Indiras wrong expectation - Page 2

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

shridevigaddam- doing something for your own family is not charity or social work...its the real love and care from our heart which makes us do that...so if indira continue to take her family's care...it will not charity and she has enough brains...thus taking the right decision...that family with whom she lived for years is much more important than her groom who she will just find...no arguments on this...for me family used to mean everything...family will continue to mean everything...❤️

I would still disagree. First of all it is not charity to Indira. As I said in my response, it is her OCD conscience of feeding and taking care of an ungrateful family. It is not a healthy env at all.
Secondly, prospective groom will see alliance in all regards. Conditions are acceptable if prospective bride is extra-ordinary. Indira at first glance is not that extra-ordinary. And if someone wants to take on her responsibilities, better she go for a love-marriage and not listing herself on matrimonial website. Come on let's not pretend how arranged marriages work.. and what kind of sawaal jawaab are done with regards to economic matters when you are looking out...

Also I just don't think in terms of Indira and family dramas...I am thinking on broader plane. One has understand the dynamics between head and heart on individual level...coming to enlightened way of living, we need to understand economic principles. Grahasti is essentially an economic matter and not just living by subjective ideologies. In the end a person's moral development is nurtured through sane household and family heads which inculcates culture and instills principles. It is important we keep any environment it is, in an healthy manner.
Don't want to make a big post going into socilogical principles as well...but in the end just want to say, if charity is that good, then the whole eastern bloc countries would not have rebelled against communism with its motto of each man according to his need even when he worked more than the others below his intellectual capabilty and he deserved an appreciation in return...

Originally posted by: iolahardy

family is important for sure...par its like jab tak mandira/ munna jaise log pani mein nahi girenge unhe tairna nahi aayega... they will always run to indira for every small thing which is neither correct for them nor to her.

unko ek baar responsibility ka bojh daale to sahi wo...wo sara bojh khud hi uthana chahti hai...as rishi said "saari duniya ka bojh hum uthate hai" now that she has decidd to marry, she should stop giving money in her family...emotions are one thing & being practical is another

agree with you iolahardy..

i believe what indira meant was...can you marry to a girl who has a family like mine? a complete zoo sort of family? i dont think she meant the monetory reasons...

Originally posted by: iolahardy

family is important for sure...par its like jab tak mandira/ munna jaise log pani mein nahi girenge unhe tairna nahi aayega... they will always run to indira for every small thing which is neither correct for them nor to her.

unko ek baar responsibility ka bojh daale to sahi wo...wo sara bojh khud hi uthana chahti hai...as rishi said "saari duniya ka bojh hum uthate hai" now that she has decidd to marry, she should stop giving money in her family...emotions are one thing & being practical is another

Agreed. Until they have no choice but to take care of themselves they never will, they will keep falling back on Indira and she will always be there. It's not like either of them are physically or mentally handicapped that they are unable to work. They are just lazy and choose not too and Indira allows it to some extreme. I have no problem with her helping her family out but it should not be her sole responsibility. There are 3 other adults (not including her mom) that are capable of working why should she be the only one. Even though Munna may not earn as much as her every little bit helps, same with her sister and SIL.

dharti pe bojh family... lolzz . ... 🤣

Originally posted by: Ridhi.

I highly doubt sameer will take this responsibility🤣

Sameer tho chinti chor hai... Woh soch tha hoga indira ke 20,000 mei ghar chalane mei aur petrol aur uska detol spray ka paisa bhi indira se mangega.

Originally posted by: mahkutty

Sameer tho chinti chor hai... Woh soch tha hoga indira ke 20,000 mei ghar chalane mei aur petrol aur uska detol spray ka paisa bhi indira se mangega.

Rishi ki baat hi kuch aur hai. Apna Shrimaatiji ka boj apna boj samaj ke zindagi bar utta ke liye thaiyaar hoga...

sameer kanjus will never take responsibilities her family

I dont think she is wrong
Even is a wrong expectation I'm happy with it. Cos only Rishi'll accept her condition :)