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A small token of thanks from the 'member of posts' to all my friends out here...
Thanks for the award though feel i am not deserving and many many great writers amongst us and i just learn from them...
So big thanks to all those and everyone for considering me...
the love and appreciation from you people is much more for me so thanks a lot for it...
My first post made with the intention of well being and spreading positivity in the forum.Now ending my journey with the same...
Yes my last post here..
sorry not able to cme here and give my time so wuld like to end my journey with this beautiful place...
All the discussions on the forum couldnt stop myself writing my last post..
well i would like to take my take on some of the discussions going on...
The main question is arising here is about love..
love happens once, we can fall in love many time and many more...
everyone having ther own perception and own definition of love so we can raise any question its ones own believe...
Once in ur lifetime u get a person with whom u wanna spend ur life with whom u wanna take last breathe of ur life
Also we fell in LOVE many times with the same person and I believe in it...
many times some or the other act or behavior of the person makes u fall on him again and again and u cant stop but loving that person more and more...
here i can say Rishii after loosing his wife and spending 8 years of lifeless life, found a person who not only looks like his shreematiji but also resembles to her in each and every attitude in hers..
So it wont make me difficult to believe he fell for Zaara not JUST because she looks like but bcuz his rooh, his heart believes that she is her only LOVE...He fell in her love again with his shreemati jii only and a passionate and magical jodi Zaashii is made...
I knw many people also questioning Zaaraa and Rishii's relation as in why they hurried and married, how so easily they fell in love..
well all i can say is ther are 2 questions in love where ther is no answer (atleast from myside )
"kitni mohabbat hai" and "yeh pyaar kaise hota hai"..
these are not just songs or lyrics of songs but it is the TRUTH..
u can never ever measure how much you love your loved ones..
No words no quantity is available that could let u knw the answer of it...
And also u can never say how u fell in love..
I believe one moment just one moment is needed where u feel u realize this person is the love of my life, the moment when u feel this is the person with whom i can share my sorrow my happines. the moment when u feel this is the person no matter what i can rely on..
And that moment when the people in LOVE can not only realize then how can any other person say about it...
here too Zaara and Rishii both found ther moment of LOVE..
after going through lonely 8 years finally found LOve and filled the empty place of LoVE in ther lifes...
Haan but i can surely say the moment when Zaashi decided to get married even after deciding to take some time...
It was the moment of loosing your loved ones..
A man who once lost his love no means wanna let go his LOVE this time..
I mean bomb blast was not just an incident, it was that bitter truth, the fear of loosing your loved one that made Zaashii realize it...
LIFE is unpredictable..
Jo haii aaj hai iss lamhe mei haii, kyui hum kal ka sonchkar aaj ki khushii haath se jaane de...
waise bhii jab miya biwi raazi toh aur kya karega kaazi...
He knw he loves her truly and even that person too Love him immensely then why living with a fear of loosing each other..
I knw now ther love,ther trust is going through tough time, but does not mean ther Love is questioned..
if it was simply an infatuation, then i don think Rishii would have reacted and felt guilty of touching a stranger whom he thought to be his shreemati ji after seeing the video of zaara and malik wedding..
but later on observing zaara's habits,her attitude and her soft corner for Indu made Rishii believe she is none other than her Shreematiji and fell for her and even Zaara could but fell for a person whom she evrytime sees closing her eyes, her only LOVE..!!!
sacche pyaar ko koi kaise rok paaye, they confessed ther Love and was blessed at a much Holy and pure place what else can be said about ther LOVE...
Also i din find it wrong when Rishii adressed Zaara as Zaaraji and not as shreematiji...
We love a person for what they are NOT for WHO they are..
Pyaar insaan se hota unke identity ya naam se nahii..
wen Rishii was asked to answer what if Zaara is not Indira, that time he was in thought..
he Loved her following his heart and believing her to be his shreematijii, but when asked wat if she is not Indira..
obviously LOVE is not bounded with names, its the heart that connects you..
So it does between Zaashii, Rishii declared I LOVE YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE..
he does not bother who she is and i respect for him for that..
Love does not changes with situations or circumstances..
this man stood with what he said and what he believes...
I knw Rishii's character has been questioned now mainly after the entry of Indira (according to proofs)...
But here too i din find anything wrong in what he did..
neither Rishii nor anyone thought that Indu from somewhere is gonna get her mom back..it was an unexpected twist that was gifted to Rishii..
Seeing all the proofs and his daughters belief Rishii could not stop but went insearch of her, found and got her back from that place where patients are so ill-treated..
And took all the responsibilities that he felt right...
But this does not mean he should forget the new life that he was starting...
I mean i cant expect Rishii saying zaara no sorry my shreemati ji is back so ther is nothing between us..
toh jo b hua use bhool jaiye aaap apne raaste mei apne raaste???
Obviously the love you share cannot be faded with fraction of seconds..and thats what he meant while talking to zaara..
Nor he ran away from taking care of Indira (according to proofs) where none of her
own family members cme in fromt and support her..
i mean it was really easy for him like all the SN he could have also done the same, infact could have also said i am married now so i am not gonna take any responsibilities of anyone..
But here Rishii a man who love Zaara and also the same man who is taking all the responsibilities of India sharma seeing all the saboots.
Some people saying he is confused and not taking a decision..
But for me he is not at all..
I would rather say he completely justified with the act he is doing..he is clear and said it many times he LOVES zaara but also has some duties that he need to fulfill and all he requires is Zaara's love and support at this crucial time..so nothing wrong in that...
It is said he is doing injustice to both, but i would say he is trying his best to do justice with both and also his daughter...
but the situations he is facing making him or actually i can say to some people say he is doing unjustice...
When he tries to make zaara believe that he does LOVe her, he is blamed for not looking after Indira and where is Love has gone.. but people forget that when he was married to shweta it was often said that he should forget his past life and start a new begining with his wife, but now when he decided he wanted to live his life with zaara then why is he qustioned now...
If he cares and is worried about Indira then people says he is not fair with Zaara...
But even after taking care of both the ladies again he is again blamed.either way Rishii is gonna be blamed...!!
there is nothing new in it always happens here...
I wont say any person at Rishii's place will do the same or not, but i can say one
thing Rishii at this most painful stage watever is doing is justified for me and no questions on any act of his..!!!
Now also he is blamed for manhandling Zaara, but out of anger any person is tend to react the way he did..ab react kare toh b blame na kare toh b blame but atleast for me his character is not ruined infact he is doing wat he feels is right at the very moment...
Also i don why but feel something strange in it.. many noticed Rishii helding Zaara responsible for the kidnapping, but i concentrated on the plan between Rishii and Indu..
may be did he do all this purposely to find the real culprit...
May be i am assuming but in HD anything is possible...
Even if its not the case and Rishii did believed Zaara is the culprit, then i would like to add one more thing, if Zaara on seeing Rishii entering the room with indira (according to proofs) and reacted that agar Zaara ne trust nahi kiya Rishii ka wen he entered the room with Indira, toh agar Rishii ne bhii saboot dekh kar aise react kiya, toh i din find it wrong..!!!
I knw both are different scenarios but jab ek ka reaction ya awishwas justify kar sakte hai toh hum dusre ka reaction bhi justified hai...!!(FOR ME ATLEAST)
I mean the way zaara threatened in front of everyone she will kill anyone coming in between her and Rishii, after listening and seeing the proofs if Rishii reacted that way it is justified for me..
Ab proofs par vishwaas na kare aur dil ki awaaz sune toh galat, aur saboot dekhe toh b galat..
Even ther was problem when Rishii was expecting Zaara to help/support him in taking care of Indira and her responsibilities..
I mean wen Indira (before 8 years leap) after marraige also took her family's responsibility and expected Rishii to support her decision, then if Rishii expecting the same from zaara then nothing in that right...
I knw here too the scenario is different taking ex-wife's responsibility, but the thing is
as her family was her priority but this does not effect her love for Rishii,
similarly Rishii does Love zaara but this will not let him backout from taking caring Indira.
Chahe situation kuch b ho, Rishii the character everytime is qustioned but
many times people do not see the other side..
Anyways this was not a justification thread, i made this thread for my fav jodii Inshii/Zaashii.. For some including me who still believe Inshii/Zaashi are one and the same and loved ther chemistry even now ready to enjoy every bit of them..
I loved watching Zaashi as Inshii and will always, i knw some clues given that zaara might not be Indira, but i am happy and will watch Zaashi till the end and i just cant ruin watching it with any doubts any confusions..
Ab Zaashi hona shayad for some difficult hoga but Impossible toh nahi..jab tak impossible I M Possible rahega hum umeed kyui chode (akhir umeed se saje zindagii)..!!!
Pyaar ke liye chaar pal kam nahi the.
kabhii tum nahi kabhi hum nahi the..
This is apt for our Zaashii. They just began ther new life and the new hurdles ther way..
Life always tests your Love, Many misunderstanding, many hardship going on with our Zaashi an i am sure our Inshii/Zaashii will emerge out winning it
They had few but beautiful memories of ther LOVE...!!
Bhale hii unke beech kayi saare differences aa rahe haii, but ther bond is really strong,
isiliye jo kuch b ho raha haii, they are not able to leave each other..
this is LOVE...!!!
Anyways jo b ho, i woul like to say all the actors are performing excellent..
They are doing double the work they used to.. Doing double role is not an easy task.
Same shots to b given with two characters. Hatts off to ratii.
even Sumit fabulous job, working in same frame with different shots for Zaara, Indira and the body double much of efforts are required and they are doing great job. A big applause for Ratii, Sumit and the entire cast of the show..!!
Once again would like to say, this is a fictious show where logic or reality does not exist... aur hd ne toh illogical tracks ke saare records tod diye.
then why breaking our heads thinking about it soo much, juts enjoy and appreciate the work done by our favs...
Would like to conclude now giving one very basic example...
Moon which is one of the most beautiful creation of nature, itself is not perfect..
Its just a way of telling nothing in this world is perfect..!!!
So its upto to us which way you want to see this natural creation..!
Some may look at its beauty and some points out the flaws...
Jisse chand mei kaami nahi lagti woh sirf chand ki khoobsoorati niharta hai
aur jo sirf chand mei kami dhunta hai use hamesha woh daag hi dikhta hai..
par kuch bhi ho isse chand ki khoobsurati kam nahii hoti, balki dekhne wale ka nazariya pata chalta hai..!!!
Everyone has ther own perception towards anything, its depends on how you look and not what you look at..!!!
Likeways postivity dhoondne se nahii balki nazarriye se milti hai..
If you look at something which is not perfect but still is admired by many its defintely they are looking at the positve side..!!!
This is not only with respect to show, actors or characters but also LIFE...!!!
So friends its just an example to say its only we who can bring positivity..!!!
Sorry kuch zyada hi likhdiya humne,but was so much there to write..
Thank you friends for this lovely experience will miss you all
and sorry if anytime any of my post/comment hurted anyone it never was intended to but agar kisi ko bura laga to really i am sorry...
Few lines for our Inshii/Zaashii
Gardish mein hi Sahi yeh Sitarey hum Nasheen...
Dhoondegi Kal humein yeh Baharein hum Nasheen...
Imtehaan Pyaar ke roz hote Nahin...
Pyaar Waale Kabhi Sabr Khote Nahin...
Mohabbat ho Jaati hai Mohabbat ki nahin Jaati...
Yeh aisi Cheez hai Jo Sab ke hisse mein nahin aati...
Kabhi Aasaan Kabhi Mushkil, Ajab Hai Pyaar Ki Raahen...
Magar Jo Pyaar Karte Hain, Kabhi Bharte Nahin Aahein...
God bless you all
Take care
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
