How to handle a sensitive person

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Pratamesh

@Pratamesh

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Agree with whatever u hav said
thats why rishi is irritating indira so much
also he helps her out everytime bt by behaving in such a manner that she gets more pissed off coz of him

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Roopal Gupta

@..Roopal..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

fabulous post rinky di
u written it very well
and u r so damn right
and specially i agree with this

2)By using a jeering and a taunting tone. This method helps the person to divert their mind from the obsession with their troubles. Many a times you use this method to open up a very defensive-aggressive person who would otherwise not talk about their problems...

this method not only make the truth come out but also make the person forget his/her problem for a while n also to get their frustration out

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.SilentPrincess

@.SilentPrincess

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+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: -Rinky-

do catch up with the epi...u wud like it i think
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I don't have time right now. And I've lots of episodes to catch up to but I don't have time to watch them all... But then again its a positve thing.. I've lots of episodes i can look forwards too... :)
I haven't even watched the famous "fall-catch between Indira-Rishi. 😆

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JeanieBeanie

@JeanieBeanie

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

I think Indira's barriers need to be broken first before her heart can be reached. I completely agree with your 2 points. Talking to her nicely and showing kindness and sympathy are not going to work because she doesn't recognize those emotions anymore. She's put up like a 20 foot fall around her lol. So that wall has to be broken down and the only way to do that is to challenge her and be just as strong and confident to her. Rishi knows this and he seems to be doing exactly that. Like at the last episode when they're in the hotel and they have a little argument about having dinner with the clients... Indira pounces and Rishi pounces right back. He's showing her that not everyone will bow to her and that there is someone who will challenge her, which of course leaves Indira shocked and clueless of what to make of it. Her guards come down every time Rishi disobeys her and challenges her.

EVentually her thick wall will break down and that's when Rishi will show her kindness and love and care because thats when she'll finally be able to FEEL 😊

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Ally

@.PINK.

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#15

yeah agree with u Rinki

I guess datz Rishi'z way

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moksha89

@moksha89

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#16

rinky, great post! 😃

just got a chance to get onto IF, haha so here i go!

first of all, i like everyone's input! & i'm in agreeance too. i also believe that by getting in arguments with indira, rishi allows her to log heads with someone who can actually respond and bicker back with her while making her forget the 845739586 other things that wiegh her down. all the people in her home and work place cower at a mere glance from her or mention things that can not even knock her into thought. rishi, on the other hand, provides a deeper meaning in his taunts..he literally makes her think over time, too. i do not think indira has ever thought about changing her tone for voicing a gratitude ever before - you could tell that she had to really pause & find the right intonation before voicing a thanks "pyaar se."

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-Rinky-

@-Rinky-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: moksha89
rinky, great post! 😃
just got a chance to get onto IF, haha so here i go!
first of all, i like everyone's input! & i'm in agreeance too. i also believe that by getting in arguments with indira, rishi allows her to log heads with someone who can actually respond and bicker back with her while making her forget the 845739586 other things that wiegh her down. all the people in her home and work place cower at a mere glance from her or mention things that can not even knock her into thought. rishi, on the other hand, provides a deeper meaning in his taunts..he literally makes her think over time, too. i do not think indira has ever thought about changing her tone for voicing a gratitude ever before - you could tell that she had to really pause & find the right intonation before voicing a thanks "pyaar se."

oh ridhi i absoloutely love you for mentioning how she paused before saying the words...pyaar se...man she cant even speak words of grattitude without thinking about it..its gonna be so fun to see her actually struggle with her tone...funnn😆

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-Rinky-

@-Rinky-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: .SilentPrincess

fall-catch scene...was oh-so-cliche...u wud go like...yahan bhi? kya jaroorat tha...look out for the two timing father indar sharma and his pativrata wife...they are a treat to watch...😆

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-Rinky-

@-Rinky-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: roopalgupta
fabulous post rinky di
u written it very well
and u r so damn right
and specially i agree with this

2)By using a jeering and a taunting tone. This method helps the person to divert their mind from the obsession with their troubles. Many a times you use this method to open up a very defensive-aggressive person who would otherwise not talk about their problems...

this method not only make the truth come out but also make the person forget his/her problem for a while n also to get their frustration out

I hope Indira breaks down and we get to see her actually talk about her self...her feelings...her fear, fright...i want that emotional breakdown and then the smile like a sunshine...😃