Originally posted by: chatterbox
hi swamini i had logged off
ok another point i wud say here
pardon arpi.. 😊
sorry vista i m adding my different view here in this post as i dont want to create another topic on this 😊
everyone is blaming arpita for all this fiasco or rather stupidity and foolishness.
let me all ask u one thing
in this age of equality when we say men and women r equal why shud a woman always be wrong or be punished.
if a man can go out and do a mistake or sleep around he is not guilty eh
bt if a woman makes a mistake whole world points a finger at her.
all say why did arpita not confide in her hubby or talk to someone else
when avdesh did his bhishma pratigya did he stop to think of his new bride who has all the desires for a loving married life. he didnt stop to think how it wud affect his wife.
then no one raises a point or rather ppl do forget and forgive his hasty action..
so why cant ppl forgive arpita for the mistake she made
she did wrong yes, she made a blunder yes,
bt its not that she cant be forgiven for it.
her intentions were not wrong even if her actions were wrong or stupid.
if i was avdesh i wud be heartbroken yes, but i wud understand why or what made arpita did this. and i would forgive her and as it is i m forgiving her as me 😆
and at the end of it its just a show thats all
this point was told in view of the current track and why i forgive arpita and not find fault with her actions. 😛
Hey CB😃
I really understand what u mean. For me Men & women are always equal whatever the matter is .
We are the same human being with same heart. God always made them equal. But the civilizations and the cultures brought some inequalities between them according to their mind .
But God has given the same conscience to everybody which cannot be seen but feel inside.
When someone going to do something , the conscience tells us whether its going to be good or bad.
@1st red
In our story so far the couple faithful to each other For the character of Arpi we all know her intentions never ever be wrong. But when u got married and u r in relation with some one the sanctity always matters. (Regardless of gender)Here Wife and husband must be faithful to each other, whatever circumstances they are living in , it does not matter. She knows what she going to do to her husband means she already committed the sin in her heart. But She got somany opportunities came on her way to talk to her husband and family members to sort it in different way still she kept evry thing to herself(may be over confidence about her plan) and done a grave mistake to c RV.she thought she wont let him to succeed in this plan but unfortunately she could not understand the evil RV who is much more dangerous than she thought.
As its story , the CVs want to show RV is not that kinda guy and did not touch her but pretending as if she really consummated by him. But in real world its not possible to c a guy not touching after the deal.What would every one say if RV really done something wrong with her?Still u say Avi deserved her? Marriage and love not just for protecting each other but also caring for other things too.
The morals , ethics and sactity is same for men and women.If some one wrong then they must be punished regardeless of age and gender. ye jindhagi ki ek aur sachayi hi paschathap se badkar koi aur jyadha punishment nahi hai. When someone repent for their sin or mistake , that makes their heart and soul bearing the heavy burden (feeling as if they could not bear it anymore) that brought by their mistake will be taken away forever. But the point is whether they are confessing it or not?Realising its a mistake or not?
But here Arpita still trying to wrap the things under the pallu(which is making me really angry about her), which is not really good for her, even after her husband asking what is the matter . Everytime she keep telling one lie after the other to cover up what she done. It seems to me it will bring the fall of sky on her head.
@2nd red
When it comes to Avi's First Pratigya we should not compare it with what Arpi has done with the deal. I still hate Avi for what he done on their wedding night . But later he realised what he had done and he wanted and trying to restore the things back (he immediately went to search LS and want to finish so that he can fulfill the wish of both sides,though i hate killing ppl as part of revenge).
Two situations are totally different . Avi was totally emotional fool , was not in his senses and was under intensive pressure from BJ and he done a mistake as he even thought about his newly wedded wife even for a second and later blamed her not supporting him.
The night before the wedding he took her outside to tell some of the things she didn't knew about him. He did tell her that his father and Brother were murderd by LS, but did hide that he want to take revenge from LS by killing him. Why did not he tell her about this before marriage?
This is one of the things happens in somany marriages thinking that after marriage evrthing will be settled down(keeping some secrets in the families) and he dont want to tell her coz he thought she will support in this matter or as an arrogant man he thought she has nothing do with that issue. The moment he take the P , I felt he would never ever become a good husband but he got changed his mindset towards Arpi after saved his life .He came to his senses after he nearly saw the mouth of death.. But he never unfaithful to her .(as he already broke his 1st P)., and me think he would never ever do such kinda disgusting thing in his life, even if Arpi left him forever.
As of now sanctity always matters regardless of gender and forgiving and forgetting the things behind makes them moving ahead in their life happily ever after.(its the samething for everyone)
Edited by BenNevis - 14 years ago
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