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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: sami01
I felt sad for Nikhil , I feel he needs to tone down I love u's they r too much I think right now...he has to have some dignity too na,Laajo's love was full of dignity,his is kinda sad...

Love your comments about that scene between Bua ji and Nikhil. She's the sensible one in this story, never really taking sides as she feels for both of them. You are right when you said that she does not really know about the extent of Barkha's cruelty towards her own son. I can't find another word for what she did. (horrible woman) 🤢 socialising and living her own life, while she weighted a seven years old child with guilt. And she backslides again and again...never losing an opportunity to torture him. In psychology, we call it 'emotional abuse'

In the first episode, CV's hinted @ something that maybe went unnoticed... We saw Nikhil remembering a scene with his brother on his birthday. He wanted a guitar as a gift, but was afraid to ask Barkha for it. He said ' Maybe she will get angry' and his brother volunteered to do the asking. That scene hinted @ the inequality of Barkha's love between her sons. It looks like Nikhil has always been the unwanted one and when his brother died, Barkha was more than happy to find a scapegoat.

Coming to Laajo's mom, as i also said before, (happy that we both agree here) she seems to forget that she is responsible for all this mess. She would have done anything to get rid of her daughter when she broke her wedding. It was her fault, Laajo ran away that night, and the words she said after Nik's brought Laajo home, still sticks in my throat 🤢

" Laajo should have been left in that river" that's exactly the words she used. Now why is she so overprotective? Why put all the blame on Nikhil? He was not a good husband to Laajo, true! But he married her to save her from wherever her family was dumping her.

In my opinion, everyone is to blame here, loading Nik's with all the guilt is excessive hypocrisy on her part.

As for Laajo, i think her anger is legitimate, it wouldn't do for any girl's pride to take back right away, someone who is responsible for your sufferings. Having always put forward her self esteem, CV's will contradict themselves if she gives in easily.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: berrysweet
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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: varshitap
Thanks Shania for the wonderful post, I think we owe it to Sami too. I agree with all of you that yes the confusion is slowly turning into determination, But can we bring ourselves to forgive Nikhil? That's a million dollar question!!😕 I think Sami and Shania you people have decided to forgive him!!! Beware of Swapna!!😆😆 just joking. I feel Swapna sees life like " Black or white and there is nothing in between , well I respect her views. But you know guys life doesn't work on a Tit for tat basis and so life is not fair with everyone. Well , after watching Tuesday's episode it seems to have made me philosophical which is so unlike me!!! what to do Babuaji ka asar !!!😆😆
Though Laajo had a caring husband , she got pain from him. Life was unfair to her and reason being her husband Nikhil. ( Here you cant blame Ishana or anyone, coz Nikhil made the choice to flirt with Ishana even after being married) So practically what Saraswati said is right that Babuaji ka kya bharosa?!!!😆😆 He keeps changing his stance like seasons!! and Love is not a season but it is a constant commitment . Who will believe him that he has really regretted his decision to divorce?!! So I think even mature Ram bachan agreed with his wife. For the first time I too agree with the hyper emotional and loud Saraswati. 😳
Coming to Buaji and Nikhil convo. Though it showed repentance , sadness , gloom of rejection and firm determination on the part of Nikhil, Buaji stole the show. She was assessing Nikhil's feelings , testing his determination. She said that if Laajo agrees will Nikhil take her back to Delhi and what will he do if his family doesn't agree and the whole cycle of Laajo's suffering will start again. Nikhil did not answer that question satisfactorily , it seems he is not sure . I think here Nikhil is doing the same mistake which he did while getting married to Laajo. So for me to forgive Nikhil he has to be clear about his decisions because till now his randomness has cost everyone .
Whenever I want to forgive Nikhil , I get that scene " After Laajo's illness Nikhil back in Delhi and enjoying with his friends, rolling on Ishana's lap!!! drinking coke and eating pizza!!" 😡 in front of me!!🤢 Ghosh , did he really feel for Laajo then!!!😡 So Guys , I am trying to find a middle ground between forgiving and not forgiving Nikhil !!! Confused as ever like Nikhil!!!!😆

Parbati was happy to get a new companion in Nikhil !!!🤣 (minus the tent!!!)🤣 Shania dear the C.V's are scanning your comments too I suppose!!!! Acha , acha Likhna!!!😆😆😆

I liked Nikhil folding hands and asking for forgiveness. But Nikhil beta , Laajo is not Paarbati !!!😆

I had tears when Laajo was remembering that Christmas party night when Nikhil and Ishana were so close !! yuk !😡 , how can she forgive Nikhil ?!! I think those bitter memories need a closure from Nikhil. I am waiting how he will do that.😲 Those wounds have not healed yet!!😭

The last scene of Nikhil - Laajo convo was emotional, I could see the hurt , pain which Laajo was trying to hide putting on a firm face. More than Nikhil , Laajo's mind is full of conflict between Love, ethics and trust. ( Its my feeling that somewhere Laajo feels that she will do wrong to Ishana if she accepts Nikhil because Laajo is such a selfless soul). Feel bad for her

When Nikhil asked her to look into his eyes and tell whether she loves him or not , a lone tear ran down her cheeks which made my heart go out to her. That speaks volumes of her Love and commitment towards Nikhil.

On the Acting front Vibhav was the star👏 His expressions of pain, remorse and determination were bang on. Anyways I cant have a crush on him but yes I do admire him.😳 That's it !! I think I got carried away in emotions so excuse me for the looong review!!! Hope its not boring!!😳

Here i am!😉

You are right.. We owe this thread to Sami DI, she's sooo nice i couldn't say no.😆

Normally, I prefer giving my point of views rather than asking for them 😆😆

Nooo your post was not boring, it was really very interesting. You and i have different opinions on Nikhil, but we both want the same thing... That is, Niks to suffer for his wrong doings.

I don't need to forgive him cause i have always loved Nikhil's character, true i get angry with him @ times, but i've never dislike him. Lol he makes you want to take him home and ask your mom to feed him cookies 🤣🤣

Nikhil is someone who has never met true love before Laajo, he mistook friendship for love. In fact he wanted so much to be loved by someone that he just dumped Ishaana in that role. As long as she was @ his side, he was happy. But when real love came banging @ his door, he became completely deaf and blind, refusing to acknowledge it. He decided to cling on even more tightly to his so called love for Ishaana.

You know Varsha, that pizzas eating scene was not a nice one.. Yep! Agree with u. But i don't analyse it in same way... What i can see is a guy trying desperately to get back to his old life, he did everything that he used to do, seeming to think that his life will go back as before. But Laajo's thoughts never left him wherever he went. He was never the same after her sickness.

About what he said to Bua ji, i didn't agree with the " maybe i should not have come back in Laajo's life again" We got a glimpse of Nik's confusing mind once more 😲 But hearing him say that he won't go back without Laajo was good.

There's something very human about this character, after the way he suffered during his whole life, he's still caring and feels for other people.

He wronged Laajo, i totally agree. But he came to realise his errors and he has one chance of rightening them, so here he is trying to do exactly what must be done.

Carrying on a relationship with Ishaana while being married to Laajo was really gross. But he didn't do it because he is a bad guy, he was just an unconscious one. And the scheming women around him took big advantage of that.

If C.V's scanning my comments, il hope they'll take into consideration that viewers are seeking for their Pound of flesh from Mam Barkha. I'm on top of the list 🤣

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Janet777
Well said Shania! Your crush on babuaji is probably infectious passing around 😉 One of the most beautiful epis, wish we get to see more of these.

Totally loved Nikhil today, rightly he has pitched his tent. Totally convinced in his mind, no doubt within himself, but offcourse every one else doubts his decision. He needs to prove that he will keep his commitment this time.

Looking forward to see the cute scenes between laajo and babuaji, hope she takes a bit to forgive him, we can enjoy in the meantime the cute/sad face of Nikhil.

Keep writing guys love to read all your comments!

Thanks Janet😊

I know, i know, there's a crush epidemy going around 😆

It has been said that it will get worst😆😆

I am also hoping to see some really good scenes from now on. Seeing him pitch his tent in front of her house was my favourite scene lol.

Thanks for liking my post😊

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: londonkababu
Hey Guys,

It looks like the battle of the two mothers. Nikhil does come out as a right charlie at the moment. I mean who would give him the time of the day ? Nik needs a strategy plan, first find soldiers to fight his battles (buaji, and Laajo's two younger sisters) to act as foot soldiers. He needs a Warrior at the front (Lajjo's Dad and Nikhil's Grand father), and even then I am sure that Saraswati's broom alone can swat the love army.
Over to you guys.

Hello Jitendar, (hope i did write your name correctly)

Honestly i think Nikhil needs to fight this battle alone. Maybe he can take help from others, but later on.

It's a crucial moment of the story right now, anyone else helping him will spoil the play. It's all about Laajo and him, viewers have been asking for these scenes for a long time now.

I am really enjoying myself, so nothing else for me thank you🤣

Have a nice day! How's the wealther in London? I will be over there next week.

We have wonderful sunny days in Paris, a little windy but very nice.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Shania sami di is having laughing fits, I had to sneak at the scenes..I feel for my Nikhil so much😆 bechara Nikhil I will come back to comment later on 🤣 serious topics...today I cannot think seriously🤣

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Carina
Hello Guys😊
Sami DI wanted me to open a new tread on Nikhil. So here i am... Taraaa😆

So now everyone knows that i've got a crush on Babua ji, and that's why I always finish by siding up with him.🤣

yeah we know dear shania (I just came to know ur name ) u and sami di always
supports him side him .😊

There goes Swapna with double frowns😆

No iam smiling for a change .😉

Loved today's episode more than yesterday. A lot was said today in very few words, the conversation with Bua Ji revealed a lot about what's coming next.. It will somehow shape up the story.

We've seen a multiple display of emotions today, beginning with love, regrets, shame and finally determination.

Vibhav's acting was wonderful as was Sana's. I loved the show of determination from Nik's.
Really vibhav's acting improving but not as much as sana .😃 . Show of determination
ok we will see .

The pitching tent scene (maybe i should say the pitching hay scene) next to Paarbati was bang on!
I knew he was going to do that🤣
But the way he begged her with his hands was really sad and i felt real pity for Nikhil.
That begging scene i could nt connnect shania . something is missing there for sure
i felt .

Really awesome scenes today.
Agree

What about u guys? Your opinions?

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: sami01
I felt sad for Nikhil , I feel he needs to tone down I love u's they r too much I think right now...he has to have some dignity too na,Laajo's love was full of dignity,his is kinda sad...

Di n my opinion he has to say it millions of times then also it wont be sufficient to
cure laajo . He has to have dignity di really i dont think so ? He has to suffer he has to lose
his ego dignity everything . In love no place for dignity , ego .

Remember the pain , hurt , insults he caused to laajo di . Then laajo's dignity where then
all those hundreads of times when he insulted her . Here it is only one or two scenes.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Carina

Hello Jitendar, (hope i did write your name correctly)

Honestly i think Nikhil needs to fight this battle alone. Maybe he can take help from others, but later on.
It's a crucial moment of the story right now, anyone else helping him will spoil the play. It's all about Laajo and him, viewers have been asking for these scenes for a long time now.

I am really enjoying myself, so nothing else for me thank you🤣

Have a nice day! How's the wealther in London? I will be over there next week.
We have wonderful sunny days in Paris, a little windy but very nice.

You are correct, Nikhil does need to fight his own battle, but it's great to see that Laajo's Dad is giving some support to Nikhil, I thought that Grandad would make an attempt to mediate. Sarvati soon got rid of him.

The weather in London is just fantastic, lovely sunny day, temperature around 18C. You will have a blast here. Next week is supposed to be fine as well, but you can never be sure of London and our weather.

Jatinder

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: varshitap
Thanks Shania for the wonderful post, I think we owe it to Sami too. I agree with all of you that yes the confusion is slowly turning into determination, But can we bring ourselves to forgive Nikhil? That's a million dollar question!!😕

Exactly I for sure cant forgive him so easily .

I think Sami and Shania you people have decided to forgive him!!! Beware of Swapna!!😆😆 just joking. I feel Swapna sees life like " Black or white and there is nothing in between , well I respect her views.

Thank u so much for understanding .🤗

But you know guys life doesn't work on a Tit for tat basis and so life is not fair with everyone.

Agree

Well , after watching Tuesday's episode it seems to have made me philosophical which is so unlike me!!! what to do Babuaji ka asar !!!😆😆
Though Laajo had a caring husband , she got pain from him. Life was unfair to her and reason being her husband Nikhil. ( Here you cant blame Ishana or anyone, coz Nikhil made the choice to flirt with Ishana even after being married) So practically what Saraswati said is right that Babuaji ka kya bharosa?!!!😆😆 He keeps changing his stance like seasons!! and Love is not a season but it is a constant commitment . Who will believe him that he has really regretted his decision to divorce?!! So I think even mature Ram bachan agreed with his wife. For the first time I too agree with the hyper emotional and loud Saraswati. 😳

completly agree with ur views as in today's episode his grandfather told losing trust is
easy but gaining trust is sooo difficult .

Coming to Buaji and Nikhil convo. Though it showed repentance , sadness , gloom of rejection and firm determination on the part of Nikhil, Buaji stole the show. She was assessing Nikhil's feelings , testing his determination. She said that if Laajo agrees will Nikhil take her back to Delhi and what will he do if his family doesn't agree and the whole cycle of Laajo's suffering will start again. Nikhil did not answer that question satisfactorily , it seems he is not sure . I think here Nikhil is doing the same mistake which he did while getting married to Laajo. So for me to forgive Nikhil he has to be clear about his decisions because till now his randomness has cost everyone .

Agree yaar completly .

Whenever I want to forgive Nikhil , I get that scene " After Laajo's illness Nikhil back in Delhi and enjoying with his friends, rolling on Ishana's lap!!! drinking coke and eating pizza!!" 😡 in front of me!!🤢 Ghosh , did he really feel for Laajo then!!!😡

Oh dont make me remember that scene yaar its disgusting ever and now iam
not going to forgive him that easily . yaar that scene 🤢😡

So Guys , I am trying to find a middle ground between forgiving and not forgiving Nikhil !!! Confused as ever like Nikhil!!!!😆

I will stick to my ground not forgiving him easily . He has to qualify so many
tests before that .

Parbati was happy to get a new companion in Nikhil !!!🤣 (minus the tent!!!)🤣 Shania dear the C.V's are scanning your comments too I suppose!!!! Acha , acha Likhna!!!😆😆😆 😕

I had tears when Laajo was remembering that Christmas party night when Nikhil and Ishana were so close !! yuk !😡 , how can she forgive Nikhil ?!!

she cant and hope she wont forgive him easily this time . which wife will
forgive her husband so easily who romances infront of her eyes ?

I think those bitter memories need a closure from Nikhil. I am waiting how he will do that.😲 Those wounds have not healed yet!!😭

completly agree . 👍🏼

The last scene of Nikhil - Laajo convo was emotional, I could see the hurt , pain which Laajo was trying to hide putting on a firm face. More than Nikhil , Laajo's mind is full of conflict between Love, ethics and trust. ( Its my feeling that somewhere Laajo feels that she will do wrong to Ishana if she accepts Nikhil because Laajo is such a selfless soul). Feel bad for her

When Nikhil asked her to look into his eyes and tell whether she loves him or not , a lone tear ran down her cheeks which made my heart go out to her. That speaks volumes of her Love and commitment towards Nikhil.

Laajo yes i fely so sorry for her she is in a helpless situation that she cant trust
him inspite of her immense love .

On the Acting front Vibhav was the star👏 His expressions of pain, remorse and determination were bang on. Anyways I cant have a crush on him but yes I do admire him.😳 That's it !! I think I got carried away in emotions so excuse me for the looong review!!! Hope its not boring!!😳

yes vibhav is rocking all the way . ur post is very intersting yaar its not at all boring .

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