One good thing that Sumer broughtup bluntly

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Posted: 13 years ago
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One good dialog that Sumer has uttered is calling Indira out on her blindspot - her family. 👏Saying that Rishi was a saint for marrying her was icing on the cake😆

I have long said in many threads, to the boredom of many, that Indira shows classic symptoms of "battered woman" where she has so internalized the abuse, despite her outward bluster, that she fails to see how much damage and danger they pose to her sanity, let alone happiness.

This is one of just many samples

I am not saying this to redraw attention to my old comments but how urgent it is that someone hits Indira on the head with a 2x4 on this issue. Sumer did it bluntly and kudos to him.

Indira thinks it is somehow her responsibility to feed and maintain her family's idle, corrupt lives, when all her sibling (perhaps Vidith can be excused for a little more time) are capable of supporting themselves.

Even today when her mum was yelling at her for leaving her job, she apologetically offered her reasoning. Never have we seen Indira offer her "trademark" style in-you-face pushback. We see her bitter, resigned, accepting etc of her burden and abuse, but never pushback

Only time I saw Kutumb acknowledge Munna's failings was in the immediate aftermath of rape discovery.

Indira really has to urgently come to grips with the psychological disaster that are her familial relationships, and their greed and use of Indira.

Today one amongst them is trying to murder off Rishi because he is a threat as well as in the process get the money off the sale of the house

Tomorrow, what happens if they decide that Indira is too stubborn and their need for easy money is too great. What if they decide to kill her? This is very much a real possibility

Rishi has been reduced to classic "bahu" to gets murdered for money
Indira may become the classic "brother" who gets killed off for property

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Posted: 13 years ago
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We have all been supporting her in her delusion of thinking "they love her" and "she loves them unconditionally"

This is ruining the beautiful word "love"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very early on I had pointed out this insane obsession of Indira to serve her family as if she is a martyr. The Indira fans angst at that kind of statement early on, gave me sense...better to keep quiet here 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shridevigaddam

Very early on I had pointed out this insane obsession of Indira to serve her family as if she is a martyr. The Indira fans angst at that kind of statement early on, gave me sense...better to keep quiet here 😆


This is a sad phenomenon. It is really not love that she feels for them (Ishaan excluded).

You are right. There must be something in her psychological makeup that makes her accept all that they dish. Martyrdom looks ok when young. But when she old, alone, homeless and penniless, it will be of no comfort at all.

What I saw as insanely tragic was handicapping her married life straight off the bat with her family. She never understood the threat her personal life poses to them, inspite of hearing her family taunt her on Rishi day in/day out. This despite Rishi being another Indira devoting his life to feeding them.😡


Can you imagine what would happen if she gets pregnant? What insecurities, dramas that will unleash

Indira needs to wisen up quickly. Rishi and their future life will never be safe. They have not even been legally married and already they have kidnapped him and tried to murder him. What next?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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jkkg you hit the nail on the head
ive never been able to understand this fact about indira why does she do this for them im sure it bothers everyone
i think it had been fed in her brain for the past 10 years that she has to feed them and so shes doing it

it was also rishis decision to help her in her responsibilities im sure hes regretting every minute of it now that he has almost been murdered and kidnapped twice!

shes just destroying her life and its frustrating to watch
leaving the fact that i always feel like murdering the entire family whenever they are onscreen🤢


now that the cvs have apparently highlighted i hope the next track post ipl gives her some brains into this matter that she has to leave sharma nivas for her own sanity and rishis safety

if this doesnt happen i will just be disappointed
there needs to be some growth in this aspect
a major track of her leaving sn may work wonders for trps as well

as i think 99% of the people hate those soul sucking leeches who knows more viewers might tune in to watch now that the negative family has been removed from the equation though for a short while😆
we know ila wont get rid of them😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As mostly only one will be the culprit.. so only that person will be hated or removed and the others will continue the ongoing torture...

Edited by adinats07 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: adinats07

As mostly only one will be the culprit.. so only that person will be hated or removed and the others will continue the ongoing torture...


But there is a rare , very rare possibility that might be whole Sharma Family is involved in that , then ???????????????

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