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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today i'm going to talk about nani ji as per request Sami DI.
But before getting my claws (not sharp ones) šŸ˜‰ Into nani's character, i'll go back to yesterday's epis.
So we've seen Barkha taking the midnight express! Gone to Sonbarsa on the sly. Psycho woman..Gone over there to create havoc.

We've seen Nikhil saying his vows with real conviction this time. ( every day i am losing him a lil more😭😭)
As story goes by, the first time,1/3 of his brain went on vacation the day he turned around, and came back ( in a hurry) 😃to marry Laajo. But fortunately for him and for us viewers, remaining 2/3 knew what it was doing.
So yesterday, promises has been made on both sides...looks like CV's preparing us for future difficulties.

Sooo.. Coming back to Nani, she's one socialite old woman, leading life in a futile pursuit. She seems to have been lacking in her children's upbringing.šŸ˜•I mean, she's kinda responsible for Barkha's turning psycho. Her son is not better either, both children have been moulded in social futilities. So they go around thinking they own the world and everyone should do their bidding. 🤢

But along with being futile, nani has also some human qualities. She can share love, something that Barkha is incapable of.
We can see that Barkha loves Ayesha and that she has adored her first son, but when it comes to Nikhil , it's only rejection.😔 ( Me love my Nikhil, can't bear his sufferings) 😭😭
But Nani is different, she failed in the upbringing of her children, but it was out of love for them.
( bless her)
We have also seen her love for her grand children, that's why she changed ends... šŸ‘
She's been a constant witness to Nik's confusion and sufferings, she was also there after Laajo dumped him ( yep! She dumped him, it has never been the other way round)
Nani has been a silent witness to all his sufferings from childhood, she has tried to warn Barkha about it. But we've heard Barkha's shocking revelation about not being able to love Nikhil. How horrible is that? 🤢
Yesterday nani has seen that the die has been cast... She finally gave a piece of her mind to Inder. ( He's only interested in the BP of his runaway Wife) šŸ˜•
Cruella... I mean Barkha has donned her military attire to pulverize everyone and everything that will come in between her and Nikhil. After walking some kilometres, covered in mud or grass (whatever crud she was covered in) our commander in-chief Cruella has finally arrived in Sonbarsa. 🤢
Nani's worries are justified, she is wise enough to know that Barkha's stubbornness will ruin her relationship with her son, and there will be no going back. Even she, can't undestand how Batkha can 'even' think that Nik's will listen to her after what he had to endure his whole life.

She knows that Nik's has finally found love without any condition attached to it, so why would he listen to Barkha now? For someone like him, who has craved for love during his whole life, Laajo is a real blessing. Why would he give that up?😲

Nani has seen from the beginning what Barkha refuses to see, Nik's falling in love with Laajo and the best part of it, is that she has encouraged him in that path. šŸ‘She is wise enough to know that he has finally found happiness and that his family should accept his decision.
But Mam Barkha is one foolish woman, and even her own mother knows that she has gone too far this time.

So whatever we have been given to see about Nani... She's one good lady who loves her family and will always see to their happiness.😊
We had a glimpse of her good sense, when she went against Ayesha marrying Syd the Pervert. But there too Barkha was blind as a bat.😔

So cheers to Nani! She deserves all the honors in my today's post. šŸ‘šŸ‘

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well, She is a cute old lady, Carina, but still a frivolous one.

She does love her children but seem to have given them a shallow upbringing. Her attitude with Laajo at the beginning was actually her false front because she is basically kind. So I am assuming it was a false front to please that spoilt daughter of hers.

I think her daughter in law helps to keep her in the right track, though we have to admit it was always with little difficulty.

To her credit, she does love her grandchildren and they seem to adore her. I suppose she was mean to Laajo and plotted against her whilst using Ishaana because she sincerely thot that he loved Ishaana. So we can excuse her there.

But we can't excuse her for not pointing out to her daughter that she has been WRONG!. Yes we know that she has told Barkha that she was neglecting Nikhil off and on. But off and on was not enough.

Nani is a mother. The mother's job is to be firm , loud , and consistent when she corrects her child. Her child might be a married grown up, but when she is in the wrong path, the mother STILL needs to show her the way. Our Wise nani failed.

No, no, I am not being harsh with the cute old women. It is a fact that mothers are duty bound to correct their childrens attitude but silly nani did not.

I wonder if she DECIDED to become frivolous and shallow to be in good terms and stay within the same zone as her daughter.

Now that she is seeing Nikhil leaving the nest, she wakes up and tries to correct Barkha. Well, as Carole King sang it loud and clear" its too late baby, now its too late"

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely view šŸ‘
Nani is far from a perfect mother and a grandmother, she has many flaws like she must hve pampered her kids a lot and because of being that perfect socialite lady might have let go of some of her morals in the past
But nonetheless she is caring lady, she immensely cares for her family and that could be strength as well a weakness
She tried her level best to help Barkha sort out her problem but it's Barkha only that can bring change in herself
One thing I don't like about her is the way she treats Meera and how she handles Ravi and Meera's marriage
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: berrysweet

Well, She is a cute old lady, Carina, but still a frivolous one.

She does love her children but seem to have given them a shallow upbringing. Her attitude with Laajo at the beginning was actually her false front because she is basically kind. So I am assuming it was a false front to please that spoilt daughter of hers.

I think her daughter in law helps to keep her in the right track, though we have to admit it was always with little difficulty.

To her credit, she does love her grandchildren and they seem to adore her. I suppose she was mean to Laajo and plotted against her whilst using Ishaana because she sincerely thot that he loved Ishaana. So we can excuse her there.

But we can't excuse her for not pointing out to her daughter that she has been WRONG!. Yes we know that she has told Barkha that she was neglecting Nikhil off and on. But off and on was not enough.

Nani is a mother. The mother's job is to be firm , loud , and consistent when she corrects her child. Her child might be a married grown up, but when she is in the wrong path, the mother STILL needs to show her the way. Our Wise nani failed.

No, no, I am not being harsh with the cute old women. It is a fact that mothers are duty bound to correct their childrens attitude but silly nani did not.

I wonder if she DECIDED to become frivolous and shallow to be in good terms and stay within the same zone as her daughter.

Now that she is seeing Nikhil leaving the nest, she wakes up and tries to correct Barkha. Well, as Carole King sang it loud and clear" its too late baby, now its too late"


Agree with everything u say Berrysweety. She's a cute old lady but she was a lacking mother.
I think Barkha is not responsible for her shallowness and frivolity, its the other way round. Barkha became what she is coze her mom brought her up like that, you can get to see that it's been done to Ayesha also. Looks like it's in the family's genetic pool🤣
The only one that escaped this horrible fate, is Nikhil. He did not turned up like them coze Barkha did not do his education, so he was left to be someone better.
As u say.. It's a little late for Nani to wake up. But better late than never na?😃

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Posted: 11 years ago
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thanks Shania I will reply in one hr as I am stuck at work, I had free time but was updating but thank you for opening the post for nani but am heartbroken at Barkha's cruelty yaar
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Posted: 11 years ago
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'Family genetic pool'. That's hilarious!!!

And Nikhil escaped it because he was not brought up by her? Then poor Nikhil was blessed by god for having such an uncaring mother! šŸ˜† šŸ˜† šŸ˜†
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

Lovely view šŸ‘

Nani is far from a perfect mother and a grandmother, she has many flaws like she must hve pampered her kids a lot and because of being that perfect socialite lady might have let go of some of her morals in the past
But nonetheless she is caring lady, she immensely cares for her family and that could be strength as well a weakness
She tried her level best to help Barkha sort out her problem but it's Barkha only that can bring change in herself
One thing I don't like about her is the way she treats Meera and how she handles Ravi and Meera's marriage


Thanks Desigirl 😊

I have always liked her character, it's true that she has supported her wicked daughter in her misdeeds towards Laajo, but we have also seen that she was the first one to recognise Laajo's qualities. Like in pride and self respect. Later on, we have seen her encouraging Nikhil to clear his ever confused mind and accept his love for Laajo. She was the one to open his eyes, otherwise he would have continued to deny it, and would still be standing in the same spot as confused as ever.šŸ˜†šŸ˜† She forced him to see and accept the truth. And by this action, she erased some of her wrong doings towards Laajo.
As for Meera, she was very harsh with her in the beginning but their relationship is kinda softening. Maybe you have noticed that she's not the mousy type she used to be? šŸ˜†

But i can't stand her husband🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: berrysweet

'Family genetic pool'. That's hilarious!!!

And Nikhil escaped it because he was not brought up by her? Then poor Nikhil was blessed by god for having such an uncaring mother! šŸ˜† šŸ˜† šŸ˜†


Yeah you are right. Nikhil was somehow lucky to have been spared by her.😃

It's what they call a blessing in disguise😊

Edited by Carina - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

thanks Shania I will reply in one hr as I am stuck at work, I had free time but was updating but thank you for opening the post for nani but am heartbroken at Barkha's cruelty yaar


Welcome DI😊

I'm going to watch GD now and will come back later. Me think Barkha's going to give the head ache of the year🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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barkha killed me today ayar,am so upset with her, I mean this mean a mother. Shame on her...😭 I will write my replies soon but am right now saddened by brutality of Barkha's hatred for Nikhil.

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