That is laajvanthi Bharadwaj

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Posted: 11 years ago
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After seeing today's episode i actually dont know what iam feeling . Iam neither
happy nor sad mixed emotions and a lump in my throat all the way while laajo
talking to her mother in law .😕

Its a much needed conversation . Glad that laajo decided to talk openly on
bugging issues . 👏

Its natural that laajo feeling that she does nt suits nikhil or his family who will blame
the poor girl for her thoughts after getting so many insults from her husband , in laws ? 😔

How she thought that because of her he will get embarassed every time .
Is nt it real ? How helpless she looked while she crying to herself what she should do ?
she neither wants to seperate from her husband nor she wants him to be insulted
because of him . My heart goes out for her .😭

How selfless she is once again she proved . Again she thought about nikhil
because of her he should nt feel embarassed . See she just got her husband 's love
she did nt even started to feel completly yet she is ready for another sacrifice
ready to sacrifice her love , her happiness decided to stay away from her husband
until she suits him in all perspectives that is laajo .👏

I mean this girl laajo is she real ? After so much sadness , crying , desperation
craving she got him , after leaving her husband she is ready to die willingly .
But after getting his love she again in mode of sacrificing him. I personally feel if i were
in laajo's place i would never ever let go my husband ever again .
But that is laajo not swapna .😭



The realisation of laajo that she does nt suits their family , the determination
in her to make herself suitable for them , the confidence the challenge she throwed
at her mother in law , ultimate trust in her love that they could never ever be apart,
the desperation of laajo to releive her husband from his guilt , how she tried to put some
sense in barkha make her realise what she was /is doing and requesting her to give
motherly love to her husband its its marvellous amazing . 👏

I onece again say That is laajo . 👍🏼

Her voice modualtion , her body language perfect . The way she talked
with so much respect and at the same time never ever hesitating to show
her own faults , at the same time feeling so much sadness that she has to seperate
from her husband . Wow Wow Wow that is laajo only u can do that girl.👏👏👏


Iam so much happy to see laajo's self confidence , her self respect and her challenge to
barkha that noone can sepertate her from her husband and the way she said
wait for laajo's return and at the same time i had a big lump in my throat
and tears in my eyes that lakhil are again going to seperate this time because
of laajo . 😭😭😭

Iam mad at laajo also why she has taken this decision that is seperating
from her husband ? She just found happiness , love .

but i know that its life its reality , life is not bed of roses as someone said its not
always happiness . One has to struggle , has to fight and win in ups and downs .


Laajo's strength is nikhil's love . With that strength she is all set to fight with her life .
Way to go girl bravo laajo for ur confidence being a village girl .👍🏼


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Posted: 11 years ago
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it is such a powerful episode, two things happened today, Nikhil calling his kaki mom for first time made me cry for him and laajo's decision and talk with barkha...bang on..i will reply again bit later
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved the way Laajo stood up for Nikhil, her self respect. Her confidence comes from Nikhil's love for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Swapna dear ,
I 100% agree with you. Whatever Laajo spoke to Barkha was very much needed , it showed that she has authority to speak as she was her daughter-in-law afterall. But did it have any effect on that stone heart Barkha ? I dont think so!!😡 Barkha seems to me as one stubborn, arrogant woman who does not have a heart!! wicked lady!!😡
Coming to Nikhil and Laajo's relationship. I felt Laajo was a bit selfish yesterday to think of her self respect alone and announce that she will let Nikhil go back with Barkha!! Oh comeon!! after so much of promises and Love she is ready to leave her husband , knowing fully well that he is emotionally dependent on her and sees her as his anchor!! I felt sad for Nikhil ( I know he has given her pain earlier) yesterday, How much will he suffer ? He is been through hell right from his childhood!!
I feel Laajo cannot simply take a decision on behalf of him. So I am confused with all this!! hope some sense prevails over rhetoric!!😊 I think people should stop using Nikhil as some commodity!!
I know many eyebrows will be raised but this is what is happening!!😕
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Originally posted by: varshitap

Swapna dear ,

I 100% agree with you. Whatever Laajo spoke to Barkha was very much needed , it showed that she has authority to speak as she was her daughter-in-law afterall. But did it have any effect on that stone heart Barkha ? I dont think so!!😡 Barkha seems to me as one stubborn, arrogant woman who does not have a heart!! wicked lady!!😡
Coming to Nikhil and Laajo's relationship. I felt Laajo was a bit selfish yesterday to think of her self respect alone and announce that she will let Nikhil go back with Barkha!! Oh comeon!! after so much of promises and Love she is ready to leave her husband , knowing fully well that he is emotionally dependent on her and sees her as his anchor!! I felt sad for Nikhil ( I know he has given her pain earlier) yesterday, How much will he suffer ? He is been through hell right from his childhood!!
I feel Laajo cannot simply take a decision on behalf of him. So I am confused with all this!! hope some sense prevails over rhetoric!!😊 I think people should stop using Nikhil as some commodity!!
I know many eyebrows will be raised but this is what is happening!!😕

actually I defend laajo's talk with mom in law , I even agree with her that in a twisted way Barkha loves Nikhil---Cvs like to give subtle hints...Barkha hAS at many instances reacted strangely where Nikhil is concerned, but moment she knows Nikhil is not in any serious danger, her claws come out to start putting her claws back in his heart.
But I agree varsha, I have been thinking exactly the same, even though I know Laajo is right in thinking Nikhil will be ashamed of her etc,but she could achieve that while living with Nikhil too na,she could stay with him in delhi in a separate nominal house, learn to be fit to his society and then prove to mom in law,in doing this laajo is making sure Nikhil wont forgive his mom for a very long time.I understand from a soap point of view, this track will stretch longer and would bring more conflicts hence Cvs chose it for its melodrama value.but morally this is wrong not to consult Nikhil before making such a serious decision, It was about her pride and self respect. I would reserve my decision on Laajo's talk until we see next few episodes, but I felt yesterday was partly about pride and partly about confused mind of LaAJO AND HER INNER CONFLICTS.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

it is such a powerful episode, two things happened today, Nikhil calling his kaki mom for first time made me cry for him and laajo's decision and talk with barkha...bang on..i will reply again bit later



Exactly two important conversations . Both are so much needed .😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: suwas

Loved the way Laajo stood up for Nikhil, her self respect. Her confidence comes from Nikhil's love for her.



Agreed yaar Nikhil's love is her confidence .😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: varshitap

Swapna dear ,

I 100% agree with you. Whatever Laajo spoke to Barkha was very much needed , it showed that she has authority to speak as she was her daughter-in-law afterall.

So true Varshitha first time laajo spoke to bakha as daughter in law .😊

But did it have any effect on that stone heart Barkha ? I dont think so!!😡 Barkha seems to me as one stubborn, arrogant woman who does not have a heart!! wicked lady!!😡

Who cares ? If i in laajos place na then i would have happily gone with nikhil
with out caring barkha . But this is laajo trying to bring change in her .
she does nt have heart that we all know . Now she does nt even have brains .
How foolish she is behaving ?😡


Coming to Nikhil and Laajo's relationship. I felt Laajo was a bit selfish yesterday to think of her self respect alone and announce that she will let Nikhil go back with Barkha!!

I completly agree she doesnt even think about nikhil while giving word to barkha .
I was so angry with laajo for the first time .😡


Oh comeon!! after so much of promises and Love she is ready to leave her husband , knowing fully well that he is emotionally dependent on her and sees her as his anchor!! I felt sad for Nikhil ( I know he has given her pain earlier) yesterday, How much will he suffer ? He is been through hell right from his childhood!!

Agreed yaar completly . Laajo is behaving in selfish manner how can she leave him
argh 😡

I feel Laajo cannot simply take a decision on behalf of him.

Agreed yaar .
So I am confused with all this!!

Iam angry with laajo

hope some sense prevails over rhetoric!!😊 I think people should stop using Nikhil as some commodity!!

Laajo surely not using him . But this time laajo is complety behaving in unreasonable
selfish manner .


I know many eyebrows will be raised but this is what is happening!!😕

😕


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

actually I defend laajo's talk with mom in law , I even agree with her that in a twisted way Barkha loves Nikhil---Cvs like to give subtle hints...Barkha hAS at many instances reacted strangely where Nikhil is concerned, but moment she knows Nikhil is not in any serious danger, her claws come out to start putting her claws back in his heart.

But I agree varsha, I have been thinking exactly the same, even though I know Laajo is right in thinking Nikhil will be ashamed of her etc,but she could achieve that while living with Nikhil too na,she could stay with him in delhi in a separate nominal house, learn to be fit to his society and then prove to mom in law,in doing this laajo is making sure Nikhil wont forgive his mom for a very long time.I understand from a soap point of view, this track will stretch longer and would bring more conflicts hence Cvs chose it for its melodrama value.but morally this is wrong not to consult Nikhil before making such a serious decision, It was about her pride and self respect. I would reserve my decision on Laajo's talk until we see next few episodes, but I felt yesterday was partly about pride and partly about confused mind of LaAJO AND HER INNER CONFLICTS.



Laajo has gone insane or what ? Why she is leaving her husband ? Is there any need ?
surely one can acheive what they want by staying with their partner also . No need
to stay seperately . what logic is this 1960s . Surely for trps . But it is irritating , unreasonable
stupid track . Laajo is completly fault at it .😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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swapna, laajo has made mistake here,but lets give her some time, I think lots would happen in village before it is finally shown that Nikhil went back.i am bit sad that there was no fight between barkha and baba, I thought he would fight.

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