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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _saumya_

Trolling queen! 🤣

I will try to make sense here. Tell me if you want me to elaborate my viewpoint if it seems absurd. I will just reformulate your line and use my statistical knowledge to it.

How do you know that none of those girls will Grow up to become politicians and stop human trafficking? And statistically, there is a higher probability of one of them becoming a good leader in future keeping in view that there is a larger sample space.

The only thing I find pondering over is, Indira can't help in making the other girls good leaders in future but she can sure help her daughter with it.

Honey! I completely agree with charity starts at home and that prayer has always been my favourite one. It gives me immense strength even thigh I am agnostic. It somehow means more of believing in myself than anyone else, including God. Anyway, having said that, I am still not convinced with the view that whatever Indira did was inappropriate, it surely has been directed in an awful manner, though.

Thank you for the compliment Trolling Princess ROFL
@bold 1: I love your statistical analysis. But let me ask you this, isin't it equally probable that all of them will turn out to be criminals also?? Since there's more of them, higher probablility that atleast one, if not all of them, will turn out to be criminals.
@bold 2: Saumya, I posted this topic not to blindly assume that what Indira is doing is completely wrong. Rather, I feel that in this situation, there really is no right or wrong and I am opposed to people/writers trying to tell us that her approach is the "better" "more just" "more ethical/moral" approach. It is probably intuitive for most to say that saving 100 is better than 1 but as a scientist, you very well know that intuition is not always right. So my point is just to highlight the complexities of this situation/decision and ask people to look beyond simple intuition when they are considering the justness (is this a word?) /morality of either decision (saving one vs. saving 100's).
Agnostic- I guessed right! I think I consider myself the same.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _saumya_

I would like to add tad bit about Roshni's comment and the various comments that deal with it.

Truly, inspiring a lot is a better thing to do than doing it yourself but if you don't have the first one in you, its ok to do your share than do nothing at all. Blessed are the people who are amazing orators and have the power if words to influence people but what if I am not, shouldn't I do the bit I can. I agree that the directors have tried to make us believe that Indira's speech was influential but I would just forget that part and believe that she did her share. You're right, just leading by example is just as great as leading by speeches etc. but that's the problem- in the show, absolutely not a single individual seems to want to follow Indira- not even Ishaan. I find that bit troubling especially since they would like us to believe that she is the well known Hitler didi of CC who inspires all the little girls (not that Ishan is a little girl) of her neighborhood 😆

About things start from home. Well its true that Indira has not been able to control her own family but because CVs have portrayed the family in such a way that it seems like nothing would change them, whatsoever. the track like always is being poorly dealt with because going to Rajjo to rescue her daughter without any plan was a bad idea . I agree that Indira isn't dealing with the situation in the best possible manner but I do not comply with certain arguments mentioned above.

I would love to hear to disagreements and agreements to my take.

Dia, this time I am waiting to see what is more important , views or people who give those views... 😉

Edit: sorry! You must be thinking kitna bakbak kar rahi hai ye aj 😆

Correct me if I am wrong but I consider myself good in Hindi and the first para of the song means ... Learn to respect yourself before you respect others and the last verse says " mushkile pade toh humpe itna karam.kar ... Sarh de toh dharam.ka, chalein toh dharam par" which means that in difficult tines, O Lord! Give us the strength to take up the right path. Now, who decides which is the right path. You might find a path right but I might not. Indira probably differs from your viewpoint. Also, Indira didn't know that Indu want asking in the can, obviously a mistake on her part but that's only humane, ain't it?

Sorry, if I digressed.

I would love to hear what you think Dia.

Aaj ko kitne dino ki kasar puri kardi Saumya ne...ek nahi, do do lambe wale comments. Anyway, you owed me for not writing in the religion thread. Koi baat nahin, you have my forgiveness now 😆
Okay the last part of your comment- Actually I completely agree and that's the point I'm trying to make. Mujhe physics itni samjah nahi aati (so help me out) par even in physics theories, the way things appear to you sort of depends on where you are in spacetime- i.e how fast you are traveling, if you are on the train or on the station etc. So jab laws of nature are so flexible and things in nature can appear differently to different people, how can we assume that things like truth, justice, morality etc. are so rigid- like you said who decides which is the right path. Same thing with dharma- "you have a right to perform your prescribed duty (from the gita)" but duty towards whom? Yourself? Your family/child? Your fellow being? Nature? And is duty towards one superior to duty towards another?
Like I said in one of the previous comments, I don't know the answer to these questions and I'm okay with that. I think a lot of people on the forum, who are opposing Indira, are not completely against her. They are against her and the writer's assumption that what she is doing and the approach she has taken is the better/more just/more ethical path- that somehow duty towards country is more significant than duty towards family-and I don't appreciate her/writers making this decision for me. This has always been the case with this show- to show one approach as the "better" one and I have serious issues with that.
Dia, this time I am waiting to see what is more important , views or people who give those views... 😉
You tell me now, what is more important 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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So finally all the three of us are shipping on the same boat 😆 We can call KD too and go for vacations 🤣

Ok! So I think you know very well Dia, that not holding Indira responsible but just discussing the prospects might very well be your intentions but not everyone on the forum. I hope you don't have any feel good misconceptions about all of us.

Honey! That question was open to everyone . I would never direct a question which relates to Hindi to Dia 😆 I am sure, I know it better 😆 Anyway, that was a nice bhavarth that your mom gave, a thorough analysis, even though I would like to ponder over on my own than take anyone's word on it. I am an agnostic, a firm one, I would have hard time taking all those words by heart.
She was a Hindi scholar... Please don't mind but I want to share a joke about Literature lecturers that I love.
The poet says "Curtains were blue"
literature teacher says " It reflects that the poet has written it in a gloomy mood however cheerful words he might have used"
The poet meant "The curtains were Freaking blue"

🤣 🤣



Dia! you might object to the statistical analysis but it actually does not hold good in any real life circumstance, mine or your's . because real life things are not as random as the data is supposed to be for the statistical anlysis to hold good. ufff! I started lecturing, I guess I am missing my TAship 😆

Dia! I really want to reply on your religious belief wala thread because my religious beliefs do not end on the word agnostic. I am a Hindu agnostic theist 😆 With people who do not know enough about Hinduism would think I am a believer but well, Hinduism is vast, enormous, it gives way to any belief that you have. OK! We will have this conversation some other time because I am just saying things completely not related to the post and p[eople might even get offended by my take at it.


You perfectly said it with Physics ka example. I hate you sometimes for coming up with such beautiful examples and expression of thoughts. Nit hate you but yes, I get jealous. look at the whole thing have written it so messed and clumsy. 😒 Getting back to what I was saying. Yup! CVs have been trying to force their beliefs on us and i am not at all cool with it. But don't you tell me that everyone has been trying to say this. But let's not bother about that.

Now after this lambaa wala comment, i want to dedicate myself a song...

aaj kitne dino ke baad , forum me aaj Saumya nikli 🤣

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good Morning Sweetie🤗 🤗Good night for you. Hit the bed after you read this .
QUOTE Saumya
She was a Hindi scholar... Please don't mind but I want to share a joke about Literature lecturers that I love.
The poet says "Curtains were blue"
literature teacher says " It reflects that the poet has written it in a gloomy mood however cheerful words he might have used"
The poet meant "The curtains were Freaking blue"🤣🤣

This is very funny. I have lots of stories about poets . Some day I will share with you.
I never understood my mothers mind. She taught at masters level but at home she used to read Gulsan Nanda's books. I think she read every one of his romantic novels. She was very firm with us but loved 70 and 80 Hindi Rone Dhone wali movies and cry during sad scene . Rajendra Kumar was her hero and Meena Kumari was the and only one heroine . They both cried a lot and she loved it . So I never understood her as a child . But I can relate to above story .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dia...you purposely have these discussions over the weekend, right?? So that when I return on Monday, there is nothing left for me to say! But well, sorry to disappoint you. I am stubbornly going to present an anecdote that reinforces / reiterates the point you are trying to make.

Our office had a fire drill last week. The intent of the fire drill, as everyone knows, is merely to sensitize people to what they should do when there is a fire in the building. The fire alarm goes off and everyone is supposed to take the stairway exit without hitting the panic button and causing a stampede.

One of my colleagues is an ex-defense person. He has served in the army before making his way back into civilian life. During the class session of which exits lead where etc. this colleague just happened to mention that when there is a fire, the first instinct is to head for the exit. But the reality is that if fire is fought in the first five minutes, then there are chances that it can be controlled. That way, the damage to life and property can be minimized. So, maybe the training should cover a bit of that too. So that people know to deal with fire.

The MD of the company asked him to quieten down because fighting fire is the work of firemen and everybody's first concern should be to head to safety. To this, the ex-defense person said that our office is on the fourth floor of the building. If the fire can be controlled, then we stem its natural tendency to move upwards, thus giving the people in the upper floors more time to vacate. Its not as though people should not get to safety, but if someone knows to fight the fire, then they should stay and help in doing it. The MD was not at all happy to hear this and asked him not to divert the session with irresponsible statements.

Was it really an irresponsible statement? Was there no merit in what he was saying? Sure, there was because it was for the greater good. But the MDs point is: even if you are confident of fighting the fire, I, in my place, cannot allow you to do it because I am answerable for your safety and security. Even well trained people are at risk and I cannot risk anyone's safety. Besides, even if we assume that we do train office staff to firefight, should the occasion come up, who decides who should stay and who should leave?

There are no answers. You're right. And here's a question. The answer to this is closer to the point made in your original post. This is for whoever is reading this and might be interested in answering:

If you knew a pregnant woman who has had eight children already (three deaf, two blind, and one mentally retarded) and is herself suffering from syphilis, would you recommend that she have an abortion?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _saumya_

So finally all the three of us are shipping on the same boat 😆 We can call KD too and go for vacations 🤣


Ok! So I think you know very well Dia, that not holding Indira responsible but just discussing the prospects might very well be your intentions but not everyone on the forum. I hope you don't have any feel good misconceptions about all of us.

Honey! That question was open to everyone . I would never direct a question which relates to Hindi to Dia 😆 I am sure, I know it better 😆 Anyway, that was a nice bhavarth Iska kya matlab? that your mom gave, a thorough analysis, even though I would like to ponder over on my own than take anyone's word on it. I am an agnostic, a firm one, I would have hard time taking all those words by heart.
She was a Hindi scholar... Please don't mind but I want to share a joke about Literature lecturers that I love.
The poet says "Curtains were blue"
literature teacher says " It reflects that the poet has written it in a gloomy mood however cheerful words he might have used"
The poet meant "The curtains were Freaking blue"

🤣 🤣

This is damn funny 😆

Dia! you might object to the statistical analysis but it actually does not hold good in any real life circumstance, mine or your's . because real life things are not as random as the data is supposed to be for the statistical anlysis to hold good. ufff! I started lecturing, I guess I am missing my TAship 😆
Yup, I agree. I guess the point I was trying to make is that the "Greater good" is undefinable or alternatively has many different definitions depending on one's perspective.

Dia! I really want to reply on your religious belief wala thread because my religious beliefs do not end on the word agnostic. I am a Hindu agnostic theist 😆 With people who do not know enough about Hinduism would think I am a believer but well, Hinduism is vast, enormous, it gives way to any belief that you have. I agree with you here as well- hinduism has 2 sides to it- the spiritual/philosophical (which I find fascinating) and the traditional diety/praying side. If we consider just the 1st side, I am very much a believer. OK! We will have this conversation some other time because I am just saying things completely not related to the post and p[eople might even get offended by my take at it.


You perfectly said it with Physics ka example. I hate you sometimes for coming up with such beautiful examples and expression of thoughts. I have to admit the thought is not completely mine- it was inspired from a recent program I watched about physics and challenging our traditional ideas of space/time etc. Nit hate you but yes, I get jealous. look at the whole thing have written it so messed and clumsy. 😒 Getting back to what I was saying. Yup! CVs have been trying to force their beliefs on us and i am not at all cool with it. But don't you tell me that everyone has been trying to say this. 😆😆😆 But let's not bother about that.

Now after this lambaa wala comment, i want to dedicate myself a song...

aaj kitne dino ke baad , forum me aaj Saumya nikli 🤣
A song from me to you: Aaja ve mahi tera rasta udik diya, rasta udik diya rasta udik diya, aaja ve Saumya tera rasta udik diya ROFL

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

Dia...you purposely have these discussions over the weekend, right?? So that when I return on Monday, there is nothing left for me to say! Next time I'll post on a weekday so you get 1st dibs on commenting 😆 But well, sorry to disappoint you. I am stubbornly going to present an anecdote that reinforces / reiterates the point you are trying to make.

Our office had a fire drill last week. The intent of the fire drill, as everyone knows, is merely to sensitize people to what they should do when there is a fire in the building. The fire alarm goes off and everyone is supposed to take the stairway exit without hitting the panic button and causing a stampede.

One of my colleagues is an ex-defense person. He has served in the army before making his way back into civilian life. During the class session of which exits lead where etc. this colleague just happened to mention that when there is a fire, the first instinct is to head for the exit. But the reality is that if fire is fought in the first five minutes, then there are chances that it can be controlled. That way, the damage to life and property can be minimized. So, maybe the training should cover a bit of that too. So that people know to deal with fire.

The MD of the company asked him to quieten down because fighting fire is the work of firemen and everybody's first concern should be to head to safety. To this, the ex-defense person said that our office is on the fourth floor of the building. If the fire can be controlled, then we stem its natural tendency to move upwards, thus giving the people in the upper floors more time to vacate. Its not as though people should not get to safety, but if someone knows to fight the fire, then they should stay and help in doing it. The MD was not at all happy to hear this and asked him not to divert the session with irresponsible statements.

Was it really an irresponsible statement? Was there no merit in what he was saying? Sure, there was because it was for the greater good. But the MDs point is: even if you are confident of fighting the fire, I, in my place, cannot allow you to do it because I am answerable for your safety and security. Even well trained people are at risk and I cannot risk anyone's safety. Besides, even if we assume that we do train office staff to firefight, should the occasion come up, who decides who should stay and who should leave?

Interesting anectode Kanan, I wonder what the firemen would have to say about this (if they would see the civilian staying and helping as something positive or ultimately a hindrance- especially if the civilian did not succeed and was added to their list of people to rescue- considering that if he had just saved himself when he had the chance, the firefighters could focus on resucing others who did not have this opportunity). But, on the other hand if he was successful, people would applaud his "unselfish" behavior.

There are no answers. You're right. And here's a question. The answer to this is closer to the point made in your original post. This is for whoever is reading this and might be interested in answering:

If you knew a pregnant woman who has had eight children already (three deaf, two blind, and one mentally retarded) and is herself suffering from syphilis, would you recommend that she have an abortion?

Okay, your ethical dilemna is quite interesting, especially since its sort of in the medical realm. From a pure evolutionary standpoint, diversity is what keeps the human species going- you always want to make sure that there is plenty of diversity in the genepool so that if and when our environment changes, we can be sure that there will be people who will have the appropriate "fitness" to reproduce and propogate the species. So from purely that perspective, her kids may be blind, deaf, mentally retarded and chances are the next one will also suffer from congenital syphilis- but for all I know, they all may carry a yet unrecognized gene that makes them immune to cancer! And by aborting them, we/the human species would be eradicating a life-saving gene from the genepool.
Just an aside, people misunderstand "survival of the fittest." it has nothing to do with character, amount of wealth one gathers over their lifetime, professional or educational achievements etc etc. It only takes into account one thing- who is able to reproduce the most and pass on their genes- in that case this woman would be considered very fit (with 8 kids and one on the way 😆) but if evolution was allowed to play out, none of those kids would make it to reproductive age and reproduce themselves (they wouldl likely die of their illness) unless medical science intervened and decided to play "god" and mess with evolution 😆 I think I just contradicted what I said in the first paragraph 😆
Now this is just my scientific viewpoint. From a societal viewpoint- given that this woman is likely to be financially insecure and the burden of raising those kids will fall on the taxpayer- and even then, the kids would never get a fair shot in life- I would lean towards an abortion.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kanan. Great mind stimulating post,.
I loved your questions .
For the fire question ,both people are right . They are right in thier own rights. We go though fire drills all the time . We have written Mannuals and we go though training every year. We are told that we must try to extinguish small fire after we set off the alarm . Because it takes time for fire fighter to come the scene and fire can spread but every one of us get hands on training to put off small fires . So if the army man is trained ( or any other employee) ,he is right.people like him should be designated leader . After fire fighters come on the scene we must to follow evacuation plan .( training is provided for evacuation, no expectionsl )
Now the MD. They are right too. They are responsible for every employs safety. If they wrote manual that is very clear to employees , management is right . But they need to change policy .they should find out first before they write fire manual that is any one qualified in the group that will assume leadership and lead the group to safety . and other how is train will help with fighting fire , till fireman come on the scene.
There is no right or wrong answer. It's your instinct at that movement that you follow but you have to be ready to face consequences from your management . And you better not be hindrance to firefighter.. You must follow their orders even though your way is better in your view point. No way any one should obstruct fire fighters. .management and employees needs to communicate and get clear cut policies about first reaction before fire fighters arrival. (I assume in India knowing Mumbai Traffice , they will have some time when fire can spread)
Now the second question. I am very opiniated with this issue. I read Dia's explanation . good response in philosophical basic . On need to propagate and evolution therory . i have diffent opinion .you are right Dia ,may be some of them is carring impotant genes . I understand this Dia . But to what price? And who will pay that price? Tax payer? Which will not able to provide funding for research ?
We read about these cases all the time I ways wonder after first disable child why medical profession did not educate the mother ?or she did not go for help but 8 children and 9 on the way ?Why she had so many children ?Need to propagate or need for self gratification or need to make money ? What was it ?
In my option I will educate the lady. Make her understand the problem .make her understand that she needs to go get her tubes tied .find out all the men involved and get them treated so disease does not spread .and encourage lady for abortion . If she is very wealthy lady and provide for them and if promises that she will not spread disease and the kids will not spread it too and she is not burdon on tax payer it's diffident story
So both of your questions have two different answers so in my POW dependence on circumstance no one is wrong or right . . Every one needs to be responsible citizen !!
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Wo oh! Dia and Honey! That's Beethoven KD is talking about. 😆

Because I know it's Beethoven we are talking about, I might have a biased answer so I will back to edit this comment when I have thought it through. But I think , I will still suggest abortion if the woman can not afford to manage all the kids. I am not very sure about the medical side of all this.

Will be back!
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Originally posted by: _saumya_

Wo oh! Dia and Honey! That's Beethoven KD is talking about. 😆


Because I know it's Beethoven we are talking about, I might have a biased answer so I will back to edit this comment when I have thought it through. But I think , I will still suggest abortion if the woman can not afford to manage all the kids. I am not very sure about the medical side of all this.

Will be back!


Sumya ! you have written this " Will be back " many times in the past and never fillful your promise .Is this threat or promise ? Remind me of movie line " I shall return "" and king returns with big Army and losses !! 🤣
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