Nikhil's gonna eat his words......

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Posted: 11 years ago
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After the movie, Nikhil says that the 2nd half of the movie didn't makes sense. He said you can't fall in love more than once. Love, he said, happens only once in a lifetime and that the 2nd one would only be a compromise. So, is his love for Laajo going to be a compromise, his first and only "real" love or will he have fallen in love for the 2nd time?

What's your pick ladies???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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wonderful post 👏👏

pssshhh...nikhil is going to eat his words. ishana and him don't have love, that is not love that is a toxic relationship where only one partner is continuously giving, pleasing, and worshiping the other partner. where one turns batsy-crazy over the littlest of things. someone who jumps from point A to Point D without processing B or C. nikhil is infatuated with ishana nothing more or less.
i do think you can love someone once in a lifetime, but i dont think its impossible when you lose someone, that you cannot find it again or even more so. especially when we grow from our experiences as we get older, our perceptions expand along with our views i think the person we think we are in love with when we were 18 or 19, it might not be the same compared to when we are 30 or 40.

nikhil lacks experience so he doesn't know what love is...he has only been with ishana so he wouldn't truly know and understand that there could be something greater and better out there if and when he lets himself realize that the love he has for ishana is nothing more than fear of loneliness and need for affection and love will he realize the errors of his words
Edited by najialuv88 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Of course he is going to eat his own words. Though he did not say those to hurt Laajo but he will realize he was not right. He may have loved Ishana .. but that is not the end of his life.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well situation, perceptions do change in life so why not love?

Not even sure he really loves Ishana.. its just a feeling inside him that he has to love her, no matter its right ,wrong or not really required at all now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Time will definitely talks and teach him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Situations change, I do think that Nikhil will fall in love with Laajo not a compromise as he thinks second love is but real true love...he loves Ishaana but once he realises that relationship is not ideal for anyone he won't stop loving her immediately but he could realise that the love he has for Ishaana is not the true love...if life can give second chances then why not love Nikhil is going to learn that the hard way
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: najialuv88

wonderful post 👏👏

pssshhh...nikhil is going to eat his words. ishana and him don't have love, that is not love that is a toxic relationship where only one partner is continuously giving, pleasing, and worshiping the other partner. where one turns batsy-crazy over the littlest of things. someone who jumps from point A to Point D without processing B or C. nikhik is infatuated with ishana nothing more or less.
i do think you can love someone once in a lifetime, but i dont think its impossible when you lose someone, that you cannot find it again or even more so. especially when we grow from our experiences as we get older, our perceptions expand along with our views i think the person we think we are in love with when we were 18 or 19, it might not be the same compared to when we are 30 or 40.

nikhil lacks experience so he doesn't know what love is...he has only been with ishana so he wouldn't truly know and understand that there could be something greater and better out there if and when he lets himself realize that the love he has for ishana is nothing more than fear of loneliness and need for affection and love will he realize the errors of his words




I love your answers here, and the toxic relationship described Nikhil/ishana relationship accurately. What is between those two cannot be term love, obsession, yes, possessiveness, yes, selfishness, a lot of it but true love no.

As you've said Nikhil is still quite young and with no real experience. He knows he like Ishana more than some other girls and he thinks that must be love. But when Nikhil truly falls in love later he will realised then what love is.
Edited by bintus02 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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YES love may happen just once for you Mr Nikhil, but who are you really in love with?

who do you fight everyone else to be with?

who cant you stand seeing in pain?

who are you most comfortable with?

who makes you laugh admits pain?

who lets you be you?

who understands you before you to talk?

who makes you so crazy and childish?

who can you leave everything for?

who did you choose take with you had promised the two?

who is your wife?...MR NIKHIL.

you had better see Ishana cry or die in pain, than see Laajo's family reputation in problem.
first Laajo clearly told you she would never kill herself ( and you know she has a fighting spirit. you also know that the family may suffer but with time get over the humiliation. Still you couldnt let laajo go through few months maybe a year of pain.

Mr Nikhil, why did you marry Laajjo?.

hello!!! you are finally in love without you even knowing.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Everything changes, so love too, Ishana Nikhil 's love was a childhood love, Nikhil being ignored by his mom found love in Ishana but the mature love will be with Lajjo and when he will realize it might be late.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nikhil thinks he is love with Ishaana but it may be just familarity,very close friendship. They know each other for last 15 yrs out of 21 years. He hasn't known life without her. She was there when he lost his brother & his mothers love.
Nikhil may not be in love with Lajo yet but she means something to him without him knowing it. He is amused & impressed by her.Most likely love will follow.

He hasn't thought about Ishaana since he came to Son barsa.

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