Who are better in Expressing their inner feelings ?

Originally posted by: Hema48

I think you are quite right. Ayesha certainly did not hesitate to express her feelings loud and clear that though deep down she knows how different she is from Adi and how he is only focused on his life she still loves him. You could see everything her joy, pain, anger, frustration all feelings while in Adi's case he just told her in no uncertain terms that they can't be together as he has no time for love so he's obviously hiding lots of things!

Yes Hema u also found the difference right between both ?


But at least in this show they were both honest and direct with each other in most other shows you can guarantee that one of them would have withheld the truth from the other and bottom line is that they both know they live each other!

Agreed Completly . Atleast they both confessed straight . Thanks for the reply Hema 😊 .

Originally posted by: londonkababu

Hi there, interesting thread.

You guys will probably bury me alive, but here goes.

It is girls/women who hide their feelings and mask emotions. Us poor guys if we come out straight with our view, we are silly or jokers. Ask any man, he will confirm this, most of the time we have no clue as to what girls want. and when guys blurt out stuff, it comes out half baked, lol.

You girls drive us mad but we love you.

All above is written in a light hearted manner, no offence intended.

Originally posted by: ziks

Hi friends how r u all ? Miss u all . Iam back again with debatable topic .😆

Hi ! Swapna,

Nice post. Good to see you back with this tricky topic.This debate is going on ...forever..!!😆

Three days back when i watched Adi - Ayesha love confession all the way iam thinking
about this . How women express all their inner feelings so beautiful without any hesiatation
and how men are unable to express their feelings in most of the situations .
Swapna... we women cannot keep things and emotions for long. We just put it out whatever may be the consequences!! We have an advantage here because if men do the same it is perceived as weakness in our society...which is patriarchal!! So men keep wondering where to start 😆and we women hit the goal!!😆
I observed so many people actually i did a small research on this . 😆

Majority men hide their true emotions and they will mask their true face even in love
matters or in any situations . They hesitate to express . Even though they expresses
then that also will be upto 50 % half baked . 😊

I think men don't hide their emotions rather keep debating it in their mind till it gets no where!!😆
So we get half baked confessions!!🤢 poor men!!😆
But women gosh majority women they will be like an open book . Whatever they
will feel they never hesitate to express hapiness , sadness , love , hate , fear , angry
every single emotion they expresses so openly than men . 😆

Yeah,.. we women are good at expressing whatever we feel as we are emotional and most of the time think with our heart...but there is another side to it...this makes us unpredictable ( so men are wary about us!!😆)

I dont know why i thought this when i was watching Adisha Confession . I feel like
ayesha simply poured out everything from her heart , she cried , she showed her
depression , sadness immediately infront of him and again she was so angry that also
she showed then and there itself but adhiraj he just hides all his emotions in him.

Ok he confessed that he love her but there is a lot of difference between both of
them when they confessed . What is ur opinion on this ?

I would like to use Nani's line here" Men are a confused lot" OMG...and who makes them confused we women!!! 😳😆😆 Coming to Adisha, Adi waited for Ayesha to spell out what she feels about him although it was obvious that she loves him!! Adiraj is a mystery... I don't know ... I feel he is some activist who wants to change the society...or may be he has some goal in life and the path to which may have a lot of difficulties and challenges ..so he doesn't want to commit himself for Ayesha's love ...though he loves her. This made him hide his emotions. Moreover Ayesha belongs to the society...which does not respect people like Adiraj..and treats them like misfits ( we saw in case of Laajo). Adiraj also knows that Ayesha has had all the comforts in life and life with him would mean like an endurance test for her. And now Adi is trapped in that murder case too . All this has made Adi skeptical about Love...but for Ayesha she is just speaking her heart!! as she is impulsive and to some extent nave.So there is a world of difference in their confessions!! Here I agree with Hema that all this is not about men... but depends on upbringing and the values in which a person believes.

I observed this in case of laakhil also in some situations previously .

With Lakhil it was with Nikhil's confusion regarding his status with Ishana... that took him so long to realize his Love for Laajo!! But coming to confession , we should not forget that it was Nikhil who confessed his Love first to Laajo than vice versa...( Laajo hid the fact that she loved Nikhil all the time till Nikhil forced her to come out with it!!) So this gives men benefit of doubt!!😉😆😆

I.e..we can't generalize that Men hide emotions all the time!!😊

Originally posted by: londonkababu

Hi there, interesting thread.

Thank u Jatinder

You guys will probably bury me alive, but here goes.

No Jatinder . U r always welcome 😊

Actually ur opinion is most important as u can say how much truth in this as a guy .😊

It is girls/women who hide their feelings and mask emotions. Us poor guys if we come out straight with our view, we are silly or jokers. Ask any man, he will confirm this, most of the time we have no clue as to what girls want. and when guys blurt out stuff, it comes out half baked, lol.

I dont think so but i agree that hiding the emotions wont depend on gender completly
it depends on individuals . But i think majority men wont be open unlike women in
expressing their emotions .😊 Surveys says like that .

You girls drive us mad but we love you.

All above is written in a light hearted manner, no offence intended

Thanks for expressing ur views on this . Nice reply .😊
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Originally posted by: varshitap

Sorry for being late, was busy with weekend!! My Comments in Blue.

Bye ..Take care..🤗

Its completly ok yaar as everyone of us are busy . Love ur replies . Thank u .
U too take care . 🤗

Originally posted by: ziks