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Originally posted by: Angels_Sweetz
Ahh...i was thinking abt somethings regd Zara today.
I felt soo Glad that she Stood up for herself, for her feelings, for her respect and brought it out to everyone there...Indu and Rishi mainly. I felt Good that she spoke her heart and Mind. Coz Rishi had to be told abt wht she was going through too...as he had been completely ignoring/overlooking it in his dilemma. In his confusion to be fair for both, he told abt his wish of having both of thm in his life...1 as responsibility and the other as love. But he failed to think or understand how zara would be feeling with it. Initially though Zara understood and herself asked Rishi to take care of Lw, as she needed him more, but with time passing...she realised that it was hurting to see her husband showering care & affection on somebody else, though his 1st wife, it was hurting and increasing her pain that his responsibility towards Lw, isnt allowing him to give anytime to Zara...for nothing regd her, nor talks, nor consoling her, nor understanding her ...absolutely nothing. Added to these repeated refusal and insults frm Indu was hurting her more. Yes she became Insecure, yes she demanded her rights...all in all...it was natural and Fair.Had Rishi given her some respect all these days, had he given ackwldgmt to their relation...things wouldnt have worsen. We had seen Zara looking at Rishi with wish of him coming to her...But he never came to her to talk, to sort out issues. Time passed and the recent happening Zara might have felt that for the sake of Indu, Rishi will never accept their marriage any sooner. The mere refusal of Marriage hurted her deep. She had given him enough time to sort out things and priorities, she had given him enough time for bringing the truth of their marriage infront of all. She bursting out all the truth to Indu at tht situation wasnt immature at all...it was correct as per the situation. Rishi shd have atleast tried to make indu understand at tht time...but he dint.Zara leaving SN...i have different opinions here1 > In 1 way i feel its Good...may be she will get some time to think more properly and to get to a better solution regd 4 lives - Zashi, Indu and lahore wali. And also for sometime she will not have to suffer the constant pain she is getting frm Rishi's indifference, Indu's hatred.2> I feel...there isnt much use here. She shd have talked to Rishi abt evrything, thn just saying tht she will talk only aft he ackwg his marriage to Indu. May be she has to talk to him alone abt how she is feeling, wht shd they do etc etcAhhh...on other thoughts...Zara left SN,,,,but with tears filled eyes & Heavy painful heartWill she get any peace in Mumb ( forget abt S's bro marriage issue) She would be feeling pain throught day and nite thinking abt Rishi, Lw, Indu. Abt wht might be Happenning and how she felt all along these days. Jaha par bhi rahe...Dard tho uthna hi hota hoga na Unhe.God...whn will this Painful track end! Kithne Din hogaye...everyday we r seeing Zara in pain!
Good thots, Nikhi. But in all fairness, it has only been 2-3 days in HD land. All this happened and people mainly ZaShi are just reacting to it. I loved it that zara stood up for herself. But I feel it would have been better, if she would have asked rishi to sit and talk somewhere other than SN, where Indu and LW are not constantly demanding his attention.
She wants rishi to acknowledge their marriage to Indu. But then what. Indu at this time would want to know - what is going to happen to her mom. ZaShi still haven't come to terms with that. Like any child, all Indu wants is her parents to be together. even when shweta was around, that was her main concern. So I feel they should have found some time to talk it out. Just yelling at each other and giving ultimatums will not help. 4 lives are concerned here.
I think it would have been better if Zara had said that, she is going to mumbai for some time, so asks rishi to take that time to sort out his issues, then maybe talk and come to a joint conclusion as to how they want to proceed. Here both Zara and rishi are pushing each other to a corner, where there doesn't seem to be an answer. Rishi on his part has to seriously think about him pleasing Indu, every time she throws a tantrum. And is it going to be so easy to take care of LW at home.
Zarea on her part, should also try to understand that rishi is in a tough situation here. if he is not coming to talk to her, go to him and try to figure out a plan of action.
This excuse of LW id not correct. Indu was just like this even before her appearance. ZaShi gets married 2 days after shweta leaves, what did they think, even if they told her first, she would just come and hug them.
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