Please clarify my doubt anyone - Page 2

Originally posted by: varshitap

@ Jes.. Well you are right on one count that girls need not sacrifice all the time and they should feel equal to men and have right to voice their opinion and also disagree with things which they don't believe in. But being INNOCENT does not mean being weak all the time. Innocence is a rare attribute which is being yourself and also having a truthful & pure heart. Here Laajo's innocence has never come in her way of being courageous, as Nikhil rightly says that she is the one having more 'Boota'😆. Having said that Laajo is not suffering because she is less confident or innocent or weak, but she is so selfless in love that she doesn't want to hurt her love Nikhil because all she wants is his happiness . In the show Laajo is the hero😉 because a person can be a hero only if He/she can endure pain, suffering, sorrow and be bold in the face of adversity without being dishonest and manipulative. Laajo was never weak, infact she boldly left her in-laws place caring a damn for society or what people of her village would do to her, only to give happiness to her love. I think problems, failures,sorrows in life teach us more than happiness and they show us how strong we are. I am sorry if I have said something out of the way😳.

well i agree innocence is a very rare quality and girls like Ishana doesn't have it ..only few girls like Laajo can have it .. but you are wrong .. every coin has two sides .. Laajo is selfless ..but wait..why?did she scarifice Nikhil's love for her? she doesn't even believe that Nikhil loves her(even we audeicne still don't know that! 😆) she did it cause her existence was creating problmes for Nikhil and others and also for herself,she wasn't able to bear the pain anymore,so she put an end to it and gifted her new pain .. well,it is impossible on any persons to be strong forever .. i knw my words striked another nerve but she is .. i admire her sacrifices more than anyone coz i hav touched this feeling from very near ..but that doesn't change that she is weak ..she always has been .. this is the way indian soaps portray girls n in our cultures girls r also like that .. ok,forget the love part ..but what abt her self respect? she never gave importance to her self respect.. when u don't have respect fro urself how can u respect others?and if u say she did it for her parents ,then u wrong coz it was clarified by Laajo only,she took up all these bcoz of Nikhil's love .. and her wish to be with him .. but she was not convincing as a wife .. she failed as a lover and wife and so sacrificed it .. hard but u need to accept it .. :) and the sacrifice thing for other's happiness that only happens when that happiness relies not in you dear ..bcoz u were never there in that person life so what is d use of u being here? so it is better to live and she did that only and i can get it really well!

i m no against her .. but putting all blame on Nikhil doesn't make it right also .. i don't believe things can only happen for one side in any case .. of course

Originally posted by: varshitap

I missed out one more point, As you said that it is not Nikhil's mistake alone, but Laajo is also to blame for her condition today yes you are right!! but Love has strange ways!!😳 She knew very well that Nikhil loves Ishana and she is just his responsibility, then also she fell for him. She tried her level best to balance her love and Nikhil's happiness, though it meant that she would suffer seeing him in somebody elses thoughts, but when she realized that she is the very reason of pain for Nikhil she just backed off. This is the beauty of love. Love is not claiming someone to be yours but attaining fulfillment in your beloveds happiness. Laajo has never blamed Nikhil and if anybody is to be blamed then it has to be her destiny!!

of course i get it ..as i said i have gone through same trems in life so i underatnd it evry well .. the beauty of Love :) but that doesn't give any one right to blame that person who never even loved me .. yes she shouldn't blame him also ..coz like her life,his life is also at stake,i don't believe in blind judgements ..she was not only a responsibility but also a burden in his life .. coz he had his perfect love life(acc to him) .. but we wil soon get to know she wasn't any of this,she was the only good thing happened to him :)

And,again i wil say the same thing .. if u r suffering from pain or choosing the pain,others r not responsible for it .. even if u sacrifice it is ur choice .. with all this,i never mean to degrade her .i m just trying to say , for any things not a person can be blamed .. she falied and she left .. well ti was bound to happen .. she did all things but she didn't had the spark,she believed in being quite so the result was zero and others can do nothing int hat :)