Originally posted by: Surbhi123
we dont need to worry...because no one third than sameer and rishi will enter as indira's groom . So the responsibility can be easily taken . Moreover her expectation is not wrong...there are many son in laws who take care of the girl's family as they don't have parents and etc etc...and its very obvious for indira to keep this expectation as she is the only bread earner for the family...no girl can leave her family knowing that the family will not be able to survive without her...because whatever it is...however it is...we just need to remember that indira lives for the family...
with due respect to to your sentiments, I disagree.
Empathizing is different from charity. Indira ke family ko palna is equivalent to Charity. Charity ke apne benefits hote hain like TAX benefits and Religious and social goodwill. yahan pe charity mein koi benefit nahin. Because Indira's family will insult and humiliate even Indira's husband's family just as they are doing to Indira. Moorkho ko dost banaya ya maan diya, toh khudh hee bewakoof kahlayenge. Like the story of the king and his monkey.
Coming to empathizing with Indira's responsibilities. One can do if one has resources to do. No harm in it. So good she is searching for someone who can share her responsibility, but Please Indira !!!! for God's sake!! don't rub your obsessive feeling of responsibility to take care of your family even if they do not want you on a prospective groom who might like you.
Socio-economics is being reasonable. It does not mean we dig earth in our backyard and bury our brain there!!!!
