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@Green : Ok let me try to give my view on this. First based on the story. There are two questions you have asked regarding Rishi. What if he wanted to move on with somebody else? I think that was never ever the case. It was made ample clear to us by all Rishi , Indira & Shweta. I think this is the perception created in forum , that Rishi's right was curtailed in this case , which is not. Rishi has amply made it clear that he has only loved Indira in life , and the second person he came close (to loving) was Shweta ( see my earlier response to Heema , I have given Example). There will never be third girl ever. This was ample clear to both Shweta & Indira( before leap).
Secondly , what if Rishi wanted to remain alone? This was domain of Indira.I don't know , why you are blaming Shweta for Schiming with Indira. Even before the Entry of Shweta , Indira was looking for Bride of Rishi (she registered in Matrimony). So when Shweta came , Indira just get extra motive , since Shweta already loved Rishi. Had Shweta didn't came into the picture , even then Indira would have married Rishi to any other girl , no matter what.
Now , coming to Indira's motive. Initially she was not thinking in that direction. But when she realized that entire world of Rishi revolves around her. She became frantic at the thought , what would become of Rishi after her. So the only conclusion she came , there should atleast be someone , to look after Rishi. There was nobody else , already Rishi was estranged from his family , and Indira's family is a joke. At that time she decided to marry Rishi. Now your question , Doesn't Rishi as an adult have the right to decide his life? Yes , Every Adult has the Right , I perfectly agree. But I think in some rare cases , these rights need to be in Abeyance for some time. For Ex : If One of my loved one decides to Suicide & remains determined, what should I do? I will do whatever to prevent it , even if that requires calling Police. You may say in this case , he is Adult & has got perfect right to do what he wants to do. But I believe for greater good , his right of choice could be taken away (for a time being).
Indira was similarly frantic at the thought of Rishi becoming a living dead , after she is no more. She correctly anticipated that he will forget to live life & enjoy ( this was akin committing to suicide). So she tried to do , what she can do to prevent Rishi's future condition ( She even tried to negotiate with Simi Diwan) , and getting him married was the result she arrived at.
In this she surely trampled the Rishi's right to self determination , but that was done for his own good.
And Yes Intentions do matter. If we take out intention All Judges who have given capital punishment will look murderers. Without Intentions all will look Black & White.
But neither this world , nor life is Black & white. We need to see the Greys in between.
@Bold : Rishi was not able to grieve for Indira?? But I think he grieved a lot. It was his grief only , which was celebrated & applauded on this forum. And even if this was the case , what prevented Rishi from asking Shweta to leave him?
@Violet :Yes life is unpredictable. But whatever the actions we all do , we take into account the probability of favorable outcome , before embarking on Action.
@Blue :Yes , I will answer this for you. Shweta was not looking for Rishi , and yes , she was settled in life. She had came to Delhi for a trip , and it was Rishi who trampled with his car accidently. After coming into Rishi's life again and coming to know he is Married, she didn't thought of getting him. She was excited for Rishi & eager to meet his wife.But circumstances were different , Indira turns out to be her patient. Even when Indira has left all hopes of living , it was Shweta , who searched for treatment , & tried to make everything fine between Inshi. Now when Indira died , Shweta did Marry to Rishi. Now why she didn't go leaving Rishi alone? I think the reason was Indu. Shweta had developed Motherly feelings for her , after giving birth to her. And leaving her alone ,when there was nobody to look after her would have been heartless. And Yes , when option seemed available , at time of DNA Testing , she was ready to go. And finally she went too. Had there not been the case of Indu , Shweta would have left Rishi a long back.
@Brown : Yes , Rishi did try to make himself happy before coming to SN , but Shweta was completely happy before coming to SN.😆 Anyways , he had more chances even in SN to be happy , which he scattered away.
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