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rajh

@rajh

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

kal sumer aur kuch unfair demand karega.
will indira fulfill that too??

now-
my disappointment with cvs increasing with each passing day.

poor rishi--
he is suffering too much in the hands of indira.
he become a puppet in the the hands of indira.

Edited by 100raj - 13 years ago

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mahkutty

@mahkutty

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Sphari403

How can a Wife ask her husband, if Rishi is Still Indira's Husband or even if she still accepts Rishi as her so called husband to sleep on the Floor.? Rishi's actions and jealousy is justifiable. A wife also needs to put her husbands concerns to rest from time to time but not by degrading him in front of a different character. The creatives of this Sitcom are repeating the same mistakes from the kidnapping debacle.

I concur with you, even I had written in one of my post that it was a glaring mistake on CVs... how can a wife ask her husband to sleep on the floor ? but again did you notice whether Indira and Rishi are husband and wife there is a question mark ? Inder says they are not married and Indu after a couple of days, she doesn't keep sindhoor in her forehead, so what shall we understand ? even if they reckon they are married, legally they aren't and do CVs write thinking that they are unmarried or married we don't know.. but still asking Rishi to lie down was like treating a naukar, which was quite silly as there were enough room in SN to accomodate him.

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Earnshaw09

@Earnshaw09

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Absolutely true;every relationship has to go through this test.But it is not the feeling of insecurity that is in question;it is the depth of love and loyalty that is measured.And today,the CVs have put this test in front of Rishi and Indira,who have beautifully shared it.Rishi's feeling of insecurity is absolutely justified,because before today,there was no one in-between him and Indira,who stood as a threaten to their love;it was indeed Rishi all the time,whom Indira gave her attention to,whom she was so friendly with.And now,Indira seems to share a sense of closeness with Sumer,of course like a friend,which Rishi has difficulty to accept.It's like too alpha males are trying to share the same territory.But Indira sensed this,which disturbed Rishi,which is why she expressed her feelings for him out loud.They are both secure in love,and in fact,the presence of a third person in their lives is going to make their bond more strong.

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Dhanya

@samrudhi.r

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: mahkutty
Dhanya..

Very beautiful post👏

I think it quite a justification through that post why there shouldn't be a thankyou from either of them or why she takes Rishi for granted as she is of the opinion that every action by Indu, Rishi truly understands as to why and concurs with her even without her elaborationg her actions.

This one went bit wrong as Rishi was not the Rishi with his Maakan malkinji... Rishi was competing with Sumer, whom he reckons is a kind of competition to draw Indu attention that anything else. So, when Indu went with what Sumer had to say about being NRI and handing him that naukar post as well as Indu asking Rishi to sleep down, he lost his senses and forgot why Indu might have said so.

I really needed Indu to comfort him as to how important he is still for her and then very quickly he gets back to self.

Mahesh, What rishi felt is understandable, and why indira asked him to do that is also understandable. When she was pacifying Rishi, i wished she will ask him to share her room. After all they are married and it would be a befitting reply to Inder for his nonsense talk of not accepting them as married.

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Dhanya

@samrudhi.r

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Earnshaw
Absolutely true;every relationship has to go through this test.But it is not the feeling of insecurity that is in question;it is the depth of love and loyalty that is measured.And today,the CVs have put this test in front of Rishi and Indira,who have beautifully shared it.Rishi's feeling of insecurity is absolutely justified,because before today,there was no one in-between him and Indira,who stood as a threaten to their love;it was indeed Rishi all the time,whom Indira gave her attention to,whom she was so friendly with.And now,Indira seems to share a sense of closeness with Sumer,of course like a friend,which Rishi has difficulty to accept.It's like too alpha males are trying to share the same territory.But Indira sensed this,which disturbed Rishi,which is why she expressed her feelings for him out loud.They are both secure in love,and in fact,the presence of a third person in their lives is going to make their bond more strong.

I hope CVs will show us how they grow in love, with the trials and tribulations thrown at them from time to time, which at present is Sumer.

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Eliza_D

@Eliza_D

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

somebody said that Indira is laconic. wo "laconic" nahi hai. Use pyar ka izhaar nahi aata, aur kaisey pyaar ke saath izzat dekhana nahi ata. Wo Rishi ko for granted latey hai.

Aaj bhi rishi ko usey manana para, even though wo Rishi ko manay ayee thi😡 ... Indira had not gotten love, so she does not know how to nurture it and make it grow. Her behavior towards rishi is not good...you did not like the naukar scene, I did not like Inshi scene at all. This is not how a lover behaves. Rishi mana bhi nahi that, aur Indira rooth kar bagney ka natak karne lagi.

I feel sometimes that Indira takes away manliness of Rishi. rishi always has to beg for love...Uska pyar aur loyalty Rishi ka haak hai...but Indira usey tarsati hai...this is not good😡

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light_28

@light_28

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Earnshaw
Absolutely true;every relationship has to go through this test.But it is not the feeling of insecurity that is in question;it is the depth of love and loyalty that is measured.And today,the CVs have put this test in front of Rishi and Indira,who have beautifully shared it.Rishi's feeling of insecurity is absolutely justified,because before today,there was no one in-between him and Indira,who stood as a threaten to their love;it was indeed Rishi all the time,whom Indira gave her attention to,whom she was so friendly with.And now,Indira seems to share a sense of closeness with Sumer,of course like a friend,which Rishi has difficulty to accept.It's like too alpha males are trying to share the same territory.But Indira sensed this,which disturbed Rishi,which is why she expressed her feelings for him out loud.They are both secure in love,and in fact,the presence of a third person in their lives is going to make their bond more strong.

Agree with you earnshaw... this track has got many view points .. Mere nazariye se agar dekha toh aaj rishi apni insecurity ke liye bilkul sahi hai and indu bhi apne jagah sahi hai.. Infact indira ne woh insecurity sense ki...this is the big thing that only she could do because woh rishi ke rag rag se wkif hai and the way she spoke to him out loud as you said is actually a sign that she too is srictly not going to allow any misunderstanding happen b/w her and rishi..Otherwise in most serials we see the misunderstanding going deep at first take itself here indira has now given it a red signal.

She knows that he has changed her to a smiling indira.. she is so scared even by the thought of going away from rishi.. Do you think she will ever allow rishi to misunderstand her .. NO.

And i hope cvs get this right😡 and maintain her and rishi's character

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xxxnm

@xxxnm

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Sphari403

How can a Wife ask her husband, if Rishi is Still Indira's Husband or even if she still accepts Rishi as her so called husband to sleep on the Floor.? Rishi's actions and jealousy is justifiable. A wife also needs to put her husbands concerns to rest from time to time but not by degrading him in front of a different character. The creatives of this Sitcom are repeating the same mistakes from the kidnapping debacle.

it makes sense bc bt a house guest and ur own husband who would u ask to sleep on the floor? not the house guest

Edited by nikki1591 - 13 years ago

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sonie singh shrivastava

@sonie32

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: dhanya.r

In today's episode we saw a jealous rishi. Though it started in a comic way, soon we found that it has taken a serious note and rishi felt so bad that Indira had to convince him her love.

This is a situation that many in love have gone through, especially during the initial phase of a relationship. This happens mainly due to insecurity, which arises out of many reasons. Here in rishi's case, I would say it could be due to the insecurity he felt about his closest relationships in his past, with his own parents. He was never accepted for what he was and was always ignored when it came to his emotional needs. Someone who has gone through this in their early phase of life tends to feel that they are not worthy of love.

But till today's episode, I never felt that rishi and indira was insecure in love. I remember that we had discussion in the forum why indira didn't say a thank you when he chose to take her side against his family and even won it for her during the mandy's rape trial. We didn't see rishi also thanking indira for signing off SN papers to arrange money to save his life. She also chose rishi, instead of a shelter for her 7 member family. I thought their relationship has grown beyond the formalities of a 'thank u'. I thought they felt secure in love.

Indira of course convinced him and he also understood well I guess. When u feel secure in a relationship, u can ask them to do anything that you wouldn't normally ask some one else to do. Tht's what indira did when she asked him to sleep on floor and play the part of a servant in their game to save SN. How could have Indira asked Sumer to do that? If she had asked will that not implicate deeper level in their relationship?
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