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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: 100raj



i know.

i still love my old house.i have lot of memories for old house.
but the area become commercialized.every where shop opened.it is not easy to remain in market area.
so i decided to sell that house.and bought an home in extension area.
i still miss that house.
but it is life.you need to be move with time.

i opened this thread based on my experience.

Indira got her home in market place same as mine.

it is painful to sell.but it is practical thing to do.



ya its practical but she cant sell d house untill vidit is back na n she said dat clearly.

n all cant think practicaly .some ppl are practical n some emotional .

indira being emotional.dis house n vidit is only soft corner of her life das y she cant b practical may b though she said he is ready to sell only if vidit too agrees.

but ya agree wid u from practical point of view seeling d house is better .

but stil i cant say indira is wrong n i know u to not saying so 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kheya-mayur



ya its practical but she cant sell d house untill vidit is back na n she said dat clearly.

n all cant think practicaly .some ppl are practical n some emotional .

indira being emotional.dis house n vidit is only soft corner of her life das y she cant b practical may b though she said he is ready to sell only if vidit too agrees.

but ya agree wid u from practical point of view seeling d house is better .

but stil i cant say indira is wrong n i know u to not saying so 😛



yaa.i am not saying indira is completely wrong.but cvs goofed up over title of property it seems.
tcvs should have shown it as ancestral property.
but cvs saying house is of kutumb.
how kutumb got that house i don't know.is this house come as dowry at her marriage??
otherwise it would not have been in her name.
if she got house as marriage gift then she will be absolute owner.
i wanted cvs should have shown it as ancestral property.at that time consulting vidith arises.
as ancestral property will be owned jointly by all family members..

Edited by 100raj - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13
hi,new here,my 1st post 😊
i had pondered abt this thing few days age nd i agree wid d one above who said her stubborness has very much to do wid it.
but tht is also d reason y luv her so much...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@kheya -mayur, money s not everything unless you have enough to live on. and ppl who think about money out of necessity can still be "good"

and as far as indira telling anyone else about vidit bhaiyaa coming back and then selling the house- no she hasnt told anyone that. she saying only that she wil not sell the house.


Edited by np18 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: 100raj



yaa.i am not saying indira is completely wrong.but cvs goofed up over title of property it seems.
tcvs should have shown it as ancestral property.
but cvs saying house is of kutumb.
how kutumb got that house i don't know.is this house come as dowry at her marriage??
otherwise it would not have been in her name.
if she got house as marriage gift then she will be absolute owner.
i wanted cvs should have shown it as ancestral property.at that time consulting vidith arises.
as ancestral property will be owned jointly by all family members..



Agreed that it would be in the best interest of everybody monetarily to sell the house (assuming that they can get a good house in the city for much less $$ as I don't know how much a good house would cost).

However, she did say during one of the episodes that she wants to wait for vidit to come before agreeing to sell the house because he also should have a say in whether they sell the house or not.


As for who's name the house is in... I have been confused about that issue too. The show it as belonging to Kutumb yet it is called the 'Sharma' which is her husband's surname. Also, if Indira has Power of Attorney can Kutumb even sell the house without her says so? And to add to that, how is the document Munna signed with Sameer even legitimate if it is owned by Kutumb and Power of Attorney is in Indira's hand? I just shrug my shoulders sometime and go with the flow.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ParmB





As for who's name the house is in... I have been confused about that issue too. The show it as belonging to Kutumb yet it is called the 'Sharma' which is her husband's surname. Also, if Indira has Power of Attorney can Kutumb even sell the house without her says so? And to add to that, how is the document Munna signed with Sameer even legitimate if it is owned by Kutumb and Power of Attorney is in Indira's hand? I just shrug my shoulders sometime and go with the flow.



looks like cvs themselves in confusion.😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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actually the problem is
if indira does sell tat house
those 50crores will be spent in a year by tat nalayak munna will spend on his drinks,card game
sunaina on food,jewellary
mandira on cosmetics,clothes,spas,hotels
inder on jhumpa
phir bachega hin kya savings ke liye
even if indira wants 2 do FD
will they keep quiet.they will just say its our share of property who are u 2 take decision on our share.just take ur share and give us our share.even if she do fd.fd thod ne ke liye vunhe kaun rok sakta hain or invest tat fd and take loan or money on it
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gorgeousmounika

actually the problem is
if indira does sell tat house
those 50crores will be spent in a year by tat nalayak munna will spend on his drinks,card game
sunaina on food,jewellary
mandira on cosmetics,clothes,spas,hotels
inder on jhumpa

phir bachega hin kya savings ke liye
even if indira wants 2 do FD
will they keep quiet.they will just say its our share of property who are u 2 take decision on our share.just take ur share and give us our share.even if she do fd.fd thod ne ke liye vunhe kaun rok sakta hain or invest tat fd and take loan or money on it



You took the words right out of my mouth. I was thinking last night the same thing! How many times have we seen shows or stories about millionaire lottery winners gone broke? These people have no concept of that type of money and think it is a never ending supply and spend it all in a short span of time. With folks like Indira's family members it would never last long enough to offer anyone comfort for a significant amount of time as the only person capable of making sure it didn't all get wasted would have no say in the matter as she would be pushed aside because the rest of the family would feel they have no need of her any longer.

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