Hey Nadu
sorry for commenting late.
Thanks for sharing ur heart for the awesome Avita.
I have been thinking this wonderful updater and commentater never posted any topic before why? (im sorry if i missed since i joined IF or if u did it before)As i have seen Dreamy, Vista, CB, Swamini, Lax but never of our coolbie's.
I know im not speechless that hamara coolbie can write this cool , as i do know how cool she is.
What would i say as all the fellow members agreed and appreciated with what u said.Its so True ,from bottom of ur heart, u pouring down everything for the Lovely Avita what exactly feeling for them.Wow!!! U did write it so well , it really touched my heart.
As every one said that its the time for Avi to go through the same phases that Arpi went before by agreeing with u.
One thing i did not understand did Arpi want to take revenge from Avi ? If so its not true love, coz love never takes revenge even though we suffered from the same person whom we loved.
Me thinks that she dont want to take revenge from Avi but she want to mend his ways and make him a complete man bykeeping her happy by keeping his promises to her alive like leaving the crime path on which he been for ages, and as true lover & husband to understand , trust in her values and principles,keep supporting her all the time , as every girl/woman expects from their husband.
She proved herself as the best wife for him
"Bhojyeshu matha, karyashu dhasi, karaneshu manthri, and kshamaya dharithri(still in pending the "sayaneshu rambha" as its not just in her hands other wise Avi with her).
To my knowledge or to my perspective , he just thinking about the mistrust that lead to her suicide. He just thinking by asking forgiveness he will get her back. Is it enough to get her back as he believes his love towards her will bring her back to him. Poor boy still thinking that his apology and SR will bring the happyness in their life. What about his promises to her once he did to her. He is just man of words, not actions or brain. He believed and doubted her before, now he again believed in someone and started trusting her again. Can he assure her this wont happen in her life again. ?He been back to bhayyaji mode once again since she left him thinking she betrayed him. How can she come back to a man who cannot keep promises to his wife in his frustation, raises hands and shouts at her with his arrogance? May be Arpi aka Pihu take all the brunt with smile before she fall ,but she wont be that kinda person as she seen the true colours of his husband whom she loves to the core and wanted and take all the pain to make him walk on the right path and sacrificed her life.
Its time for Avi what the true love means.
Coz
Love is patient, Love is kind. It doesn't envy, it doesnot boast. it doesnot proud, does not rude, it is not self- seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs.Love doesn't delight in evilbut rejoice with the truthIt always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always,perseveres.
Above all love never fails.
As he needs to be tested more and more to become strong(mentally , not physically) and pure just like the gold which becomes more puriifed being burnt in the furnace again and again.
He has to prove all the attributes of this love in actions without her.Then only she will come back to him as he will be trustworthy by then . As we have seen the mamaji showing the right path to follow like Gandhiji and Pt. Nehru ji as the non violence is the true winner at the end is part of shoing what Arpi exactly wanted from him. So Avi has to show her that he was really changed man by keeping his promise to her by leaving the bhayyaji avatar for ever.Can Avi do this really in his life for the sake of his beloved wife?I know its very hard to prove himself he is deserved and trust worthy of her love.Until then i just like to see him going through all the pain and suffer , repentence and realisation and using his own brain and following his own heart only brings her back.
Please dont get angry with me, as this is just my opinion.
Edited by BenNevis - 14 years ago