Is CVs justifying Rishi's character? - Page 2

Preethi: I really cant go much into this considering the Cvs have laid out ample loopholes for me to fall inside and never be able to come out on my own accord. 😆 Unlike Raj bro I cant say Rishi would have forgiven his family if and when such a circumstance would arise. The only thing I can answer is about Rishi and what he said yesterday. My personal experience tells me that this is what most of us do for our loved ones. Many a times we do not follow our own words but we want to see our loved ones happy. Rishi tries to assuage Indu for one and one reason only. He wishes to see her forget her pain and move on. It is not out of respect for the perfidious dulhari bua. The name is an irony in itself. As her lover/husband he cannot possibly see Indu in so much pain all the time. The only explanation I have is that Rishi cud give a hoot about the besharmas but Indira's life has become a war front because of them. There is a storm brewing in her mind after Bua ji's entry. Not only will it damage her but also Inshi and their relationship. Rishi wishes that Indu let go of her grudges no matter how justified it is so that she can be in peace. Any husband in Rishi's place would have probably done the same. I think Indira is justified in her action too. What she said is correct: One who doesnt go through her pain cant really understand it. And that is exactly why Rk said what he said.. He may not understand Indira's pain completely but it must hurt him to see her inflict herself with so much pain on an everyday basis and the only way Indira can attain peace if she let go of her all her issues. 😊Love Anki!

Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

@ Raj assumptions ki baat nahin hain... Indira clearly mentioned what bua did after hearing that Rishi asked her to forgive her bua... this is not right

the people who went through the pain only knows how much it is difficult to do that... it is easy to say just forgive but he has to keep him in that position and think... CVs simply made his say that dialogue which really didnot sit well with alot people

that is why i felt CVs didnot justified Rishi's action in last episode...

i feel it is justified.

this serial created two sets of followers .

we see rishi deeds are justifiable.

2nd section of followers feel that is not justifiable.

same applies when comes to indiras actions.
some feel she is justifyed when she slaps inshaan and some other did not agree with that.

i perfectly fine with this division of opinion.

so our pov differs.

but we both groups still support this serial.

that is only matters.

Originally posted by: 100raj

preethi--
one more thing--

personally i believe forgiving is best thing to do in life if you want to move forward in life.

agar hum har baar peeche dekhathe rahen and ghav kuredathe rahen then how can we ever become happy in life??

pechala kadvahat bhula ke aage jaane me hi samjhadaari hai.

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i am not taking about dulari here.we know her intentions .so my principle dose not apply here.

Originally posted by: AnkitalovesHD

Preethi: I really cant go much into this considering the Cvs have laid out ample loopholes for me to fall inside and never be able to come out on my own accord. 😆 Unlike Raj bro I cant say Rishi would have forgiven his family if and when such a circumstance would arise. The only thing I can answer is about Rishi and what he said yesterday. My personal experience tells me that this is what most of us do for our loved ones. Many a times we do not follow our own words but we want to see our loved ones happy. Rishi tries to assuage Indu for one and one reason only. He wishes to see her forget her pain and move on. It is not out of respect for the perfidious dulhari bua. The name is an irony in itself. As her lover/husband he cannot possibly see Indu in so much pain all the time. The only explanation I have is that Rishi cud give a hoot about the besharmas but Indira's life has become a war front because of them. There is a storm brewing in her mind after Bua ji's entry. Not only will it damage her but also Inshi and their relationship. Rishi wishes that Indu let go of her grudges no matter how justified it is so that she can be in peace. Any husband in Rishi's place would have probably done the same. I think Indira is justified in her action too. What she said is correct: One who doesnt go through her pain cant really understand it. And that is exactly why Rk said what he said.. He may not understand Indira's pain completely but it must hurt him to see her inflict herself with so much pain on an everyday basis and the only way Indira can attain peace if she let go of her all her issues. 😊Love Anki!

Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

@raj... kadvaa haat bulsaktha hain raj but we cannot forgive them in our life...

this is really not possible in reality... we can forget and move on but when they again come back into our lifes we cannot forgive them though we may face them normally

this is human nature

in my life i forgiven some people who made big dhokha to me.
and now they give much more respect to me because still they feel they need to owe me for there betrayal.

doosaron ko maaf karna aacha hai kyon ki zindaagi itni badi nahin hai ki nafrat ke saath jiya jaaye.

zindagi main log badal jaate hai if we do some thing good for them.

in HD-- no person changes however big incidence happens.
that is very strange.

Originally posted by: 100raj

in my life some people i forgiven who made big dhokha to me.
and now they give much more respect to me becuase still they feel they need to owe me for there betrayal.

doosaron ko maaf karna aacha hai kyon ki zindaagi intni badi nahin hai ki nafrat ke saath jiya jaaye.

i am so happy to see all your responses and Raj thanks alot for commenting...

Originally posted by: kheya-mayur

i actualy cant even understand his reason behind hating his parents!!!!!!

what his parents wanted?
1) they want him to give more imprtance to studies dan drawing n as he did not they his art paper .now let me tell will any parent consider being a painter a safe job future for their lil son n help him remain poor in education

2) they wanted him to join business or become lawyar .whatever they wanted a safe future for their son .

on which point they are at fault????that he left them?????

rishi never really hates his parents ..he has just alienated himself from them ...i agree that every parent cares for the future of their children..but that has not been the case with rishi...here his parents wanted him to get into business not beacuse they wanted him to have a bright future but rather it was a matter of prestige n reputation for them...is it true love??? definitely not..a child who had to be given love and care was always and always condemned and compared to his brother..only a person who has gone through that can realise the humiliation one feels being in such a place...and that too at such a tender age like childhood...it was even shown that his hands were tied because he cudnt catch a ball properly...i dont know wat to call such an action...even child labor is better than sch a humiliation...here the prestige and reputation of the diwans snatched away the childhood of rishi ...rishi is not angry with his parents or just hates them...his respect for his mother inspite of evrytn that she has done to him(or rather for doing nothing to the child who just wished for his mother' love) could be seen when he bent down to take his mother' blessings in the court case...and as far as his relation with sameer is concerned ,he had said to rani bathija during his first meeting with her that he is not against his brother rather he is standing with the truth...
and as far as he asking indira to forgive bua, i find no fault in it...he has been a person who has always believed in forgiving people and we could understand that when he whole heartedly forgave munna when the latter had ijured him badly...Rishi has got a heart of gold...he believes in forgiving people and making relationship better...

Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

well said ankitha... i accept you in some ways 👍🏼

but when matter comes to father it is hard for a girl to forgive anyone who separated her from his father... this is my personal opinion 😳

Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

Raj that is different case you are comparing... we always forgive our friends and there deeds but here the matter is of blood relationships...

some deeds are not easy to forget and forgive

you not seen a life as much as i seen it.

you are still young.

when your age increases your view about this matter changes.

tab tum meri yeh baat yaad karogi.😛