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Posted: 11 years ago
#31
haila i knew it 🤣
don't worry hun ..u r always welcome to share ur thoughts :)

okay i also wrote eysterday that now thinsg wil seem forced myself ..but after watching the epi,i didn't feel so yaar .. i knw u search depth ..and Nikhil is always subtle while he thinks of Laajo and his care free attitude towrads her ..well why this can't be love as well yaar? as we have said enough times (😆) he is brought up this way ..he can't naturally feel love for Laajo ..a child who never got hid mother's love after he was 7 year due to some accident can't show love someone naturally ..Laajo never had any family issues ..once she had during marriage and she gave up and was ready to sacrifice her life for family .. even she couldn't bear the family negligence .. but Nikhil never had such a fmaily ..maybe this seems lighter thing to you ..but i really feel family is the first institute which is needed in anyone's life and Nikhil didn't have it ..so expecting anything from him is nothing but a OTT thing! 😳

And,honestly when she wanted to die for Nikhil that was not love acc to me that was her pure obsession ..she was like if i can't get him,i need to die ..that was the sole reason behind her condition .. and i felt that selfish .. just like Nikhil does when he is around ishana .. but now what Laajo is doing,the moment she woke up she turned into a better person yaar ..but Nikhil didn't get this chance ..Laajo's love can be the only chance for him :)

And he is not being forced ..at least i never felt so .. sometimes people need right direction but that is not forcing ..what u think of him?is he firm in his ways?he is always confused and walking in a cricle .. he needs to break it and find the right direction ..

and don't worry ..i know my words won't affect u .. 🤗


Thank u jes for the reply . yes u r right that all of u r saying seeing so many feelings
in nikhil and yes all of these are not effecting me , All these comments on
nikhil wont effect me at this time . Why because his character appears very cheap to me
at this period Immoral , weak , confusing , valueless, no ethics on the whole pukeworthy
at this time . He is the same nikhil who agreed to engagement , who flirting shamelessly
all the time inspite of being married .

After seeing laajo in that condition , faced so many people in sonbarsa and
he after returning what he did ? cried once got rid of guilt and started bloody
flirting again .

So what today if someone told him laajo loved him and he thought about her
memorised the scenes i cant understand what is so great about that and what is
that making him great all of a sudden forgetting all his immoral behaviour .

those thoughts also were forced by some girl . i did nt find anything to feel happy
today . Actually i was more sad that he is thinking about
laajo as someone made him not on his own .

Iam a practical person and beleive in genuine feelings pure love thats' y i wont
try to see and imagine myself by seeing so many good things which are not there
in himself
in the first place .


Yaar jes iam not the person who drools on Hero character even he is quite wrong
Immoral person . Character is important , Ethical values are important .

Even though he is abandoned by his mother i mean that no family that's y
he is so confusing thats' y he is like this . laajo is having family that's
she is like this. I partly agree but still i dont find this reason justifyable for his
cheap behaviour and
for his character . Iam sorry .


I wont be mesmerised easily by his charm or whatever . I respect genuine feelings .
I feel if he just thinks about laajo that's natural he just heard that she loves him
so recollecting the scenes thats also natural . What is so happy to feel about ?

What is droolworthy about him i cant understand ? why people are easily forgetting
all the wrongs committed by him by just seeing him thinking about laajo and starts to
praise him ?

Did he do anything praiseworthy ? Nothing . Then why People are feeling happy iam
confused ?
is that because he just left ishaana by saying her that he has some work and going
and thinking about her . That's it ?

Did he even do all thinking by himself ? No. if he had thought all those
by himself i would have felt happy . But someone (raanjo) made him think that . I dont
think it is impressive at all.

After listening such news He has no guts to even say that he needs some time
and leave him alone . Such a coward before ishaana .

I am seeing the show in hope that one day one fineday may be he will
become worthy for laajo . I am seeing the show in that hope and ofcourse
for laajo's character .

I dont know when i will feel nikhil is worthy for laajo ? Until i found myself
he is worthy for laajo yes anyone's drooling comments on him for his simple
actions wont affect me yaar.

until i saw genuine love intense love for laajo i wont imagine and force myself to
imagine that Nikhil might have been thinking like that nikhil might have been
dreaming about laajo nikhil might have been missing laajo and all that .

Hope oneday i will also join ur nikhil club . waiting for that day .😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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aww yaar Nikhil will have long way top go to be worthy of Laajo's love and he himself wil endure that journey tum dekhte jao...for now I know it is small step. But am happy re...vibhav just rocked, am happy for artist for such genuine shot yaar.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: sami01

aww yaar Nikhil will have long way top go to be worthy of Laajo's love and he himself wil endure that journey tum dekhte jao...for now I know it is small step. But am happy re...vibhav just rocked, am happy for artist for such genuine shot yaar.



I agree totally😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: ziks


Thank u jes for the reply . yes u r right that all of u r saying seeing so many feelings
in nikhil and yes all of these are not effecting me , All these comments on
nikhil wont effect me at this time . Why because his character appears very cheap to me
at this period Immoral , weak , confusing , valueless, no ethics on the whole pukeworthy
at this time . He is the same nikhil who agreed to engagement , who flirting shamelessly
all the time inspite of being married .

After seeing laajo in that condition , faced so many people in sonbarsa and
he after returning what he did ? cried once got rid of guilt and started bloody
flirting again .

So what today if someone told him laajo loved him and he thought about her
memorised the scenes i cant understand what is so great about that and what is
that making him great all of a sudden forgetting all his immoral behaviour .

those thoughts also were forced by some girl . i did nt find anything to feel happy
today . Actually i was more sad that he is thinking about
laajo as someone made him not on his own .

Iam a practical person and beleive in genuine feelings pure love thats' y i wont
try to see and imagine myself by seeing so many good things which are not there
in himself
in the first place .


Yaar jes iam not the person who drools on Hero character even he is quite wrong
Immoral person . Character is important , Ethical values are important .

Even though he is abandoned by his mother i mean that no family that's y
he is so confusing thats' y he is like this . laajo is having family that's
she is like this. I partly agree but still i dont find this reason justifyable for his
cheap behaviour and
for his character . Iam sorry .


I wont be mesmerised easily by his charm or whatever . I respect genuine feelings .
I feel if he just thinks about laajo that's natural he just heard that she loves him
so recollecting the scenes thats also natural . What is so happy to feel about ?

What is droolworthy about him i cant understand ? why people are easily forgetting
all the wrongs committed by him by just seeing him thinking about laajo and starts to
praise him ?

Did he do anything praiseworthy ? Nothing . Then why People are feeling happy iam
confused ?
is that because he just left ishaana by saying her that he has some work and going
and thinking about her . That's it ?

Did he even do all thinking by himself ? No. if he had thought all those
by himself i would have felt happy . But someone (raanjo) made him think that . I dont
think it is impressive at all.

After listening such news He has no guts to even say that he needs some time
and leave him alone . Such a coward before ishaana .

I am seeing the show in hope that one day one fineday may be he will
become worthy for laajo . I am seeing the show in that hope and ofcourse
for laajo's character .

I dont know when i will feel nikhil is worthy for laajo ? Until i found myself
he is worthy for laajo yes anyone's drooling comments on him for his simple
actions wont affect me yaar.

until i saw genuine love intense love for laajo i wont imagine and force myself to
imagine that Nikhil might have been thinking like that nikhil might have been
dreaming about laajo nikhil might have been missing laajo and all that .

Hope oneday i will also join ur nikhil club . waiting for that day .😊

it's totally okay yaar ..and there is no club here plz .. when we were angry with Nikhil,we vented out like nothing ..and today he affected us and that's y we r praising him .. :)

And,i need to clear that i m not in drooling party! yes i admire people and character ..but not drooling! i have crossed that drooling period and that's y i m active in GD forum .. and honestly Nikhil is one of the strongest characters i have seen as a hero of a show ..otherwise other heroes just believe in pushing girl to the wall,torturing them to another level and misbehaving with them like they r garbage and then finally feeling love .. and ppl find it passion ..and actually this is the way in which Indian culture defies passion and intensity ... hard but true .. and i was never there in favor of such heroes,sorry!

I do agree that if he remembered her on his own that would have been much better ..but he won't ..if u see his character from the beginning,it is evident he won't ..just for attracting viewers his character can't go unreal .. see i know practical,but u don't knw me as well yaar .. i m also the same ..and i don't believe in over doing of obsession/Love which he did with Ishana and u found it love and intensity ..u always judge his actions but never look at Laajo's ones ..i agree he is not a developed one .. but that doesn't make him bad .. every person can't be developed and that's y we have shades in human character ..and for god sake he didn't murdered her,the way u r saying!!! it was laajo's weakness that she couldn't bear the rejection which was also caused by herself ..she never told him.it is really fairly tale thing which u want,it is not practical on Nikhil's part to realize Lajao's feelings ..if he had so strong senses he would also have realized that ishana is wrong,and also he wld have rose above his mom's negligence and other factors ..JUST Laajo can't be his life ..there are many other factors in his life,he needs to deal with them as well and then he can think of Laajo !!!

And,i know the first thing u want in love is intensity and it can't come overnight .. Like even Laajo,her intensity came out of her unfulfilled desires .. but in case of Nikhil nothing really happened so ..love is also about tenderness .. and being yourself,Nikhil just needed that space and Ranjo gave him that !

Another thing there is nothing WORTHY in love .. u can't judge love in terms of actions .. pain is the gift of love,if u think Nikhil is blame for that then u haven't realized the real essence of Love yet ..Love never promises u happy go lucky days ..it is always about pain and unfilled desires as far as i knw ..and also in this story Nikhil is the needy one,not Laajo ..Laajo has enough of support but not Nikhil..here Nikhil relies on Laajo,not Laajo on Nikhil .. if this is ur objection then i can't help it yaar ..every story has own beauty..it can't just change,here in this story Nikhil is the weakest link and he has made this love story worth living honestly ..all his actions are cause of this story ..and he only he wil take it further ..
Edited by ...Jes... - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

aww yaar Nikhil will have long way top go to be worthy of Laajo's love and he himself wil endure that journey tum dekhte jao...for now I know it is small step. But am happy re...vibhav just rocked, am happy for artist for such genuine shot yaar.

Di,i slightly disagree .. Love is not about being worthy ..if u love someone u would never want to change him .. love is about accepting persons the way they are .. every person can't be same but that's doesn't mean he can't feel love ...and in real senses u wld never got satisfied by chaining ppl ..how long u wld want to change that person? why Nikhil needs to be changed ..Laajo doesn't want so and that's y her love is pure .. she is happy the way Nikhil is,she fell for that Nikhil ..what wil give her to change him??? Nikhil exploring himself is a different thing,he needs to do it for himself ,not bcoz he needs to qualify for the test of Laaj's love ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jes yet again awesome post...I agree with you completely...I enjoyed the episode...Loved Rancho...she is a true friend...hats off to her...And OMG Nikhil...just loved him today...his journey starts from now on...N I m ready to go along this journey with him😳...
The outburst from Rancho was need...as we know Nikhil is weak and he needs to be guide...thats why his mom nani and ishu baby...always play on his weak side...they know to to handle him...which button to press...make him feel guilt...but here Rancho just told what the truth is nothing else...n she told it should matter cause she is out of your life soo enjoy...it wasnt to make him feel guilty or sorry for laajo...just for him to know the truth bas...now what's if he starts thinking about laajo that she actually loved n he couldn't see...i don't see as guilt...he is just amazed with the peace of info he got...he is thinking how could I not see it...how did I missed it...N he always though that laajo was selfless sweet girl...but a selfless lover too ...he was just in awe...

OMG he slept in her room...slept on her bed...just to feel her presence...it was nice done...I lo😳ved it...is his start poit on this journey of soul searching...

you know weak people are just like this...They need guidance ...which he dont get from any of his family member...I know N I have witness some like him...situation might be different but still weak and need a push...it happens sometime...even when we are low in confidence we need that little push...N here nikhil believes that he always hurts his loved one or does bad things...sooo someone like him really need support...

I know he has long way to go but that day is not far when he will realise laajo importance in his life...he already said how she was important in his house...but soon he will realise how important she is in his life...

P.S...this is just what I think...dont mind it plzzz😃
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Originally posted by: ...Hanna...

Jes yet again awesome post...I agree with you completely...I enjoyed the episode...Loved Rancho...she is a true friend...hats off to her...And OMG Nikhil...just loved him today...his journey starts from now on...N I m ready to go along this journey with him😳...

The outburst from Rancho was need...as we know Nikhil is weak and he needs to be guide...thats why his mom nani and ishu baby...always play on his weak side...they know to to handle him...which button to press...make him feel guilt...but here Rancho just told what the truth is nothing else...n she told it should matter cause she is out of your life soo enjoy...it wasnt to make him feel guilty or sorry for laajo...just for him to know the truth bas...now what's if he starts thinking about laajo that she actually loved n he couldn't see...i don't see as guilt...he is just amazed with the peace of info he got...he is thinking how could I not see it...how did I missed it...N he always though that laajo was selfless sweet girl...but a selfless lover too ...he was just in awe...

OMG he slept in her room...slept on her bed...just to feel her presence...it was nice done...I lo😳ved it...is his start poit on this journey of soul searching...

you know weak people are just like this...They need guidance ...which he dont get from any of his family member...I know N I have witness some like him...situation might be different but still weak and need a push...it happens sometime...even when we are low in confidence we need that little push...N here nikhil believes that he always hurts his loved one or does bad things...sooo someone like him really need support...

I know he has long way to go but that day is not far when he will realise laajo importance in his life...he already said how she was important in his house...but soon he will realise how important she is in his life...

P.S...this is just what I think...dont mind it plzzz😃

aww thank u Honey Di 🤗

yes i know right ..it was beautiful ..agree with all u said <3

totally Di ..i myself have seen ti enough! weak ppl are nto so easy to changed ..i myself tried with many persons but it didn't work ..coz it can't happen until the person himself push himself ..and for that he needs to be inspired ..we can't do it ..juts like Nikhil's ..all this time,he was looking for that soul which can give him some peace ..and in yest's epi he got it <3 .. his falling sleep in her room,he was just looking like a child Di who was finally pleased and had a great sleep of contentment and peace !!! <3

yah hope ..now Cvs don't kill our mood any more 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38
As always amazing post ...!! I love the description u give after each and every episode.
I agree the episode was far better than expected. Nikhil will now know the difference between ishana and laajo. How laajo let him go though being in love with him and on the other hand ishana lets no stone unturned to get nikhil back just for herself...!!! Selfish !!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: ...Jes...



it's totally okay yaar ..and there is no club here plz ..

Sorry for saying club yaar .

when we were angry with Nikhil,we vented out like nothing ..and today he affected us and that's y we r praising him .. :)

And,i need to clear that i m not in drooling party! yes i admire people and character ..but not drooling! i have crossed that drooling period and that's y i m active in GD forum ..

I agree that's y we are in GD forum .



and honestly Nikhil is one of the strongest characters i have seen as a hero of a show

Ok that's ur opinion i respect it but i dont think so

..otherwise other heroes just believe in pushing girl to the wall,torturing them to another level and misbehaving with them like they r garbage and then finally feeling love .. and ppl find it passion ..and actually this is the way in which Indian culture defies passion and intensity ... hard but true .. and i was never there in favor of such heroes,sorry!

Hey yaar i know about the show u r talking . I also watched that show and was
in that
forum . Yaar jes really really i hated that hero so much yaar and same time when girls in that forum were completly drooling on him when he was harassing heroine like anything and these people found it passionate and intense chemistry and completly drooling on hero for his good looks . I at that time felt like 😕 . If the hero is not harrasing physically pushing her to wall one day these people feel like intensity was missing . 😊

I do agree that if he remembered her on his own that would have been much better ..

Yeah that's what i want


but he won't ..if u see his character from the beginning,it is evident he won't ..just for attracting viewers his character can't go unreal .. see i know practical,but u don't knw me as well yaar .. i m also the same ..and i don't believe in over doing of obsession/Love which he did with Ishana and u found it love and intensity ..u always judge his actions but never look at Laajo's ones ..i agree he is not a developed one .. but that doesn't make him bad .. every person can't be developed and that's y we have shades in human character ..and for god sake he didn't murdered her,the way u r saying!!! it was laajo's weakness that she couldn't bear the rejection which was also caused by herself ..she never told him.it is really fairly tale thing which u want,it is not practical on Nikhil's part to realize Lajao's feelings ..if he had so strong senses he would also have realized that ishana is wrong,and also he wld have rose above his mom's negligence and other factors ..JUST Laajo can't be his life ..there are many other factors in his life,he needs to deal with them as well and then he can think of Laajo !!!

Hmm i partly agree yaar. I know he did n't murdered her, physically abused her . But he surely mentally harassed her flirting with ishaana infront of her romancing her , not trusting her treating her like doormat not giving her respect she deserves .

I strongly feel he is responsible for
laajo's life current situation and iam not making him bad because he is not developed, confused. I dont like his character i have my own views , judgement about him on basis of Ethics , morals , values and how is behaving in his life with ishaana with laajo that's y my friend .😊

And,i know the first thing u want in love is intensity and it can't come overnight .. Like even Laajo,her intensity came out of her unfulfilled desires .. but in case of Nikhil nothing really happened so ..love is also about tenderness .. and being yourself,Nikhil just needed that space and Ranjo gave him that !

Yaa i know Intensity wont come overnight and iam ready to wait to see that intensity
iam here for that only to feel pure love from both sides .


Another thing there is nothing WORTHY in love .. u can't judge love in terms of actions .. pain is the gift of love,if u think Nikhil is blame for that then u haven't realized the real essence of Love yet ..Love never promises u happy go lucky days ..it is always about pain and unfilled desires as far as i knw .

I love so much these lines jes . Agree with u completly on this yaar .👏


.and also in this story Nikhil is the needy one,not Laajo ..Laajo has enough of support but not Nikhil..here Nikhil relies on Laajo,not Laajo on Nikhil .. if this is ur objection then i can't help it yaar ..every story has own beauty..it can't just change,here in this story Nikhil is the weakest link and he has made this love story worth living honestly ..all his actions are cause of this story ..and he only he wil take it further ..

Yeah every story has its own right all his actions are cause of this story .

Ending line here is Gustakh Dil nis a beautiful Show affectingand moving
so many dils
and stirring so many feelings so much which everyone has
to agree .


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Posted: 11 years ago
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^^yaar ziks 🤗 yah i knw we both have dif POVs :D

and yes i know u don't like weak characters ..me too.in real life i don't prefer such persons and also who loves such persons *runs off* actually thing is,i myself won't commit to such person who can't respect me ..but Laajo has committed,it is not anyone's fault ..so simple .. she knows his weaknesses and still loves him ..so how can we object here???
and i always get ur point that she is suffering for him ..it is not right yaar .. if i fall for a weak person,it is not that weak person's fault .. from the first place it has been a mistake of elders who were involved in these case very much and only bocz of their interference this happened to Laajo ..and afterwards it was Laajo who took all this up ..okay u believe mental harassment na,i give u an example ..okay i love a person but .later he turns out to be a physical abuser .. but i m still there hanging with him and tkaing all his abuse just bcoz my love is pure for that abuser ..now tell me,it is abuser's fault that he abuses me even if my love for him is pure??? No na.. mistakes are done from both sides .. i am not saying abuser is doing it right ,but what i did (in the example :p) was right in ur eyes?u mean u support girls to get abused mentally and physically? No,never ... that is what i m trying to say..i agree Laajo's love has been pure but she kind of wasted on someone who never appreciated that .. now aren't both at fault? ..my point is why Laajo fell weak?u r saying u don't like weak ones and there Laajo herself felt weak so much that she didn't even realized she was causing her self respect .. and u also knw she hanged on just bcoz of her love,not for her parents,and she herself answered this to ranjo ! and even when she was abt to leave,before making hee mind up,she was crying and again gushing that she wil go back only for him as she only stayed for him!

that was logical thing .. but as we know here nothing like this happened ..it is really tender in terms .. it is about only confused feelings .. and he always respected her .. he shouted at her when the trio of barkha,nani and ishu harassed him and he just can't help it and u knw it as well ..

and the problems she is facing in society ..it is NOT Nikhil's fault .. society believes such superstitions about girls,they think girl to be lower than any animal..at least as they worship animals,they behave good with them ..but with women,instead of worshiping their various forms,they torture and harass them to the extent ..it is society's mentality .. and also her parents!!! when she wanted to study,they didn't let her .. but now they have realized all these and letting her do so .. and Laajo's dad is a great human being as he has just realized it on right time when their daughter needed support ..

And,i m saying all these coz this is what the story is about ..in this story all three hearts have done mistakes on their parts and in midst of all these true love will conquer its way ..u just need to give it proper time ..and along with Laajo,Nikhil and Ishana both have suffered .. all three have different approach and that's why they are three individuals here :)

Give it proper time ..still there is time ..his heart needs answers and he wil get them .. and ur point abt Ranjo ..she has done nothing yaar ..she told both of them,not him .. but if it affects Nikhil ..then how can he be Ishana's Nikhil? i m remembering Uditi's posted quote ..'if u love two persons,choose the second one ...' and the cause is known by you already! :)
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