kind of comfortable with him, but is that normal for a girl like Arzoo to hug her boss this way, specially the way both of them were moving around their hands on each other ?May be I'm being too cultural and conservative.


I read what Bhavi and you have to say about Sahir's being already married man, still fall in love. Bhavi, Ekta made one bold show four years ago, the male lead was already married and his wife was the ideal wife, still he fell in love with another girl. And he ended up with the girl he fell in love with, of course after devolving his first wife, and the shocking part is she made it with a rural back round.

Here we haven't seen the actual picture of Sahir's first marriage. And to be honest, I won't mind Sahir falling for Arzoo despite being legally married, not because I'm a SaAz fan but it happens in real life. Let's just be honest, there are men who cheat on their wives, hides their EMA and fake a perfect family man image. But if Sahir falls in love with Arzoo for true, why not ?

But yes, it won't be easy for Arzoo, I see her hating herself and going to that " self/destructive " mode if she becomes Sahir's 2nd wife.

And from whatever I've understand about the characters and storyline, seeing how hard Sahir is falling for Arzoo, if in any case Arzoo keeps herself away from him in future becoz of his past, I see Sahir becoming an obsessed lover !!! This show seems very much different from other 3 shows of the same PH, Humsafars seems more of an passionate and classic story.

Few words for Nausheen begum, did I tell I despise these type of women ? Why can't she answer back Sharfaraz and Farah ? If she isn't strong enough to answer back, she can stay away from Sharfaraz right ? Mostly, child become the mother's weakness , here vice versa. Did I hear right, she had some issues related to kidney becoz of stress, Ok!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post as always ... it was the desperation of their pain that made the hug so beautiful



Originally posted by: BHAVII




Just a thought - Would we have accepted the story if it was other way round? Meaning Arzoo married and her hubby in coma and falling for Sahir😕😕 😕 😕 😕





Yes why not? ... Even now the acceptance of it depends on what they show ... if indeed zeenat cheated on him this story makes sense ... if arzoo's hubby cheated on her and that story made sense why not? If they don't show this one right even it wont be accepted

Edited by Soaps1 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post Jyoti...you have put the scene into words very expressively!
What I loved most was the comfort and relief on both their faces during tbe hug...when Sahir hugged Arzoo back she stopped sobbing gradually and became calmer...and when he closed his eyes the momentary respite from his pain was clear...he even embraced her tighter..as if he unconsciously wished to never let go!

The realisation of what he was doing ,,the pulling apart...drawing her close one last time before pushing her away,..all👏.

I agree with all those who have said we must see the back story of his marriage before we draw conclusions...because he has been waiting for 7 years...if he wanted to move on for his own reasons or because it's allowed for him he would have done so instead of living in pain.

To me it looks like he wants answers from her...and he cannot move on until he gets them,,,hopefully the story will justify his actions 😊

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